antysocial:
I was chatting with my gf yesterday and was really priding myself on how I was a perfect guy for any woman. I couldn't believe it when she said I has a flaw. She told me I'm too gentle and Calm. She said I have never we gotten angry with her before . I was like what's wrong with that and she said she doesn't like that . She said she doesn't like me talking nonsense from her even after apologizing and all that. She was like she would just like to see me angry with her , shout on her or smthing. She told me whenever there was an agreement between us and she apologises , she wasn't expecting me to forgive her so easily, at least she expected me to snub her and all that. I have been very confused since yesterday after those statements. I mean : what do girls really want.?

kepstone:
pls borrow Brain and maturity and give to that girl of yours... pls understand a man was never design to be aggressive its not in our nature to be. been a man has nothing to do with all this crappy dominance and d rest. a man is a man of purpose who's vision is concrete who's lifestyle is predictable who has does work with out compromising integrity. sir you are not weak, I bet she is the one weak and sick and needs a hospital. all this nonsense ladies are getting from Hollywood and nollywood about a man as an alpha male not wussy and bla bla. a man can not love a woman genuinely if he does not respect her and love her and be gentle to her and towards her. were did u see in the Bible God describing love as aggression and venting of anger. were we get our information matters a lot cos this alone shape our perspective and affect our mentality. you better sit her down and talk to her been in charge does not mean shouting and over controlling. you can command respect and buttress your point in a calm and yet powerful manner. don't be a tyrant and a bully to ur woman. if she says you are too calm pls allow her to marry a man full of rage and no respect and value for her, she will be the one to run back to you 2 years later and tell you I made a big mistake. a times I wonder how our ladies are engineered to think, they pray for what dey desire and when it comes they resent the prayer been answered by giving excuse for he is weak, not strong and the rest. bro pls be you and don't allow any myopic girl remould u into who you are not. all the marriages I have study who really succeeded and enjoyed most of the ladies married men who truly loved them and were gentle and affectionate towards them, even though they were firm in there decisions. all the bosses I have ever walked with and succeeded with, were men who were calm and wise not bosses who are full of anger and rage. I never lasted wit them. anger is in the bossom of a fool to be in control is from the way u understand the perspective of life. My girlfriend told me I am too calm I said I know , if I am not this relationships go done catch fire, becos she is not calm as well, sometimes u need maturity dealing with people, i tell her what I need to tell in a calm and loving manner and she send me apology SMS always and even call me to say sorry baby. does DT now mean I am weak, nope I am not... I simply know how to communicate my message in a stronger manner with both of us having understanding of what's been communicated. I can face any man , landlord, boss and the rest I all confront any man. if a man wants to cheat me because he feels he is smart and wise I all leaving to God to handle. bro God help you.

Iamfrank:
One funny tin u dnt know about women is dat dey love dominant men, men wu r always in charge... Wen I started dating my gf, I always hv a say abt everything in d relationship, I got tired at sum point thinking am just controlling her anyhow until sh said sh likes me like dat n a woman should b under her man.... Bro dnt form sisi for a gal, dey hate it alot.. I hv sum female frnds wu says dey can't date a guy wu dnt beat dem(not saying u shud beat her).. Try exhibit dat manly trait n c how sh will love u endlessly...

kay29000:
From experience, I have noticed that most girls don't like nice guys. It is almost like they want to be treated like shit. But when a girl treats them badly, they come online to say all men are scum. I just don't understand women sometimes.

tosyne2much:
As weird as it sounds, some girls will rather humble themselves to men who treat them like poo unlike the ones who act all nice and caring.

Why e come be like that baba ?

Iamfrank:
One funny tin u dnt know about women is dat dey love dominant men, men wu r always in charge... Wen I started dating my gf, I always hv a say abt everything in d relationship, I got tired at sum point thinking am just controlling her anyhow until sh said sh likes me like dat n a woman should b under her man.... Bro dnt form sisi for a gal, dey hate it alot.. I hv sum female frnds wu says dey can't date a guy wu dnt beat dem(not saying u shud beat her).. Try exhibit dat manly trait n c how sh will love u endlessly...

kay29000:


I don't know o! Women are so complicated. I can never forget this girl I liked so much (as a friend) back in my teen days. She had this guy that used to beat her anyhow. One day, I saved her from the guy's beating, and she was so thankful and all. The next day, I saw her on Okada with the guy, holding tightly to the guy and smiling. I swear, the Gala I was eating fell out of my mouth.

It is like that movie, The Last American Virgin... The virgin guy helped the girl get an abortion when her 'bad boy' boyfriend abandoned her. He cared for her till she got better, and the next thing he knew, she was back with the bad guy at the end. Men! The nice guy cried his eyes out. The movie was actually based on a true story. Most women don't like nice guys. #Fact


To be honest, I don't understand women, and I am not trying to understand them. I would rather try to understand money better.

Hahahaha

I have friends who treat their girlfriends harshly and I know how these ladies humble and submit themselves and this keeps me wondering my brother.

From my own little experience too, being a "Mr nice guy" sometimes does not keep a relationship

tosyne2much:
Hahahaha

I have friends who treat their girlfriends harshly and I know how these ladies humble and submit themselves and this keeps me wondering oooo.

From my own little experience too, being a "Mr nice guy" is not what you need to keep a relationship

Iamfrank:
One funny tin u dnt know about women is dat dey love dominant men, men wu r always in charge... Wen I started dating my gf, I always hv a say abt everything in d relationship, I got tired at sum point thinking am just controlling her anyhow until sh said sh likes me like dat n a woman should b under her man.... Bro dnt form sisi for a gal, dey hate it alot.. I hv sum female frnds wu says dey can't date a guy wu dnt beat dem(not saying u shud beat her).. Try exhibit dat manly trait n c how sh will love u endlessly...

BiggyB242:
When you find yourself in so many abusive relationship, you finally thinks that's the norm.

Many MATURED ladies are looking for you type of person, don't become a monster because you want to impress a lady.

This is where you nailed it man.. When a lady is already used to being treated like poo, no matter how much you try to shower her with love and affection, she won't still appreciate it.

It's just like clothing a pig in nice attires, it will still seek solace in the mud

BiggyB242:
When you find yourself in so many abusive relationship, you finally thinks that's the norm.

Many MATURED ladies are looking for you type of person, don't become a monster because you want to impress a lady.