My name is Mary, I heartlessly said ‘No’ to my boyfriend of three years a month ago, embarrassing him before his friends, my friends and some few family members because I thought I wasn’t ready.
I really wasn’t expecting the proposal, he totally caught me offguard on my birthday and I was scared, I gave him all the looks of ‘please don’t do this’ when he dropped on his knees and brought out the ring, but he went ahead to propose.
I said ‘No’, I broke his heart! Every night since then, I keep seeing his eyes as I snatched my fingers from his grasp and mouthed the word ‘No’ repeatedly.
He expected me to jump for joy, scream and dance or even cry for joy but wasn’t expecting the response he got
I love David, I really do, but I just wasn’t ready for the proposal thing plus I somehow lost it that night and got scared.
David (31) has refused to talk to me, he travelled immediately and won’t get in touch. I have tried to apologize and explain things, but he is not reading my messages. I can’t call him!
I only try through the social media but he is not reading them!
I am sorry, I love him, I want to say ‘Yes’… How do I go about this, I heard he’s gone to South Africa to cool off after the blow I dealt him.
Help me, I am 24… I would rather marry David now than wait for another man.

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Lala mynd44 seun oya move to the permanent site

Lol

Lolz. Orisirisi surprises lo ma kun ile aye yii ke!

Na orisirisi surprises we just deh see for this proposal matter. Nawa oh

cry me a river

Go and explain to his relatives and elder once, let them help you out.

well ms Mary, since you're lamenting already, I'd love to reference you to the book of Lamentations, make sure you heartlessly finish the chapters.
may God bless you as you do this, cheers.

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bloggers and their fictitious nonsense.

When a Lady says "NO", it could be extremely embarrassing but does not necessarily mean she will not agree to marry you subsequently. The guy is ready, what if she is not ready mentally, emotionally or spiritually. Both have to be ready.

Ladies have a way of hinting when they are ready and as a dude, you must be able to read between the lines before buying that ring and to your knees.

That is how some boys will propose to deny a lady of male friends that might serve as competition to him, after three years of proposal no marriage. Bobo still dey hustle for financial muscle.

Nwanem relax, if he truly loves you he is coming back on his knees again!

Please, kindly give other ladies the chance to have a piece of him, you've had yours!

This story is not even real.

Super story

she never see anything

Ok maybe he was ur backup boyfriend abi na wetin una de call am sef?
I dont believe u luv him, why would u say no if u realy luv him? U are ur own problem u just gave a guy that luvd u heart attack if i shud be de1 i am gone 4 gud.
Dont take peoples heart 4 granted...

We Are Not Interested. The Shame Of Rejection Was Overwhelming And He Moved On. What Happen To Ur " Back Up Boyfrnd"?

Abeg who get that meme of the "I won't deceive u, terrestrial powers are after u"?

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oooh you think you can eat and have your cake back

YoungDaNaval:
My name is Mary, I heartlessly said ‘No’ to my boyfriend of three years a month ago, embarrassing him before his friends, my friends and some few family members because I thought I wasn’t ready.
I really wasn’t expecting the proposal, he totally caught me offguard on my birthday and I was scared, I gave him all the looks of ‘please don’t do this’ when he dropped on his knees and brought out the ring, but he went ahead to propose.
I said ‘No’, I broke his heart! Every night since then, I keep seeing his eyes as I snatched my fingers from his grasp and mouthed the word ‘No’ repeatedly.
He expected me to jump for joy, scream and dance or even cry for joy but wasn’t expecting the response he got
I love David, I really do, but I just wasn’t ready for the proposal thing plus I somehow lost it that night and got scared.
David (31) has refused to talk to me, he travelled immediately and won’t get in touch. I have tried to apologize and explain things, but he is not reading my messages. I can’t call him!
I only try through the social media but he is not reading them!
I am sorry, I love him, I want to say ‘Yes’… How do I go about this, I heard he’s gone to South Africa to cool off after the blow I dealt him.
Help me, I am 24… I would rather marry David now than wait for another man.

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oh you have changed your mind because u heard he has travelled to South Africa. Women sef

medicine after death.. what am I even saying sef.. how can I forget my 2018 motto" keep kwayet,read in peace and go"

This one dey mad? The guy no get life way e wan live?
Abi you think say na woman wrapper way go dey send flowers give you every day till you change your mind? This is Nigeria, not a Nora Roberts novel.

Sage7:

Nwanem relax, if he truly loves you he is coming back on his knees again!

This time,not on his knees.

Village People don already meet for your head

Fake story

Are you serious?