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Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by Wizklynd23(m): 3:09pm On Jan 03
I have been hearing some people saying " The best way you can win her heart is become her friend" Reverse the case some say" just go direct and tell her you love her". Because friendship works for Mr A it doesn't mean it will work for Mr B. So also the case of going direct without beating around the bush with friendship..
some people believed if someone loves you, just loves you, you need not to go through friendship and the lights but however, some thinks the best way is through friendship.... well no one can't actually tell what will works perfectly for a starting up relationship but I don't we all have preferences.... So which do you prefer ??
Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by cruchenutii: 3:10pm On Jan 03
Direct Approach, This is 2018. No time for Friendzone.

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Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by Kennyprince: 3:12pm On Jan 03
I go direct too
Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by busterr(m): 3:15pm On Jan 03
go through friendship and you'll get your ass friend-zoned unless you're a correct gee. besides is this nonsense what is bothering you this year?? undecided

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Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by jamariwolf2(f): 3:17pm On Jan 03
Friendship, so I don't look like a hörny slüt

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Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by Wizklynd23(m): 3:22pm On Jan 03
cruchenutii:
Direct Approach, This is 2018. No time for Friendzone.
correct my bro grin
Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by Wizklynd23(m): 3:22pm On Jan 03
Kennyprince:
I go direct too
. Sharp sharp nigga spotted cheesy cheesy
Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by Wizklynd23(m): 3:23pm On Jan 03
jamariwolf2:
Friendship, so I don't look like a hörny slüt
undecided
Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by Wizklynd23(m): 3:24pm On Jan 03
busterr:
go through friendship and you'll get your ass friend-zoned unless you're a correct gee. besides is this nonsense what is bothering you this year?? undecided
Lols not really grin grin
Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by rebirthforgoody(f): 3:32pm On Jan 03
Direct jare tongue

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Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by unapapadeycraze: 3:36pm On Jan 03
jamariwolf2:
Friendship, so I don't look like a hörny slüt




are you not?
Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by jamariwolf2(f): 3:38pm On Jan 03
unapapadeycraze:





are you not?
no, are you?

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Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by Next2Bezee(m): 3:39pm On Jan 03
Direct works for the oloshos and slayqueens.

But friendship works for the fresh, naive & unexposed girls.

When your gf is always chatting with a guy & tells you that he's her friend, it's time to find your way. grin

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Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by ubunja(m): 3:40pm On Jan 03
why go via friendship and take 5 months to get an answer you would have got in 5 mins had you gone direct?

women, scientists and players all agree a girl knows within 2 seconds if you're a guy she sees herself having sex with.
so get cracking my niggar.
Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by unapapadeycraze: 3:45pm On Jan 03
jamariwolf2:
no, are you?




what a nice response. you passed the test. what's your name and number? let me know.
Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by Papadoh(m): 4:51pm On Jan 03
Friendship is for wussies.

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Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by Cladez(m): 4:57pm On Jan 03
I only profess love when the feeling is mutual.How can you see someone and start telling her you love her.

I guess mine falls under friendship.

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Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by kimbraa(f): 5:00pm On Jan 03
ubunja:
why go via friendship and take 5 months to get an answer you would have got in 5 mins had you gone direct?

women, scientists and players all agree a girl knows within 2 seconds if you're a guy she sees herself having sex with.
so get cracking my niggar.
Is having sex all there is in relationships?. That assumption seats well for an olosho.
Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by ubunja(m): 5:04pm On Jan 03
kimbraa:
Is having sex all there is in relationships?. That assumption seats well for an olosho.
if sex is not on the table then i might as well go home.whats the point? when i talk to you i wana fvck you.when i touch your hand to slow you down i wana fvck you. when i greet you on the street the end plan is to fvck you. i dont talk to gals for friendship. i have enough friends already thank you very much!

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Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by deeLima86(m): 5:06pm On Jan 03
"Different stroke for different folks". I don't have that time for friendship if the other intention is also there, i go straight to the point, as direct as one can be.

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Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by kimbraa(f): 5:07pm On Jan 03
ubunja:

if sex is not on the table then i might as well go home.whats the point? when i talk to you i wana fvck you.when i touch your hand to slow you down i wana fvck you. when i greet you on the street the end plan is to fvck you. i dont talk to gals for friendship. i have enough friends already thank you very much!
cc: Edimolu. grin cheesy
Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by Apus: 5:08pm On Jan 03
zig-zag bro...don't thank later.

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Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by edimolu(m): 6:48pm On Jan 03
kimbraa:
cc: Edimolu. grin cheesy
You have gotten me all wrongly defined dear...

From the onset, i never ruled out the possibilities of having a lustful or loved-up relationship amongst both genders, my point is, why generalise such claim?

It is true some guys add ladies to their contact list for the sole-purpose of sex, but should ubunja's response define every other guy out there! There are bunch of scenerios whereby both parties will never be sexually attracted to eachother till thy kingdom come...it all depends on what she thinks of you and vice-versa!

Saw your previous response...The ones you called your friends aren't truly your friends, they are caught up in the thorns of friendzone...you put them there! grin

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Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by kimbraa(f): 8:10pm On Jan 03
edimolu:

You have gotten me all wrongly defined dear...

From the onset, i never ruled out the possibilities of having a lustful or loved-up relationship amongst both genders, my point is, why generalise such claim?

It is true some guys add ladies to their contact list for the sole-purpose of sex, but should ubunja's response define every other guy out there! There are bunch of scenerios whereby both parties will never be sexually attracted to eachother till thy kingdom come...it all depends on what she thinks of you and vice-versa!

Saw your previous response...The ones you called your friends aren't truly your friends, they are caught up in the thorns of friendzone...you put them there! grin



I've a male friend I've known for seven years. When I said this once on NL virtually all the guys who mentioned me on that thread claimed I was bleeping him 'cause a guy can't be friends with a girl for that long. grin Going by Ubunja's comment, I could say you guys are confused. You say something now, and another the next minute. Having said that, I get your view point now.
Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by rickyboss333: 8:19pm On Jan 03
jamariwolf2:
Friendship, so I don't look like a hörny slüt



how about d other way round? which will u prefer if a guy wants to date u?

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Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by edimolu(m): 8:25pm On Jan 03
kimbraa:
I've a male friend I've known for seven years. When I said this once on NL virtually all the guys who mentioned me on that thread claimed I was bleeping him 'cause a guy can't be friends with a girl for that long. grin Going by Ubunja's comment, I could say you guys are confused. You say something now, and another the next minute. Having said that, I get your view point now.

Hahahahaha...that thread must have been so so lit!

Thanks , i got yours too even though you believe it is in the lowest minimum...

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Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by SmellingAnus(m): 8:34pm On Jan 03
I am very straightforward... I go straight to what I want... Infact the more we become friends the more it's difficult for me to say what I want... I will rather possibly remain distant friends with you if I don't get what I want... In reality, such friendship hardly works except sex wasn't a major consideration when I asked her out grin....

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Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by ibkayee(f): 8:36pm On Jan 03
Prefer being friends first tbh
Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by Nobody: 8:40pm On Jan 03
I would have said friendship but friendzoned was coined from that word. I would rather shoot my shot if you bounce me I just quietly move along, you dig

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Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by makydebbie(f): 8:42pm On Jan 03
Friendship definitely.

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Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by TheCabal: 8:44pm On Jan 03
,

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Re: Friendship Or Direct Approach, Which Do You Prefer?? by TheCabal: 8:46pm On Jan 03
rebirthforgoody:
Direct jare tongue

I Know, right

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