greiboy:
What if she is murderer, but still a virgin

With a cool headed guy like me?.....She would change

sekxy:
how do to know a girl with good past ..
na your type deh end up with the unthinkable

That's not a problem

Continue...e dey your body

sekxy:
all rubbish!!

your write up is as dumb as the writer!!

why center everything from sexual perspectives, ,

you said girls have numerous boyfriends

what of guys that keep main chick,side chick,half chick,before chick and countless chick and yet boast about it,,even to the extent of rubbing it to our face that they are born polygamous. .




again you said girls have boyfriends because of money

what of guys that keep girlfriends for sexual gratification
have heard countless time when guys have to quit their relationship because of lack of sex.,,they dump ladies that didn't offer sex,,and most times the comments on NL will amaze me cos all you get to hear is dump her just because of sex,,and when the lady decides to given to your sexual urge..you tag her cheap oloshos..







you said girls sleep with married men because of money

what of guys that sleep with married women,,engage in dirty business,,defrauding old white women,engage in robbery and diabolic things just to get money,,even engage in ritual killings



and the most flabbergasting thing is that these man.whorè wants a faithful and caring wife.

after sexing and pressuring girls to engage in abortions for them



you need to check your life,,you are not anyway better..not even close.

nonsense

nezzar:

With a cool headed guy like me?.....She would change

nazzer the cool headed handsome guy....... ok carry go baba.

Donjazzy12:

You don't just get it do you? I only respond to intelligent posts, not that yours qualifies as one though.

Aww... If it was that stupid, I think the genius you are would be able to counter it in two lines.

Barzinime:
Continue...e dey your body

nezzar:

With a cool headed guy like me?.....She would change

Na refurbished virgin you go end up with lass lass.

Blackhawk03:


Na refurbished virgin you go end up with lass lass.

lol....But they are rare 2 find these days

sekxy:
all rubbish!!

your write up is as dumb as the writer!!

why center everything from sexual perspectives, ,

you said girls have numerous boyfriends

what of guys that keep main chick,side chick,half chick,before chick and countless chick and yet boast about it,,even to the extent of rubbing it to our face that they are born polygamous. .




again you said girls have boyfriends because of money

what of guys that keep girlfriends for sexual gratification
have heard countless time when guys have to quit their relationship because of lack of sex.,,they dump ladies that didn't offer sex,,and most times the comments on NL will amaze me cos all you get to hear is dump her just because of sex,,and when the lady decides to given to your sexual urge..you tag her cheap oloshos..







you said girls sleep with married men because of money

what of guys that sleep with married women,,engage in dirty business,,defrauding old white women,engage in robbery and diabolic things just to get money,,even engage in ritual killings



and the most flabbergasting thing is that these man.whorè wants a faithful and caring wife.

after sexing and pressuring girls to engage in abortions for them



you need to check your life,,you are not anyway better..not even close.

nonsense

Your response is too emotional. Are you on your period?

ubunja:
if i toast you, proporse marrriage, pay the bride price and pay for the wedding then obvious u are just another thing i bought. like the TV.
if i pay the bills, clothe you and feed you then its obvious i've taken over your father's duties- and deep down u know thats true thats why during sex u call me Daddy.
but if u work and we share the bills half-way then we are equals. when i feel like making u an equal.remember im older and taller than you. and i also have natural beauty which u dont have since u rely on makeup and fake hair.and lets not forget i get more attractive as i age but u get uglier as u age. so im the Boss.
if i talked sh!t the door is open.i can replace u.
and u can also replace me. so no worries. win win.

smh

OMO THIS ARGUMENT IS POINTLESS. NO GENDER WON'T ADMIT LOSING. IT IS NATURAL FOR WOMEN TO BE DEPENDENT ON MEN. IF U CANT SUSTAIN YOUR WOMAN'S LIFESTYLE. GET ONE U CAN. STOP RANTING UP AND DOWN. SHIKINA

pocohantas:
This isn't a perfect rebuttal to the other, because it focused on the sexual recklessness of women. That's understandable, knowing that women are judged more for their moral conduct, and men for their financial capability.

Some ladies don't know how bad their actions are, till they are in same position. The case of that woman who killed her husband comes to mind. She was a side chick, became the wife...the first wife left. But she couldn't bear the thought of him having another side chick. Maybe it's human nature to want to be treated better than they treat others.

That said, I am a refurbished virgin and I want a rich faithful husband. Reason being that:
Broke guys are insecure.
Broke guys are paranoid.
Broke guys can give hypertension.
Broke guys play victim a lot.
The loyalty of a broke guy can never be trusted...

How come I am not any of the above: insecure, paranoid..."Cos i'm actually a "broke" guy and I think my loyalty remains a constant even though my broke state is obviously a variable.

Howbeit, I've gat feasible and workable plans that would make me a "rich faithful husband."~ and this is for real.

And the last time I checked, to be a "rich faithful husband" you've gat to be married already "Cos it takes the "married" to be husband...and I guess you wouldn't wanna marry a married "rich faithful husband"

So, here is my proposition, I would love to get to know you, friend you and if we find it worth while, it would be my greatest pleasure to be that "rich faithful husband" few seconds into our marriage.

"Cos by then the story would be, a single faithful broke dude just became a "rich faithful husband"





Lol.

I actually might just be serious

[quote author=pocohantas post=63676406]This isn't a perfect rebuttal to the other, because it focused on the sexual recklessness of women. That's understandable, knowing that women are judged more for their moral conduct, and men for their financial capability.

Some ladies don't know how bad their actions are, till they are in same position. The case of that woman who killed her husband comes to mind. She was a side chick, became the wife...the first wife left. But she couldn't bear the thought of him having another side chick. Maybe it's human nature to want to be treated better than they treat others.

That said, I am a refurbished virgin and I want a rich faithful husband. Reason being that:
Broke guys are insecure.
Broke guys are paranoid.
Broke guys can give hypertension.
Broke guys play victim a lot.
The loyalty of a broke guy can never be trusted... [/quot

Are u really a V?

greiboy:
Yes, I know you are aware of the report.

So how long do you think it will take before the results of the revolt will be fully felt?

The northern part of Nigeria has one the lowest numbers of female child enrollment in to school. Yet, it is increase in female sexuality that our social media feminist are advocating for

There are lots of women forced to have unwanted child because they were denied contraceptives, some even die as a result of still birth. Yet, it is more control over men that our social media feminist are fighting for.

Many ladies work under terrible conditions and still get shitty salaries, yet the priority of our social media feminist is how to get more money from their boyfriends and slay new wears


Sometimes I wonder why there is a great disconnect between the needs of the female gender and social media feminism in Nigeria, why don't we see threads advocating for the aforementioned issues on nairaland

Then I realize GREED and Selfishness is the problem...


Many ladies are just fighting personal battles under the umbrella of women libration movement

The issue that brought about feminism are social issues like this one.In the north the low level of education not only for the females but also for the male concerns government,we can have NGO's that are ready and willing to assist but this is government's priority,even the need for birth control needs government involvement.The entire northern part of the country need reorientation both with government assistance and private agencies.The push and fight for a lot of issues concerning the female gender has started and it is yielding result.Social media feminism is different from reality feminism.Everyone has what feminism means to them and if you feel that social media feminist has personal interest it could be as a result of their life experiences.When the need for female education came to light it took some women the courage to demand for women's right and it can be said as well for the north until some people begin to bring all these to public attention and bring in the government it will still go on.Although we have agencies from the UN that are already trying their best in solving this issue.Yes women work under terrible conditions it is not just the women alone and serious minded governments would look into the issue.

Ladyhippolyta88:
The issue that brought about feminism are social issues like this one.In the north the low level of education not only for the females but also for the male concerns government,we can have NGO's that are ready and willing to assist but this is government's priority,even the need for birth control needs government involvement.The entire northern part of the country need reorientation both with government assistance and private agencies.The push and fight for a lot of issues concerning the female gender has started and it is yielding result.Social media feminism is different from reality feminism.Everyone has what feminism means to them and if you feel that social media feminist has personal interest it could be as a result of their life experiences.When the need for female education came to light it took some women the courage to demand for women's right and it can be said as well for the north until some people begin to bring all these to public attention and bring in the government it will still go on.Although we have agencies from the UN that are already trying their best in solving this issue.Yes women work under terrible conditions it is not just the women alone and serious minded governments would look into the issue.

. You see your excuse, you ALL have PERSONAL Interest in feminism. So inesssence you pick and choose your advocacy in feminism, Aren't you in libertarian movement, aren't you suppose to have common interests

Some of the issues I raised like education are being addressed in other countries. I am talking about some of the most conservative of countries like Saudi Arabia and the emirates because women in those countries took a stand

However, for some reason(s) Nigerian "feminist" will rather promote unreasonable and utopian ideas on social media. Some even going as far as endorsing prostitution as a form of women empowerment.

I understand we have ngos and united nations agencies responsible for some of this issues, but aren't those issues part of feminism. So I ask again, why the disconnect? Why not focus on the real issues?

ReinaFarine:
Hello Honey....

Nigerian ladies are confused because of sexual exposure? I don't see how.that statement makes sense. Maybe it is just my confusion talking, but it would have been more sensible if you had explained how sexual exposure causes confusion.

At least 50% of nigerian ladies are in the practice of lesbianism?

Please where did you do your survey?

What makes a woman deserving of a good man after destroying a marital home

It always pisses me the bleep off when I hear morons blaming the woman outside for extramarital affairs. What the heck?
You are married not me.
You promised to remain faithful to your wife not me.
You are in love with her not me.
You cheated not me.
And 60% of the time, the woman outside has no idea she's with a married man.

Wait, you seriously think ladies that intentionally sell have affairs with married men have any iota of respect for the sanctity of marriage?
You think they care about getting married after they've seen how easy it is for a man that promised heaven on earth to his woman to start getting a vibrator in his butthole from a twenty years old slut?

You honestly think she'll give up playing the dick roulette to stick to one limp chump?
That she'll shut all the opportunities of income to become the old lady at home to a millionaire? When she can be getting 600,000 a week from a Nigerian senator?

Even when she retires... You think she won't open a salon, a fashion school and the rest for her to feel young forever.

I perceive you're a young child that sent a pepper dem gal #500 mtn last night out of your ten thousand naira salary... And you think that has given you an insight into a woman's mind?

I laugh in spiritual powers....

And you see the hilarity of your second question is that.... When you read about the life story of most successful men in the world, you will see the great role their women had to play in their success... If you saddle yourself with a slay queen, it is because of what you looked for. If all you expected and hammer on during the course of the relationship was puna, don't complain if that's all she offers you.

So did you talk to her about catering school? Did you tell her abut fashion designing? Dance school? Her Masters degree? All you did was watch Porn together and try to copy all the positions you saw. And you ate expecting the holy spirit to teach her how to write research papers for publication in a recognized field?

Will you compare Beyonce to Kim? Both of them are wives to top hip stars... Kanye got what he wanted and he can never complain that Kim Kardashian is not a good singer, or mother. And Jay will never compare the cock sucking skills of Kim to Bey.

If you're truly a man of substance, you attract a woman like you. If what you want is pussy... Don't complain if that's all you get.

You're the confused monkey. You saw her on insta and discovered how particular she is about her hair and make up. You saw the length of her hair and every where she visits jut for fun. And you expect her to sit with you in a shack in mushin to fry akara? What did you think you will get from romangodess? A cook and clean wife or a suck a fvck?

You called out the OP for not backing up his statistics but here you are pulling another figure out your ass.
This is why we don't take what you lots say seriously.
Here you're absolving ladies of any blame in the part they play in ruining the matrimonial homes of their fellow women. When will you people ever be accountable for your actions?
If your hubby cheated on you, would you go after him or the b!tch who stole his attention from you in the first place?

The ladies have no idea that they f*cking with married men, are you kidding me?!

Donjazzy12:
This thread is not to bash Nigerian women at all but to buttress my observations about Nigerian women.

Most Nigerian young ladies of nowadays are sexually exposed, have had countless boyfriends and girlfriends. In fact at least fifty percent of all young ladies in Nigeria have either practised lesbianism, is still practising it or have not intention is stopping it.

Again almost the same percentage if not more see sexual , emotional relationships with men as an avenue to make money or better their lots financially. In the course of this sexual exposure our ladies manipulate and tell all sorts of lies just to get money from their numerous boyfriends. For some, it is giving their boyfriends different dates for birthdays. Thus you find girls celebrating birthday every month with a different boyfriend! And ofcourse the boyfriends foots all the bills. Other cook up all manner of stories to extort money from boyfriends. In fact this lifestyle has made it difficult if not impossible to identify those who are prostitutes as there is practically no difference between their lifestyle and that of prostitutes in hotels. Infact they now now call themselves slay queens! Another name for prostitutes is slay queen.

Sleeping with married men is done with reckless abandon.

Now the confusing thing is that these ladies want faithful husbands that is very rich!

Question for ladies. How can you be desiring a faithful husband after sleeping with another woman's husband and destroying her home? How can you be demanding for a rich husband when you have no money and all your have to offer is your tear tear pussy?

A bitter truth comes with insults from those girls into the act or having such mentality towards life.
OP, they will surely come for you but be assured your point is clear and made known to all the girls.

greiboy:
. You see your excuse, you ALL have PERSONAL Interest in feminism. So inesssence you pick and choose your advocacy in feminism, Aren't you in libertarian movement, aren't you suppose to have common interests

Some of the issues I raised like education are being addressed in other countries. I am talking about some of the most conservative of countries like Saudi Arabia and the emirates because women in those countries took a stand

However, for some reason(s) Nigerian "feminist" will rather promote unreasonable and utopian ideas on social media. Some even going as far as endorsing prostitution as a form of women empowerment.

I understand we have ngos and united nations agencies responsible for some of this issues, but aren't those issues part of feminism. So I ask again, why the disconnect? Why not focus on the real issues?

To you the issues they are focusing on is not a real issue but to them it is everyone's experience would be their own reason for accepting feminism and what concerns them.Don't bring Saudi Arabia here it was only the crown prince and the king simple and even in Saudi Arabia some people are against it.And they all have a common interest women's right as it matter's to them I said it before that if women don't like the way they are being they alone can take a stand in the north.The proto feminist had what they stood for and other feminist have what they are standing for.

Nobodys:
why are all the babes angry.. he only gave his opinion and as far as I know it doesn't count....
heard many babes say they want a rich faithful man...... well for me I don't want a rich man , I want to be Rich .... I can't even stand rich men,most are arrogant..... I just wanna be Rich myself.....pay my own bills and have a good man by my side... that's my desire.......

A billion likes for you. you are beautiful too.

Ladyhippolyta88:
To you the issues they are focusing on is not a real issue but to them it is everyone's experience would be their own reason for accepting feminism and what concerns them.Don't bring Saudi Arabia here it was only the crown prince and the king simple and even in Saudi Arabia some people are against it.And they all have a common interest women's right as it matter's to them I said it before that if women don't like the way they are being they alone can take a stand in the north.The proto feminist had what they stood for and other feminist have what they are standing for.

Again, picking and choosing

Those issues I have raised are real issues within our society. Are you saying they should fight their own battles, even though they are voiceless. While you continue to pursue your own personal interest? '''great libration tactics""""

ok let me ask you a question

if the first generation feminist didn't advocate for the right to vote for women in America, Do you think you will be afforded the same privilege in Nigeria?

if the second generation feminist didn't fight for equal working conditions for both sexes, do you think you be afforded the same privilege.

and so on and so forth


So why does the new brand of feminism want to be self centered?

greiboy:
Again, picking and choosing

Those issues I have raised are real issues within our society. Are you saying they should fight their own battles, even though they are voiceless. Why you continue to pursue your own personal interest? '''great libration tactics""""

ok let me ask you a question

if the first generation feminist didn't advocate for the right to vote for women in America, Do you think you will afforded the same privilege in Nigeria?

if the second generation feminist didn't fight for equal working conditions for both sexes, do you think you be afforded the same privilege.

and so on and so forth


So why does the new brand of feminism what to be self centered?

It is the ones you have seen.

Ladyhippolyta88:
It is the ones you have seen.

Ok have you done anything to advocate for those voiceless girls/ladies in the past?

greiboy:
Ok have you done anything to advocate for those voiceless girls/ladies in the past?

No,I am still in school(university) and I have plans for myself I would like to open an NGO when I am ready but it won't be about women.What I believe in advocacy for women and girls right is believing that women's right are human right and the advocates on this issue are not sleeping.My own advocacy is this let the door be opened for everybody and not limited to gender but to who is capable.I believe in meritocracy so I would not advocate for quota system for any gender, prove yourself and be given.Everybody is a voice for themselves I really don't see myself advocating for anybody but if I see a woman being oppressed I would talk and maybe partake on issues concerning women but my own advocacy has nothing to do with women but the physically challenged which the Nigerian government is neglecting.

Ladyhippolyta88:
No,I am still in school(university) and I have plans for myself I would like to open an NGO when I am ready but it won't be about women.What I believe in advocacy for women and girls right is believing that women's right are human right and the advocates on this issue are not sleeping.My own advocacy is this let the door be opened for everybody and not limited to gender but to who is capable.I believe in meritocracy so I would not advocate for quota system for any gender, prove yourself and be given.Everybody is a voice for themselves I really don't see myself advocating for anybody but if I see a woman being oppressed I would talk and maybe partake on issues concerning women but my own advocacy has nothing to do with women but the physically challenged which the Nigerian government is neglecting.

So you aren't a feminist. You are more of an egalitarian(those who believe in equal rights for all). At least until you are through with your studies.

Good luck with the physically challenged thing

greiboy:
So you aren't a feminist. You are more of an egalitarian(those who believe in equal rights for all). At least until you are through with your studies.

Good luck with the physically challenged thing

Thank you but I believe in feminism but that does not mean I would support a woman that is wrong or give special privileges to them.I support feminism.

CorGier:


You called out the OP for not backing up his statistics but here you are pulling another figure out your ass.
This is why we don't take what you lots say seriously.
Here you're absolving ladies of any blame in the part they play in ruining the matrimonial homes of their fellow women. When will you people ever be accountable for your actions?
If your hubby cheated on you, would you go after him or the b!tch who stole his attention from you in the first place?

The ladies have no idea that they f*cking with married men, are you kidding me?!

My statistics is fact I read on a college magazine couple of months ago. His is unrealistically stupid. 50% of girls are lesbians... C'mon... When I get the link to that, I'll send it to you.

I'm not absolving them of the blame. Home wreckers have a special place in hell to me because of the cry of children from broken home.

But the practice of a woman leaving her cheating slut of a husband to confront the woman outside rather than divorce his cheating ass, or go for couple's counselling is stupid. A person that will cheat will cheat whether he was seduced or not.

So if a married man cheats on his woman, he is note culpable to the crime than the woman he is boning doesn't matter what he says.
If I cheat on my husband, do you think it sensible for my husband to go and beg the little fucktoy I'm didling with or to divorce my cheating ass?

If he truly loved me , he won't cheat even if a stripper spends the whole night gyrating on his dick. I will never ever listen to me add it ever confront a woman because my husband decided to throw away commitments he made to me. He is the one that knows me, knows how I feel about him, knows what we went through to get to what we are, knows what our family is, knows whatvi expected of him. He was my freaking partner. And he threw all we were away because of a woman outside. It is because he thought her worth it.

I know he is a great man. That's why I fell in love with him. So her trying to catch HIM is not such a big surprise to me. And if he picks her over me and the family then he should go and have a very happy future with her no hard feelings. But one thing I know for sure is, once a cheat, always a cheat. If he threw me away for her, then he will definitely throw her for the next model and on and on...

And if she knowingly bones a married man because of the power trip, then he is stupid for going for a shallow girl with the worst kind of character there can be. And honestly, they deserve each other and karma is a bitch!

I know who I am as a woman, and what I have to offer, it is rare to get it outside. And women with what I have, don't struggle for married men.

Please do a survey of girls that actually know they are fucking an unrepentant cheat. It is either they don't know at all, he said she's a heartless barren bitch he is going to leave soon for them. 2 in five are fully aware they are fucking an unavailable married man. And these kind of girls are not in the market for love, family or other emotional ecumberance

Thegeneralqueen:
Stop spewing trash here own up to your responsibilities and be a man...... we've seen women who were submissive to their husband been treated like a trash...... most Nigerian men want a woman to work and contribute to the family financially then come back home to perform the wifely duties......
NOTE
if you expect your wife to work and contribute to the family financially then be ready to take part in some of the duties at home

The comments people make show their exposure and upbringing. I can imagine the kind of home you must've grown up in. A man doing chores is not a big deal anymore. Gone are those days when women were basically baby-churching house girls in their "ogas" house. These days men participate in domestic family life, from cooking to cleaning to taking care of the baby etc. I'm sure this sounds shocking to you, you must've grown up in a house where daddy is essentially a couch potato and everybody under his roof relies on him for money. Things have changed, now women are expected to make something of their lives and men help out in domestic chores whether or not he's the sole provider or the woman has a job/business. Its his home too, why should taking care of your house be strange?

pocohantas:
This isn't a perfect rebuttal to the other, because it focused on the sexual recklessness of women. That's understandable, knowing that women are judged more for their moral conduct, and men for their financial capability.

Some ladies don't know how bad their actions are, till they are in same position. The case of that woman who killed her husband comes to mind. She was a side chick, became the wife...the first wife left. But she couldn't bear the thought of him having another side chick. Maybe it's human nature to want to be treated better than they treat others.

That said, I am a refurbished virgin and I want a rich faithful husband. Reason being that:
Broke guys are insecure.
Broke guys are paranoid.
Broke guys can give hypertension.
Broke guys play victim a lot.
The loyalty of a broke guy can never be trusted...

Do you mean "broke"or " poor"? So you wouldn't mind a trustable poor guy that isn't guilty of the things you listed?

Nobodys:
sure thing... I know that...the best is for both couple to be financially independent........the thought of depending on a guy financially makes me wanna die...Gosh that's hell dear ....

Is it pride, or you have first hand experience of men being cruel to women who depend on them financially and you want to avoid that fate?

Nobodys:
awwn......you want a girl who will run off to you saying she just saw a nice dress at a boutique and would love to have it, waiting for you to give her money?... Hell naw..... I want to see a lovely dress And pay for it right away and even buy one as a gift for you..........
What can I say that's me... about it being a turn off...oops that's your own case....

Oh ok I get you now, you're not averse to a guy spending on you, you just don't like depending on him. That's good, just remember that guys feel the urge to "provide". That's why it can be frustrating when the guy doesn't have the means and the girl has expectations/demands. Its not so much that guys are stingy, its that the money isn't available. If it were the average guy would love to spoil his woman

BenShammer:
Is it pride, or you have first hand experience of men being cruel to women who depend on them financially and you want to avoid that fate?

Its not pride ...it's who I am.... INDEPENDENT...

Wait now am confused..isn't that what you guys want...you all complaining about girls depending on guys for hair and recharge cards....for real..Men are confused.....

BenShammer:
Oh ok I get you now, you're not averse to a guy spending on you, you just don't like depending on him. That's good, just remember that guys feel the urge to "provide". That's why it can be frustrating when the guy doesn't have the means and the girl has expectations/demands. Its not so much that guys are stingy, its that the money isn't available. If it were the average guy would love to spoil his woman

I would love my man to spoil me also and I will also spoil him more....... I really pray I meet a man that understands my point of view...