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Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Jogunomi1: 10:48pm On Jan 28
Can God ask me to marry someone I don't find physically attractive?

She is of very good character, gentle, well suited for my career, but I don't find her sexy. I have a dream in which someone like her was described for as a good wife. Without hitting on her, she is now after me, throwing green light almost everyday.
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by gabinogem(m): 10:51pm On Jan 28
Yeah cool
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by sirusX(m): 10:51pm On Jan 28
The Lord works in mysterious ways

The eyes of man can never be compared to what God sees

It’s recognizing that God has plans for you and he wants what’s best for you
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Jogunomi1: 10:57pm On Jan 28
sirusX:
The Lord works in mysterious ways

The eyes of man can never be compared to what God sees

It’s recognizing that God has plans for you and he wants what’s best for you

I like everything about her apart the fact that she's not that sexy and not young. I'm older than her though.
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by lefulefu(m): 10:58pm On Jan 28
jamb question cheesy
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by ibkayee(f): 10:59pm On Jan 28
Lol this is actually a good question cheesy
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by lefulefu(m): 11:01pm On Jan 28
Jogunomi1:


I like everything about her apart the fact that she's not that sexy and not young. I'm older than her though.
u already having misgivings.if u go ahead and marry her u might cheat on her cheesy
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by lefulefu(m): 11:02pm On Jan 28
ibkayee:
Lol this is actually a good question cheesy
d question get as e be cheesy
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by ibkayee(f): 11:03pm On Jan 28
lefulefu:

d question get as e be cheesy
cheesy

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Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by iambibi(f): 11:04pm On Jan 28
Lol
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by dollyjoy(f): 11:06pm On Jan 28
Op,who is God? Have you seen him before? Have he spoken to you before? How can he possibly ask you to marry someone you don't like or find appealing? It beats my imagination.
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jan 28
pray bro
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by dollyjoy(f): 11:07pm On Jan 28
sirusX:
The Lord works in mysterious ways

The eyes of man can never be compared to what God sees

It’s recognizing that God has plans for you and he wants what’s best for you
I'm interested in how God asked him to marry someone he is not completely attracted to..
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Obinovictor(m): 11:07pm On Jan 28
Jogunomi1:
Can God ask me to marry someone I don't find physically attractive?

She is of very good character, gentle, well suited for my career, but I don't find her sexy. I have a dream in which someone like her was described for as a good wife. Without hitting on her, she is now after me, throwing green light almost everyday.

There is a huge possibility that you'll cheat on her if you marry her. But what do you consider as priority in your dream woman?
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by sirusX(m): 11:12pm On Jan 28
Jogunomi1:


I like everything about her apart the fact that she's not that sexy and not young. I'm older than her though.
What intrigues you about her...what attracted you to her in the first place. This really counts

When it comes to relationship....truly one would say physical appeal and attraction matters

That’s one of the many reasons some men cheat in relationships...when they find someone with a physique they admire
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Jogunomi1: 11:12pm On Jan 28
Obinovictor:


There is a huge possibility that you'll cheat on her if you marry her. But what do you consider as priority in your dream woman?

I want her to be sexy like those indian actresses, a fiery Bible scholar, trustworthy.
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Obinovictor(m): 11:16pm On Jan 28
Jogunomi1:


I want her to be sexy like those indian actresses, a fiery Bible scholar, trustworthy.

If you don't find her sexy enough, go find another person. Don't become that husband that will have numerous mistresses outside because he feels his wife is not pretty enough
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Peachess(f): 11:23pm On Jan 28
God don't ask you to marry anyone, He has given you wisdom to be able to know the right person

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Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by sirusX(m): 11:24pm On Jan 28
dollyjoy:
I'm interested in how God asked him to marry someone he is not completely attracted to..
The beauty of a person goes beyond the physical

It’s in the heart...and how the person makes you feel

It’s in the smile...and knowing you are the reason for that smile

I could go on and on....but one needs to recognize that our imperfections define us and makes us who we are

Marriage goes beyond physical attraction...cz one day beauty fades and what remains is who you fell in love with
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by rawpadgin(m): 11:52pm On Jan 28
This one one problem with young people nowadays. & that is why relationship/marriage don't last anymore


Physical endowment shouldn't even in ur top 5 criteria for picking a wife
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Alariiwo: 11:56pm On Jan 28
Sexual compatibility is a strong criteria for marriage else you'll end up sleeping around cos you won't fancy her after marriage.

On a second thought, she might be the one for you.. Who knows?
My own advice is.. Don't start what you won't finish.
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Macgreat(m): 12:24am On Jan 29
God does not tell you who to marry.

There's difference between GUT and GOD.

Green Light is like sport to women. grin cheesy

It is possible she is testing you. wink

Honestly, marry someone that you are comfortable with, someone you have peace with, someone who will not fight you at every chance she got.

You don't truly know someone until you are very close. You saw her in your dream does not make her your idea woman.

You got to know what you want in a woman, and attraction should be at the top 5 on the list.

Don't marry a Sister, Marry a Friend!.. Someone you can spend all day with and still wanna do some private soft.

Marriage is not all about sex and touching but you can't take it out of it.
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Macgreat(m): 12:38am On Jan 29
sirusX:

The beauty of a person goes beyond the physical

It’s in the heart...and how the person makes you feel

It’s in the smile...and knowing you are the reason for that smile

I could go on and on....but one needs to recognize that our imperfections define us and makes us who we are

Marriage goes beyond physical attraction...cz one day beauty fades and what remains is who you fell in love with

If you are the reason for someone's smile, you are in a big mess.

Someone should be able to be happy with or without you. If your own existence can not put smile on your face then you are out to frustrate other people.

That's way too much responsible.
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by lefulefu(m): 1:12am On Jan 29
rawpadgin:
This one one problem with young people nowadays. & that is why relationship/marriage don't last anymore


Physical endowment shouldn't even in ur top 5 criteria for picking a wife


we all have our specs when we want to choose a partner and apart from that,the way the lady smiles at u or holds her head might get u attracted to her.lets not deceive ourselves herecheesy. If u happen to get married to a woman u don't find attractive just because a pastor told u that God choosed her for u then u will into the temptation of cheating on her.by the way how will a man be able to have sex with his wife that he feels no attraction for and has no feelings for her. Abi dem no go do za oza room? cheesy.
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by lefulefu(m): 1:17am On Jan 29
sirusX:

The beauty of a person goes beyond the physical

It’s in the heart...and how the person makes you feel

It’s in the smile...and knowing you are the reason for that smile

I could go on and on....but one needs to recognize that our imperfections define us and makes us who we are

Marriage goes beyond physical attraction...cz one day beauty fades and what remains is who you fell in love with
all this one na grammarcheesy. Lets say for example u love slim babes and the pastor in ur church recommended u to one fat ugly girl with bowlegs as this lady God choose for u. Now since ur spec is slim babes then how will u be able to do the stuff in za oza room?cheesy.abi na bible una go dey read throughout the night? cheesy.
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by sirusX(m): 2:03pm On Jan 29
lefulefu:
all this one na grammarcheesy. Lets say for example u love slim babes and the pastor in ur church recommended u to one fat ugly girl with bowlegs as this lady God choose for u. Now since ur spec is slim babes then how will u be able to do the stuff in za oza room?cheesy.abi na bible una go dey read throughout the night? cheesy.
Lol ...I get you cheesy

Anywayz, I was never a fan of “my pastor says”
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by sirusX(m): 2:06pm On Jan 29
Macgreat:


If you are the reason for someone's smile, you are in a big mess.

Someone should be able to be happy with or without you. If your own existence can not put smile on your face then you are out to frustrate other people.

That's way too much responsible.
Hey...what do I know??

There’s a lot involved in marriage, and there ain’t no laid down rules for a successful marriage that works for all

Just find what best works for you as an individual and commit all to God
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by mastermaestro(m): 2:59pm On Jan 29
GOD only recommends but the final decision is yours. However, turning down His choice comes with grave regrets. The last thing GOD looks at when recommending anyone for you is physical appearance. The most beautiful souls and destinies are not always very elegant in physical appearance.
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by mastermaestro(m): 3:02pm On Jan 29
rawpadgin:
This one one problem with young people nowadays. & that is why relationship/marriage don't last anymore


Physical endowment shouldn't even in ur top 5 criteria for picking a wife



You are very correct. Most people are chasing physical beauties instead of people with clear purpose, beautiful souls and wonderful destinies. It's a sad situation.
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Nobody: 3:20pm On Jan 29
From experience, if you don't have feelings for her? My brother no need marrying her. Or else later on you will cheat on her ,and it's either you seek for divorce with kids involved or one lives a miserable and double life afterwards.
This is not about physical endowment but feelings and endearment which one can't explain.
Feelings of the heart, one cannot explain why. One simply loves whom the heart ticks for. That's the way it is.

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Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Jan 29
lefulefu:
all this one na grammarcheesy. Lets say for example u love slim babes and the pastor in ur church recommended u to one fat ugly girl with bowlegs as this lady God choose for u. Now since ur spec is slim babes then how will u be able to do the stuff in za oza room?cheesy.abi na bible una go dey read throughout the night? cheesy.






Abi o! Lefulefu.

How can one marry opposite of what he desires and like. And how does he even know it's God's will for him to marry a woman he had no feelings for? Even if my Pastor tells me a short Slim man is my husband, I will question it and pray about it. If my feelings still does not change towards the man? If I still detest his hands around me, then Pastor sorry, this can't work. God knows me, he created me and know what will make me happy. He can't be so cruel to make me unhappy all the rest of my life? undecided
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Nobody: 3:35pm On Jan 29
mastermaestro:


You are very correct. Most people are chasing physical beauties instead of people with clear purpose, beautiful souls and wonderful destinies. It's a sad situation.







But seriously, is it only ugly people that have clear purpose, beautiful souls and wonderful destinies? undecided
While beautiful and good looking people have unclear purpose, ugly terrible souls and bad destinies, abi?

I wonder how some people reason. Make una fear God.
To be a good wife or good husband material is not boiled down to looks
It's an individual thing. People should stop judging good looking people unfairly, it's very bad and a sin before God.
If you are ugly, that does not mean u should castigate beautiful and lovely women it's wrong. I call it jealousy in the highest order.

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