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|Help A Confused Lady. by ammyra: 8:37pm On Jan 03|
Hello guys please I need an advice I'm a 27 years old female and never had a real relationship what do I do...its really frustrating
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by pat1612(m): 8:46pm On Jan 03|
What do u expect from a real relationship that will decide.
Might be your expectations are one not allowing you to see what you have at hand in all relationships u had
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by marshalldgreat: 8:47pm On Jan 03|
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by moshood521: 8:47pm On Jan 03|
mayb u dnt let a guy tk charge in ur lyf...
allow 1 4 a while nd c d result...
dat might hlp
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by makydebbie(f): 8:49pm On Jan 03|
Can you state the reason why you've never been in a real relationship?
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by BlackDBagba: 8:50pm On Jan 03|
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by NairalandCS(m): 9:05pm On Jan 03|
Instead of you to say you need preek, you're forming I need a relationship.
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by CyberGypsy(m): 10:19pm On Jan 03|
the fake ones you've had,what actually happened ?? Give us the full gist
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:50pm On Jan 03|
Until you stop getting confused,that's when you can ve a real r/ship.
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by BraidedChannel: 1:34am On Jan 04|
JONNYSPUTE:That's the real fact!
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by Nobody: 6:49am On Jan 04|
Are you anti-social?
Do you have a relationship phobia?
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by ubunja(m): 7:11am On Jan 04|
the real Question is : Are you still a virgin?
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by zainmaxwell(m): 7:53am On Jan 04|
Purebeerry:ma'am sorry to ask do you live here?
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by ammyra: 8:15am On Jan 04|
Purebeerry:yea I get scared of hrtbrk
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by ammyra: 8:16am On Jan 04|
could dat be d reason??
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by ubunja(m): 8:19am On Jan 04|
ammyra:no. but it would give me a starting point to isolate your problem. a virgin saying she never been in a relationship is different from a non-virgin saying she never been in a relationship. each needs a different form of help.
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by habsydiamond(m): 8:21am On Jan 04|
That's the result of hard to get.....when u do hard to get too much guy tend to runaway from you for soft to get na....abi u tink say Na only u waka come....
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by ubunja(m): 8:33am On Jan 04|
habsydiamond:at 27 she is old news anyways. any female over 22 is just too old to be of anything of real use to a real man. 19-22 is when a girl is fire after that its expired milk.cant even marry a 25 yr old girl even if im 35 myself. she is too old to invest in.she has fvcked too many dudes that her mind has learnt to seperate sex from love.
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by habsydiamond(m): 8:35am On Jan 04|
ubunja:that's what I call black market period, buy one get one free....
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by ubunja(m): 8:41am On Jan 04|
habsydiamond:you mean like when you suck one boob and the girl pushes the other boob to your mouth without you asking?
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by Seanjay(m): 9:28am On Jan 04|
Lmao ...... 2 crazy dudes
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by austine4real(m): 9:59am On Jan 04|
ammyra:lower ur expectations. Set ursef free from telemudo
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by Tosinex(m): 11:57am On Jan 04|
Reallyyyyyyyyyyyyy! Let's me see your picture before I spoke out o...lolzzz lolz
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by dukeprince50(m): 12:15pm On Jan 04|
you should be mature, there is no real or fake r/shp, its just the way we handle things that comes our way, you probably do not handle your r/ships in a matured way or you are very ugly.
do you quarrel? do you form for your boyfriend, do you see yourself as someone better than others? you should be down to earth, mingle with both sexes, don't isolate yourself, boys love girls who are soft spoken, clean, doesn't hype themselves... asking of money for your needs is not our problem even though we complain about it, just be what you are and not trying to be what you are not. 27years is a lot. I pray you find your heart desire.
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by dukeprince50(m): 12:20pm On Jan 04|
at 35 you still deh mumu, is relationship all about sex? if she wants to settle down, she would keep sex aside and sees sex as an essential ingredient for procreation, cos she had sex with few guys in her life, she is not worth investing on.
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by dukeprince50(m): 12:23pm On Jan 04|
lots of kids everywhere, if she need dik, she won't come here and complain, there are a lot of guys dat can do that, she need a serious r/shp, if u can't help her situation den sharap
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by ubunja(m): 12:24pm On Jan 04|
dukeprince50:i didnt even get one sense from this.c'mon guy
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by zainmaxwell(m): 12:28pm On Jan 04|
dukeprince50:what is dis one saying
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by donbabajay: 1:56pm On Jan 04|
Relax...Everybody's timetable is different. My sister read Law, spent 7 odd years reading the course and did not let random boys 'toasting' her distract her. She got in her first relationship by 28, got married by 30 and now She's 33 with two lovely kids and the best husband ever. ( I guess she waited that long because she didn't want to fall for random guys that would've taken advantage of her, a trap most girls fall into nowadays. she waited till she was 100% sure of the guys' intentions.
My point is Focus on your career or whatever your goal is and the rest will fall in place.
PS: may I add that she married a virgin.
I guess she's the kind of girl that can't take a heartbreak, hence she followed that path.
Some girls can and date several guys, no problem. But if you're like her, just relax and find that one person for you.
trust me, he'll find you!
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by tomtyte02(m): 3:05pm On Jan 04|
OP, maybe ugliness is just your problem. Just saying.
|Re: Help A Confused Lady. by habsydiamond(m): 2:29pm On Jan 07|
ubunja:u be professional mehn....u sabi all the codes for buy one get one free
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