yinkaOdutuyo:
lie lie; your girlfriend go get 1.5M; she go still dey follow you!
oga we no be cow!

yinkaOdutuyo:
lie lie; your girlfriend go get 1.5M; she go still dey follow you!
oga we no be cow!

yinkaOdutuyo:
lie lie; your girlfriend go get 1.5M; she go still dey follow you!
oga we no be cow!

Pascopele:
Good day everyone, I used to be an advocate of "don't check your partner's phone" but yesterday something struck me, a girl I've been asking to marry me was seriously asking me for 3k after my mom called in her presence that she needed money & my girl is aware I was under pressure that morning to raise extra 105k for materials after I invested six figures into my business, & she's aware I'm the father & husband in my family since my dad passed early 2019, she was begging for this cash like her life depends on it, now I decided to peep into her first bank account which is not the only bank account she has, I was shocked to discover.....

Your Acct 305XXXX356 Has Been Debited with NGN20,000.00 On 26-NOV-2019 18:56:35 By ATM WITHDRAWAL-1033101303221 UBA OKIT/OK. Bal: NGN1,519,624.81CR

Please is this fair?
I'm scared if I proceed with this relationship to settle with her I might not get support even when I'm drowning and she's floating, I always give her before now but business is just picking up and I am not happy with the way she's going about the 3k issue

How can I fix this?
I feel like walking away but my heart is so loving her..

What can I do?

Gaggi:
Too many aspiring movie scriptwriters on this forum. You guys are wasting your creative talent here when you can actually make good money writing scripts for nollywood. PM me for hookups.

IyaTola:
Why would you assume and conclude before asking her, or is communication no more vital in relationships? Even a guilty party has the right to defend oneself in court before judgement.

You should sit her down and hold a reasonable conversation with her, asking her what she needs the 3k for and the owner of the money in her account. Always ascertain before concluding or making assumptions.

The money you see in some people's accounts are not usually theirs. If the money isn't hers, then she may be in urgent or critical need. But if the money is hers, why is she demanding for 3k? Is she testing you, being greedy or what? I don't think you actually know this lady you want to marry, if she's good or not. Sometimes, situations may arise in a relationship that will make the other party look bad or good in ones eyes, but not so in reality. You need to study more and communicate more with your lady.

Finally, It is better to be happily single than unhappily married. The pressure on young folks to “find a man/woman” is total nonsense. You don’t need a man/woman to be happy or successful.

A culture that says you’re incomplete without a man/man is a patriarchal prison.

Break out of that prison. You don’t need a man to make you happy, complete, or successful.

Live your best life today - with or without a man./woman

Last Bullet
No matter how nice your wedding was, it will never make sense to those that didn't get food

IyaTola:
Why would you assume and conclude before asking her, or is communication no more vital in relationships? Even a guilty party has the right to defend oneself in court before judgement.

You should sit her down and hold a reasonable conversation with her, asking her what she needs the 3k for and the owner of the money in her account. Always ascertain before concluding or making assumptions.

The money you see in some people's accounts are not usually theirs. If the money isn't hers, then she may be in urgent or critical need. But if the money is hers, why is she demanding for 3k? Is she testing you, being greedy or what? I don't think you actually know this lady you want to marry, if she's good or not. Sometimes, situations may arise in a relationship that will make the other party look bad or good in ones eyes, but not so in reality. You need to study more and communicate more with your lady.

Finally, It is better to be happily single than unhappily married. The pressure on young folks to “find a man/woman” is total nonsense. You don’t need a man/woman to be happy or successful.

A culture that says you’re incomplete without a man/man is a patriarchal prison.

Break out of that prison. You don’t need a man to make you happy, complete, or successful.

Live your best life today - with or without a man./woman

Last Bullet
No matter how nice your wedding was, it will never make sense to those that didn't get food

lavylilly:
[s] You have always wanted to dump her. It's okay to tie the heartbreak to something. Yes, you found something. So, move on. I hope she does too [/s] .

Deandean:


Haaa!! !! Naija gals! Naija gal!...una b ogbolo,what re d chances dat d money in ur acc z not yours(at most 1/100000) so why re we discussing on that premise. U sa feel an obligation yo defend 1 of ur own...its either shez jealous hez givin money to d mother(gals/mother inlaw ish since 1446)and shez servin pusśy 4 free or she just want to block d chances of him askin her for money(i cnt giv u pussy n still pay u nah,biko)...wateva it z,..it has nothin to do with love...mostly complex or self preservation

Powersurge:
Bro honestly, I don't know how to advise you. What I can say is that marriage is a lifetime thing. The WORSE THING that could happen to someone is to go into it with the wrong person.

The hubby of a woman who has ulterior motives can never achieve tangible success in life. This kind of woman would build houses without your knowledge.

People like me don't really talk much. But there are red lines. once you cross them, something has already been broken. Even if you are still around.

But the decision is yours in the end. peace.

IyaTola:
Why should I inform my husband of the houses I intend to build or house I have built?

IyaTola:
what's you saying?

Deandean:


Comprehension 101...go bck 2 sch my love

greencard:
are you married?

Before I give u my reply

IyaTola:
Talk if you want to

IyaTola:

yinkaOdutuyo:
lie lie; your girlfriend go get 1.5M; she go still dey follow you!
oga we no be cow!