my co-worker just told me that his wife cheated on him and instead of leaving her, he started to stay out all night and neglect her as a form of punishment. is this form of revenge popular?

well, two things a we can do as humans,push her out or let her stay.
but staying out and avoiding her isnt the best.if it were me.i will
let her go.only if there are clear evidence.

It's kind of childish. How does staying out all night address the major issue that his wife is a cheat? Unless it was just to keep himself away from harming her physically. Basically he threw a tantrum.

I'm not opposed to punishing your spouse but behaving badly and acting like a child makes you ridiculous especially when you have the moral high ground anyway.

@Tatase

easier said than done. Matters of the heart create strange behaviors in some.

nalijah07:

my co-worker just told me that his wife cheated on him and instead of leaving her, he started to stay out all night and neglect her as a form of punishment. is this form of revenge popular?

thats not revenge he is actually giving her more reasons to cheat. i wonder if he was doing that before she cheated anyway

he said he was faithfull up until that point and that she came begging and wanted to work it out, but he just wants her to feel the pain

he is cheating now by the way,

Great,I guess the HIV statistic just went up by 0.2%

nalijah07:
he is cheating now by the way,

I know he is cheating with you...ashawo

You mean somebody am going to call a wife having an incurably smelly mouth or a permanently stinking body?

In kiss Daniels voice ; Laye Laye baby mi ko joo!

Annoyingly childish