HeyCorleone:
Methinks whoever composed this is suffering from some serious nervous breakdown. Do visit a psychiatrist.

xendra:
the only person responsible is the person that impregnated them.

heck too many dumb people like you walking around with working dick is enough to have unwanted pregnancies. we control your type we control unwanted pregnancy.

sinaj:
Why blame the mothers when they didnt arrange men to sleep with their daughters

Womanpleaser:

How many mothers ever taught their daughter about sex and protection?

Womanpleaser:

How many mothers ever taught their daughter about sex and protection?

sinaj:
lol

Some parents still do. Besides this is 2017, thing like this are been taught in schl, on tv, magazines, church too.

No matter how you teach a child, you will never take away the power of Choice from them.

sinaj:
lol

Some parents still do. Besides this is 2017, thing like this are been taught in schl, on tv, magazines, church too.

No matter how you teach a child, you will never take away the power of Choice from them.

Womanpleaser:

How many mothers ever taught their daughter about sex and protection?

sinaj:
Why blame the mothers when they didnt arrange men to sleep with their daughters

Lalas247:


Parentss maybe
Not just the mothers.... look we are in 2017 this is a country where a 24 year old can’t even say I kissed him without whispering like WTF!

So u expect the parents of this generation to sit their female daughters down and give them sex education 1.0 .... NO
Let’s just hope new parents and mothers are a bit more open minded so their kids knows A from B and can make the right choices...

I think for Nigerians it’s SOCIETY and MENTALITY

It’s like saying men are the reason the country so Fûcked up which is not the case ... everyone has a hand in it

My parents travelled a lot so exposed them to various cultures so we never had this issue ... with all the exposure ... my younger sis married a virgin .. younger brothers virgins but trust and believe they are clued up and not naive getting pregnant or getting a chic pregnant Issa no no .. carreers to be made

Lalas247:

My mum did with all our girls

The first time we saw our period .. she put us to one corner and let us no ... at 13 we should never ever let a man near our private parts ... told us we could get pregnant if a guy even breathes too close that did the trick

I was so scared even as a virgin I was taking contraception make one guy no breathe too much give person belle !
It’s funny but it did the trick

Alwaysking:
I guess you are no longer a virgin, someone has already visited that sambisa forest.

Lalas247:


Parentss maybe
Not just the mothers.... look we are in 2017 this is a country where a 24 year old can’t even say I kissed him without whispering like WTF!

So u expect the parents of this generation to sit their female daughters down and give them sex education 1.0 .... NO
Let’s just hope new parents and mothers are a bit more open minded so their kids knows A from B and can make the right choices...

I think for Nigerians it’s SOCIETY and MENTALITY

It’s like saying men are the reason the country so Fûcked up which is not the case ... everyone has a hand in it

My parents travelled a lot so exposed them to various cultures so we never had this issue ... with all the exposure ... my younger sis married a virgin .. younger brothers virgins but trust and believe they are clued up and not naive getting pregnant or getting a chic pregnant Issa no no .. carreers to be made

Lalas247:

Lol na that wan u go see come n check it for me na oniranu

Ps it’s not a forest ... I wax

Alwaysking:
Lol lemme come and check it out maybe you are saying the truth

Womanpleaser:
U wan blind, abi

Victornezzar:

hello do u av any junior sister

Alwaysking:
Lol lemme come and check it out maybe you are saying the truth

KreativGenius:






Why should an adult not know about sex and its intricacies. It's caused by holier-than-thou atittude, infact, many boys and girls in their teens explore because sex isn't discussed at home and when they hear stuffs their mates tell them they want to explore and experiment it. It's a vicious cycle, but we can stop it from perpetuating itself.

For me, immediately we all clocked 23-25, i was speaking about sex like " kilode " in the house.

It was to give the ladies an atmosphere of ambiance, and freedom. It allows thoughts that roam our minds in the dark find freedom to be expressed, it alleviates the tension in the body, and helps " ladies " even more than guys relax. We should discuss sex in our homes, if parents don't brothers shoud. It helped the ladies around me back then into marriage ( both visiting friends and family ).

We should talk about sex in the home,once we feel the time is right ! Infact, we should ask females come, why don't you have guys asking you out, what is happening once they reach an age of maturity we feel they can handle it.

My own take sha !

Lalas247:


Ahhh there are some homes even at that age you can’t just stroll in with a guy or chic .... trust me a lot of people here can confirm....
Even at sec school to tell your mum you are going to beach party is hard why “you can even get slapped for thinking you can go “
I’m telling you even the few ladies yo7 see here talking about sex anyhow .. can’t do such with their peers or at home ... my sis that is married still whispering when she talks about it .... I’m like whose there with you ..”no one “ then I ask why she whispering said her neighbours can hear .... I’m like na wa o ... but she’s always been shy sha

Womanpleaser:
Sex Education is neglected in school as it is not included in the Education Curriculum.

Almost all parents avoid this discussion with their female children.

These are the common things that parens say to their female children (which is not helping matters).

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To female: Dont play with boys, dont let any man touch your breast and pant, you will get pregnant when a man touch your virgina, I will disown you if you get pregnant.

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No proper sex education from mother to daughter, and the trend continues.

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The young girl learns about sex from the outside world.

Between 10 and 15, majority experiences their first sex.

Within a year or 3, unwanted pregnancy comes in and the rest follow (like becoming a mother before 17 or aborting).

This is very common in the South-West.

To all mothers on Nairaland and to the future mothers, please do not neglect your female child(ren) when they really need you.

Indulge them in sex education. Feed them adequately with all the informations that will help them.