hi nairalanders, pls i really want to know how to tell if a guy is really in love with me cos we have so many in sheep clothing today promising heaven and hell.Apart from praying, how do i really know d guy is n love with me.

Your opinion and comment is welcomed!!

if a guy really digs u sincerely then he could do almost anything 4 u & he'll show concern/interest 4 virtually everything dats got 2 do with u ,

things that u wouldn't ordinarily xpect, he'd do without u even askin him. I can't be specific about "things" here 'cos it varies in different settings but the key thing here is dat he'll be willin 2 do almost anything 4 u without battin an eyelid!

i am very happy that you ask such question,it is very easy to find out the reason is that if a guy is in love with a babe there are some signs that the girl is to notice which is as follows,
1,the guy is going to call the grl always
2,the guy shouid always send his babe an sms instead of sending her a card
3,the two guys should be faithful,loyal and trustworthy.

Hey sis, u can't find an answer to this question through any physical means. Just hope he`s real.

Some folks might say, I'm talkin' shit, but sons of men can pretend , well.

By satisfying yu sexually

if he doesnt lie to you anytime he opens his mouth

and the list goes on . .

I don't know how to say this but i will try.
-1- if this guy respect u n takes you for who u r na how u r, then fyn. ie is he will not like ignore u in public n will be by r side in tyms of difficulties(though he might give one or two excuses)
-2- If he is a krazyie guy, he has to treat u like a lady

ugodaniel:

By satisfying yu sexually

oh trust me, not at all! usually the best in bed are the ones who are only looking for affairs, not at all loving you (they might not know ur name though ) and that's just cuz they have more experience.

For each guy its a different thing,so i can only speak for myself which i really knw.If i really love a girl i wuld never lie to her (of cause i dnt need to)what so ever it may lead to, a girl am dating can never,for once catch me with another one cause i dnt need to be with another,am just satisfied with her as long as she reaches my taste of who i want for a babe. I wuld do anything just to be asured of her happiness(thats what i love best), i can't be self centered but wuld do her things before i do mine.Dats the way i do my love,many other things follow sha.

jokwoche:

For each guy its a different thing,so i can only speak for myself which i really knw.If i really love a girl i wuld never lie to her (of cause i dnt need to)what so ever it may lead to, a girl am dating can never,for once catch me with another one cause i dnt need to be with another,am just satisfied with her as long as she reaches my taste of who i want for a babe. I wuld do anything just to be asured of her happiness(thats what i love best), i can't be self centered but wuld do her things before i do mine.Dats the way i do my love,many other things follow sha.

nice,but i bet those are just words

@ Ima1

nah , not mere words my dear, if u've ever met a guy in luv u'll know what it is , Absolute Commitment!

ima1(nice,but  i bet those are just words),
sorry u said they are just mere words,yes they wuld be when said by many guys who want to keep deceiving girl around the globe,but i dnt need to prove this to u tru mails cause u wunt still see the truth in it. Sorry to say but i only lie to my parents,but that was den,now i tell them the truth but in a wise way.Just believe my words.

simple! its those little things he does dat counts its not by the superficial things dat they do dat seem to overwhelm we girls eg like gettin a valentine gift, but the kind words of encouragement and deep affection dat he gives so effortlessly

hi evryone,thanks specially for all those who took out their time to contribute wisely.i appreciate it a lot cos i believe this site is not just for fun but to educate ourselves where we r found wanting.God bless u all

If he really loves you he won't back up from anything. I mean, no matter what obstacle there is, he'll get over it and no matter what sacrifice he has to make, he will, for you.

I don't know!

But if you want to know, ask him and look him in the eye!

If he dodges, then he doesn't, if he stares at your iris, then he does!

Good luck!

yes you will still find out one day. there will be a still voice to tell you that he is the one. though it may be shrouded with some lies. but at least one guy will.

been calculative and emotionally stable and having a love detector(emotionally)will make u know wen a guy is head over heals inlove wt u.finish

Association of liars, see una mouth like "he will be willing to do anything for you" . The right words should be "he will be willing to do anything for p*ussy". A guy who is determined to get any woman will act any part so far he gets to chop what he desires. Back in the day guys used to plan how to lay babes the way the Americans planned Operation Desert Storm. A man after p*ussy is a man on a serious undercover mission, the finest wolf in the garb of sheep.

What you should be after is assessing the status of your relationship. Where are we headed and what do I want out of this? If you are looking for signs of true love, you'll miss the obvious and fall into a deep deep ditch.

first of all what do u want in a guy?,u will only know if u know what u really want from a guy.

That's what it is

His actions speaks IT!

To be loved means to be recognized as existin. . .

You can decipher if a guy Loves u,simply by observing the things he does unconsciously i.e not by any conscious effort of his the way he gives you undivided attention irrespective of where you both are or who is around you both.


The way his face brightens up with a smile when your name is mentioned or when people tease him about his love for you.


He tells everyone who is important to him about you, everyone, (family and friends)knows you are a significant part of his life.

He can and would sacrifice anything to ensure your comfort.

He listens attentively to you when you talk and miraculously remembers most of what you said moments after you said them.

He shares his deepest secrets, fears,hopes and aspirations with you because he trusts you enough to let you into his inner world.

He could kill anyone who messes with you.


He is totally oblivious of any physical flaws you have, even though they may be visible to others he isnt bothered.

He is excited by anything that comes from you, laughs hard at your jokes which other people might see as not so funny, eats your meals and considers them the best meals in the whole wide world.

Always sad when you both have a quarrel and shows a deep sign of relief and great joy after the quarrel is over.

He doesnt make sex a priority because just being with you gives him inner satisfaction.


Even in the midst of a thousand and one beauties and women scattered all over the world you remain his number one, the only one who he can turn to his friend and say to them with a broad smile"That's Her"!!! and they smile a knowing smile in return.
If you are opportuned to experience all of this,
give yourself a hug,you have found the bone of your bones.

BossLadyDiana: You can decipher if a guy Loves u,simply by observing the things he does unconsciously i.e not by any conscious effort of his the way he gives you undivided attention irrespective of where you both are or who is around you both.


The way his face brightens up with a smile when your name is mentioned or when people tease him about his love for you.


He tells everyone who is important to him about you, everyone, (family and friends)knows you are a significant part of his life.

He can and would sacrifice anything to ensure your comfort.

He listens attentively to you when you talk and miraculously remembers most of what you said moments after you said them.

He shares his deepest secrets, fears,hopes and aspirations with you because he trusts you enough to let you into his inner world.

He could kill anyone who messes with you.


He is totally oblivious of any physical flaws you have, even though they may be visible to others he isnt bothered.

He is excited by anything that comes from you, laughs hard at your jokes which other people might see as not so funny, eats your meals and considers them the best meals in the whole wide world.

Always sad when you both have a quarrel and shows a deep sign of relief and great joy after the quarrel is over.

He doesnt make sex a priority because just being with you gives him inner satisfaction.


Even in the midst of a thousand and one beauties and women scattered all over the world you remain his number one, the only one who he can turn to his friend and say to them with a broad smile"That's Her"!!! and they smile a knowing smile in return.
If you are opportuned to experience all of this,
give yourself a hug,you have found the bone of your bones.

when are you going to complete your story(kidnapp story) in the literature section?

RuuDie: if a guy really digs u sincerely then he could do almost anything 4 u & he'll show concern/interest 4 virtually everything dats got 2 do with u ,

things that u wouldn't ordinarily xpect, he'd do without u even askin him. I can't be specific about "things" here 'cos it varies in different settings but the key thing here is dat he'll be willin 2 do almost anything 4 u without battin an eyelid!

You have said it all.

Men will be men