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Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by samyfreshsmooth(m): 4:44pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
feb 26 2016 in california, a woman Rashida Lucas filed for a divorce cos according to her, her husband TP Lucas is TOO NICE and it's driving her crazy she added in court that her husband was way too nice and she finds it weird and absurd she said he cooked everyday (morning, noon and night) and always brought her breakfast in bed, baths and takes care of the every need of their 2 yrs old daughter including takng her to school, cleans the entire house, washes their clothes and forbids her from doing any house chore, gives her huge amounts of money monthly, forfeits his own needs/pleasure during sex, always makes sure she is sexually satisfied & orgasms at least 4 times before he stops (he eats her pussy & practically worships her body), gives her the keys to their car & allows her go clubbing with friends anytime she wants and he never gets angry or shouts at her even though she purposely try to annoy him personally i find this kinda man strange SO LADIES CAN YOU MARRY A MAN WHO'S TOO NICE? |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by Elparaiso(m): 4:49pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
So performing the duties of a husband is being too nice? Thank God, I don see excuse. |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by AnodaIT(m): 5:42pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
Too much nice guy means lack of respect from the girl A girl that sees you as not Commanding respect won't be comfortable as she is aware that her friends might see her as being too cheap |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by alfred007(m): 5:50pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
well we already know that women don't know what they want! chikina 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by Nobody: 6:58pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
I've seen a video of something similar to this It was kinda hilarious. |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by IamLEGEND1: 7:07pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
The lies contained in this thread... 1 Like
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Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by Sudokudon: 7:12pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
Yoruba people will call it 'oko gbewu dani'. I'm not sure any lady wants that kind of man. A man may be caring but should be assertive, decisive and have ego. Be it a man or a woman, there should be element of humanity. You must be able to get angry, cry or show remorse, make mistakes, laugh or humorous etc. When you see someone who lacks any of those things, he/she might likely be pretending or simple a doll. I will do the same the woman did, if I were in her shoes. Provoke him and not provoked? Mba!, I no dey that one 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by Nobody: 11:21pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
I can cos am nice too. |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by Nobody: 11:33pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
It's not about ladies being confused or not knowing what they want. People that are too nice are sometimes seen as time bombs waiting to explode. They are obsessed, that they see no wrong in you. These kinda partners can do and undo when angry. This is what scares people, not the "niceness" itself. I have dated one before, I know how it ended. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by Nobody: 11:42pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
samyfreshsmooth: first off, like so many posters on nl, your article is exaggerated bs and easily disproved https://munchies.vice.com/en_us/article/4x5dmd/remembering-that-time-on-divorce-court-when-a-woman-complained-that-her-husbands-incredible-cooking-made-her-fat
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Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by Nobody: 11:43pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
http://yournationnews.com/judge-finds-the-most-ungrateful-woman-in-the-world-i-cant-believe-what-i-am-hearing/ TP Lucas brought his estranged wife, Rashida Lucas to Divorce Court for Judge Lynn Toler to hear their case. He claims that Rashida left one day with his 2000 Camry and never returned. |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by Nobody: 8:30am On Jan 28, 2018 |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by Nobody: 4:52pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
AntiBrutus: This is just wrong. Such people are often not short tempered. Yes they may have bad temper but not short tempered. Moreso, they do give repeated warning always, but because they seem to be very tolerant till you push them to the wall and they smack back, you will then start speaking about how nasty they can get. They are very easy to deal with if you pay very close attention to what they want or when they voice their concerns. |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by kazolad(m): 5:16pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Women generally are very difficult to comprehend. They simply dont know what they want. |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by Nobody: 5:26pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Sometimes marrying /dating "the perfect guy" can be dangerous 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by Nobody: 7:38pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Gungnir: Are you shureeeeeeee ?Nice people can be devils o ! |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by Nobody: 8:37pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Zykod: I wasn't speaking in absolute. It's as simple as whoever is dealing with them should not exploit their niceness. Yes there are evil nice people. |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by Nobody: 9:10pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Gungnir: I dig.. just fooling around... |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by MissWrite(f): 11:48pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
There's a thin line between nice and patsy. Serving breakfast in bed, taking care of her needs, and watching the kids are all nice things. But then she says she deliberately tries to push his buttons: she clubs with her friends, probably (hypothetically) hooks up with guys to provoke him. She expects him to get jealous and angry, but all he says is, "that's okay, baby, I know you're only having fun" That's crossing the line from nice to patsy. A patsy isn't nice; he's a pushover. No resistance or integrity. It does not come from a desire to please; it's rather a manifestation of a person's inability to stand up for themselves. That's not an attractive quality at all, and it is frustrating for all parties concerned. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by Nobody: 11:51pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
MissWrite: sweet, it felt like candy in the mouth...sweet 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by Nobody: 11:52pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
MissWrite:No dear, That is not pasty, that is plain stupid |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by Apina(m): 12:01am On Jan 29, 2018 |
Nice guys always finish last |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by MissWrite(f): 12:05am On Jan 29, 2018 |
greiboy: Lol! . Whatever it is, at least we can agree that it is not "being nice". Being with a man that's such a pushover can leave a person feeling very guilty about accepting these niceties. It's like taking advantage of someone who's physically or mentally challenged. You want them to do nice things for you, but you're wondering if you're being a bully. And when you try so hard but cannot find their limits, it just starts to feel like a trap. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by Nobody: 12:10am On Jan 29, 2018 |
Apina: I agree. No one likes those losers. Nice guys are nothing but dumb losers |
Re: Ladies Can You Date And Marry A Guy Who Is TOO NICE? by Nobody: 3:51am On Jan 29, 2018 |
samyfreshsmooth:Be lying o, we are looking are you.
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