Here are the crucial topics to discuss together before the wedding—and what's okay to disagree on.

Maybe you're pursuing premarital counseling right now, or maybe it's the last thing on your mind. Either way, you already know there are a few touchy issues engaged couples are "supposed" to talk about before making it official. We asked a few seasoned couples' therapists to give us the prewedding conversation lowdown, below, and map out the tough discussions to have with your soon-to-be spouse before heading down the aisle.

Once you know the important conversations to have, you can determine the best approach for having these talks. With a premarital counselor, therapist or head of a religious institution is the most common, but for tech-minded millennials or those looking for a low-cost, convenient option, there's also Lasting. Lasting is a science-based app backed by The Knot dedicated to improving the health of your (future) marriage or relationship. The app smartly gets to know your relationship and then builds a program just for you and your significant other so venturing into your newlywed status and learning to communicate about some of the more difficult topics has never been easier. Whichever method you prefer, the most important thing is that you're having open and honest conversations.

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