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How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by EbukaBlue(m): 9:35am On Jan 02, 2018 |
First of All, This thread is not about me o. We are not gay in our family abeg. Now straigth to the matter. I have this friend(girl) that tells me almost everything( i know i'm friendzoned, i dont want to bleep her sef, plus she'z my student in jamb tutorial) she keeps telling me about her elder brother who is a porn addict and disturbs her whenever she's alone.. He has even succeded in tearing her cloths one day. And the worst thing is that he would be begging her later not to tell anybody( he even kneels down sometimes). I dont know which advice to give her again, all the ones i gave her did not work(maybe because she did not apply it well coz i trust myself) but pls i need suggestion from other ladies on how to help her. |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by monalicious(f): 9:41am On Jan 02, 2018 |
Are they orphans? What happened to their parents? She should report to them immediately 5 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by Nobody: 9:45am On Jan 02, 2018 |
She should report it to her parents immediately. Except they have started having sex already. 5 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by EbukaBlue(m): 9:47am On Jan 02, 2018 |
monalicious:No. But they are siblings na. That pity u have for ur brother |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by xynerise: 9:49am On Jan 02, 2018 |
Hit him with a pestle 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by tim218: 9:58am On Jan 02, 2018 |
her mom will be mad at this sibling for sexual the bible say Deuteronomy 22:25-27 “But if in the field the man finds the girl who is engaged, and the man forces her and lies with her, then only the man who lies with her shall die. But you shall do nothing to the girl; there is no sin in the girl worthy of death, for just as a man rises against his neighbor and murders him, so is this case. When he found her in the field, the engaged girl cried out, but there was no one to save her.” there is going to have big trouble |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by EbukaBlue(m): 10:00am On Jan 02, 2018 |
tim218:i think we know that already that is why we asking what she will do sir. |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by bigtt76(f): 10:01am On Jan 02, 2018 |
Hmmm.....that pity shei? So let her go ahead and 'help' her brother in self-pity naaaaa oloshi omo EbukaBlue: |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by MhizzAJ(f): 10:04am On Jan 02, 2018 |
This is totally out of place Her own blood Please let her report to her parents immediately and she shouldn't ever get close to that her brother or better still let the brother go for deliverance he might just be possessed who knows |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by mikejj(m): 10:09am On Jan 02, 2018 |
i feel the girl is starting to enjoy the thing.wich kind yeye brother pity.abegi.she should report to her parent thats the only way. 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by mikejj(m): 10:12am On Jan 02, 2018 |
EbukaBlue:come how old is she self?when her eyes go clear they no dey teli person..,wen belle go enter monkey go c banana run!!! |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by Nobody: 10:14am On Jan 02, 2018 |
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Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by Nobody: 10:14am On Jan 02, 2018 |
Loolz Abeg no use laff kill me. He begged her not to tell anyone. But she told you, and you told us and we can start telling people. What is d essence of his begging Biko. On a serious note, she has to tell her parents or close family elders. Emphasis on "close". Not all family members can hear such. Or perhaps a pastor who can reach out to her parents. 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by Nobody: 10:17am On Jan 02, 2018 |
What Happened To "I will Tell Mommy for You" 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by dreamworld: 10:20am On Jan 02, 2018 |
EbukaBlue: Buy her a pepper spray, let her spray his eyes and balls when he comes for her BTW, you can place order on jumia for the pepper spray Https://www.jumia. com.ng/pepper-spray-for-self-defence-slv-mpg671.html 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by Nobody: 10:21am On Jan 02, 2018 |
MhizzAJ:Lol. Aunty no be possession matter o. Youthful exhurberance without parental guidance and counselling can cause plenty commotion. Sometimes churches make it worse when instead of counselling young kids who are approaching sexually active age, they say is demon and deliverance palava. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by makydebbie(f): 10:21am On Jan 02, 2018 |
bigtt76:The girl na serious oloshi omo. |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by MhizzAJ(f): 10:44am On Jan 02, 2018 |
RadicallyBlunt:Well said You can imagine He even succeeded in tearing the sister's cloth at a tme High libido abi what Next time he tries it let the sister slap the youthful exuberance out of him |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by EbukaBlue(m): 10:59am On Jan 02, 2018 |
Just imagine u r in her shoes, so u will just go running to ur parents when u know that like most Nigerian parent they will just shout down the house and end up doing nothing that is they even believe u. ( i told her to get prove and blackmail the brother, but she said the brother gave her dirty slap and deleted the sound recording she had). |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by bigtt76(f): 11:10am On Jan 02, 2018 |
So until the brother end up killing her before she tells them because as you assume, they will end up doing nothing ....are you her parents? EbukaBlue: |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by Nobody: 11:11am On Jan 02, 2018 |
Threaten to stab him next time he tries it, buy a penknife. It works well. |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by Lsofdk(m): 11:12am On Jan 02, 2018 |
RadicallyBlunt:Such shouldn't get to the ears of an outsider. @OP if she can't report to her parents, she should avoid staying in the house alone with him. And if she's staying, she should lock her room door and don't come out till her parents are back. So it's up to her, the easy or the hard way. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by Nobody: 11:17am On Jan 02, 2018 |
Lsofdk:A pastor is a neutral outsider. Pastors conceeed lots of secrets |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by jerflakes(m): 11:25am On Jan 02, 2018 |
How do you think the world populated after Adam and eve were sent out of the garden of Eden? Incest made the world what it is today So, tell the girl to go and 4k her brother 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by chicoMX(m): 11:27am On Jan 02, 2018 |
Purebeerry: She might get herself killed |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by Rickjordan(m): 11:28am On Jan 02, 2018 |
some people are just disgusting... his own sister |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by deco22(m): 11:33am On Jan 02, 2018 |
How old is the person first of all. If she is above 18 and she is allowing such thing happen to her am sure it has to be consensual because you can't tell me a grown lady won't know how to deal with this.
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Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by Lsofdk(m): 11:38am On Jan 02, 2018 |
RadicallyBlunt:Doesn't make them trustworthy. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by Lexmane(m): 11:54am On Jan 02, 2018 |
best is to tell both parents,emphasis on BOTH with immediate effect, she shouldn't wait till d guy try it with her again cos by that time,she might give in...tell her now!it is not a fighting matter, just for d parents to call the guy to order... |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by Lexmane(m): 11:57am On Jan 02, 2018 |
Purebeerry:not the best in dus scenario...prevention us better than cure...devil dey laugh for one corner .waiting for one person to stab d other |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by EbukaBlue(m): 12:07pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
deco22:19 |
Re: How Can I Stop My Brother From Raping Me?? by 9japrof(m): 12:25pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Unfortunately incest happens and is condoned in so many Nigerian families today. Unfortunately, no matter how it might sound, the parents should be made aware of what's going on, cos if that guy finally succeeds in having his way into her pants, that taboo might go on forever. It's better nipped in the bud by making the parents and the neighbors if possible know about it, that boy should be relocated to another environment for the well-being of that day. All these advice wouldn't work or may not be necessary if that sex have happened. Another option is for the lady to arrange a girl who would help his brother out cos nigga needs to conduct practicals on all the sessions he is learning, that nigga is sex starved and needs to blow some steam off. 1 Like |
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