Please I am in so in need of your opinions.
I have a guy who does not cheat but he is not so caring and loving at all time. Because he likes to sleep and stay quiet. Sometimes I feel like giving up on him and the relationship, because of the thought of boredom.
There is this other guy who is throwing love advances at me, but I can bet he wont be so faithful as my guy. But he is so loving and caring, he asks me about my day at work? What will I eat? And that I need rest if necessary.
Please what should I do?

Rstella:
Please I am in so in need of your opinions.
I have a guy who does not cheat but he is not so caring and loving at all time. Because he likes to sleep and stay quiet. Sometimes I feel like giving up on him and the relationship, because of the thought of boredom.
There is this other guy who is throwing love advances at me, but I can bet he wont be so faithful as my guy. But he is so loving and caring, he asks me about my day at work? What will I eat? And that I need rest if necessary.
Please what should I do?

This your question is deep

Check your priorities

Ask yourself what you want

You can do better than having those two as choices!

which of the relationships do you think will last longer,no one knows what you can cope with or bear better than yourself.

Valro:
which of the relationships do you think will last longer,no one knows what you can cope with or bear better than yourself.

You can't tell which will hopefully last longer

To every play boy theirs a girl she succumbs to

If she has got the qualities of that kinda girl then she shouldn't be scared

No be one ugly girl go dey find one fine boy destiny she go tie down

work on yourself so you'll attract the kinda guy you want

Can't we just have a faithful man who is loving?

I was told a similar story some years ago by an elderly woman. Her friend in the UK who wanted to settle down was in a fix between two men just like the story you shared OP. The first man is said to be so boring while the other is so romantic. The first is often at home the other is always going places taking the lady to eateries. Then the wise advise came, marry the boring one he will be with you when you are pregnant when your body changes at most he will watch tv with you but the other romantic one will always be the envy of others ladies outside and will take other ladies out when you are out of shape. .

the way u people go about with this "what should I do" of a thing is quite stupid

Sarang:
Can't we just have a faithful man who is loving?

Of course, you can have such a man. But note, finding all these qualities in one man is painfully rare. And this is not about men alone...

However, according to Op's narrative, I wouldn't say the said guy who doesn't cheat is not a good lover. Perhaps, he's an introvert who just want to be his natural self.

Here's what I think. A man who doesn't cheat on his partner is the best of them all, in as much as the argument is, 'he doesn't care enough', which means that to a certain level, he cares. Besides, which will you rather have between the two: A man whom you know is there for you alone, where ever he may be, or one giving you constant worries, chasing everything under the skirt?

So because a man enjoys his sleep and talks less, you think he's not caring and loving? If you ain't boring yourself, you wouldn't need a man to be your source of entertainment. Work on yourself and you'll be able to pick the right choice.

If you are not judging a book by its cover or driving a car from the backseat, it is better to choose the innocent and cool guy rather than tie the knot with the SHAKU SHAKU guy.

I'll advice you keep your options open. If both of u are introverts, it won't be a good combination. I'm not a woman but I understand ur feeling. D way men feel it is they see beautiful girl with good features, educated but mannerless and a girl not really endowed(which can push one to cheat), uneducated, unexposed but with good manners and wonderful personality.

D dilemma is in both gender. This is what I was telling Brooke60 sometime ago. Flow with d calm guy who doesnt cheat but keep ur options open. God help you

Rstella:
Please I am in so in need of your opinions.
I have a guy who does not cheat but he is not so caring and loving at all time. Because he likes to sleep and stay quiet. Sometimes I feel like giving up on him and the relationship, because of the thought of boredom.
There is this other guy who is throwing love advances at me, but I can bet he wont be so faithful as my guy. But he is so loving and caring, he asks me about my day at work? What will I eat? And that I need rest if necessary.
Please what should I do?

Hmmm.... Dont even make d mistake of falling for a player. Otherwise, dsame u will come and open anoda thread complaining blah bla blahhh....

He may look caring and loving but my instincts tells me dat d moment he gets into ur pants, dats wen u will see his true colour n regret shall fall on u



For d other guy, have u talked to him about it



I may be wrong sha.... My 1cent

Sarang:
Can't we just have a faithful man who is loving?

Yes we do....

Plenty sef....

Shine ya eyes, u go see dem yanfu yanfu

Rstella:
Please I am in so in need of your opinions.
I have a guy who does not cheat but he is not so caring and loving at all time. Because he likes to sleep and stay quiet. Sometimes I feel like giving up on him and the relationship, because of the thought of boredom.
There is this other guy who is throwing love advances at me, but I can bet he wont be so faithful as my guy. But he is so loving and caring, he asks me about my day at work? What will I eat? And that I need rest if necessary.
Please what should I do?

none of them, you deserve the best, always remember that

Reading these comments and picking up most relevant advice. Thanks everyone.