I'm a Christian who must marry a Christian girl because of my job. I met this girl in a pharmacy shop. She's very intelligent. I thought that the liking I have for her is one-sided until she started throwing green light. What cam I do, please?

What kind of job is that?

Like my dad do say, son don't put ursef in a tight corner... Hope the girl aint a fanatic??

Just buy Jalabia nd follow her

dollyjoy:
What kind of job is that?

A job in a Christian establishment... Relatedd to a pastoral job

Stevengerd:
Like my dad do say, son don't put ursef in a tight corner... Hope the girl aint a fanatic??

She wears hijab but not a fanatic. She's is now kind of depressed because I'm not returning the signal

Jogunomi1:


A job in a Christian establishment... Relatedd to a pastoral job

Kpe ke le, kpe ke le, Arugbo je gbese, tani o san.

Sapphire86:


Kpe ke le, kpe ke le, Arugbo je gbese, tani o san.

After analysing various specs I see in women, I always go back to her specs as the best...dark, she doesn't know that she is beautiful or so I think, gentle, she talks to me naturally as if she is married to me - ordinary sentence but the way she says the sentences has deep meaning to me alone. I secretly adore her. Now she craves my attention.

I see no crime in marrying a Muslim gal.
We all are equal in God's sight

Nedfed:
I see no crime in marrying a Muslim gal.
We all are equal in God's sight

The problem is that her type will like to be allowed to keep practicing her religion while I practice mine. Besides, I won't like to force her cos I'm really in love with her.

Jogunomi1:


She wears hijab but not a fanatic. She's is now kind of depressed because I'm not returning the signal

Why not play along

Jogunomi1:


The problem is that her type will like to be allowed to keep practicing her religion while I practice mine. Besides, I won't like to force her cos I'm really in love with her.

Perhaps! It's a divine sign for you to revert to Islam.


Think abt it and if you can't revert,please,leave the girl alone!

Jogunomi1:


A job in a Christian establishment... Relatedd to a pastoral job

u just want to create problem for urself.wat of the beautiful girls in ur church?..none of them fine enuf for u to fall in love with any of them?

Jogunomi1:


The problem is that her type will like to be allowed to keep practicing her religion while I practice mine. Besides, I won't like to force her cos I'm really in love with her.

Don't be like Saul. Better leave her alone and marry a person with same belief.
I'm talking from past personal experience

Jogunomi1:




After analysing various specs I see in women, I always go back to her specs as the best...dark, she doesn't know that she is beautiful or so I think, gentle, she talks to me naturally as if she is married to me - ordinary sentence but the way she says the sentences has deep meaning to me alone. I secretly adore her. Now she craves my attention.

You already know there will be road blockage in the nearest future so why still driving ahead?

lefulefu:
u just want to create problem for urself.wat of the beautiful girls in ur church?..none of them fine enuf for u to fall in love with any of them?

Come on man, love and choices of a life partner doesn't work that way. There are many people out there filled with regrets years down the line that they succumbed to family and societal pressure of not going for whom their heart truly desired.

Op tell her genuinely how you feel about her and try to get her view on the faith disparity factor. You'll be surprised how far she's willing to go just to make it work.

Vado:


Come on man, love and choices of a life partner doesn't work that way. There are many people out there filled with regrets years down the line that they succumbed to family and societal pressure of not going for whom their heart truly desired.

Op tell her genuinely how you feel about her and try to get her view on the faith disparity factor. You'll be surprised how far she's willing to go just to make it work.

i am just saying oo
op says he works closely with his pastor in his church and also a sort of position there.u think his pastor will approve?

mary her only if you are stupid enough to ignore God's orders
and be back on NL in a year with a regret thread.

wah is wrong wit marrying a muslim Africans jst like carrying religion in their head.

ubunja:
mary her only if you are stupid enough to ignore God's orders
and be back on NL in a year with a regret thread.

I thought you don't believe in God. How come you know of "Do not be unequally yoked with an...?"

Jogunomi1:


I thought you don't believe in God. How come you know of "Do not be unequally yoked with an...?"

thats the problem with Nice Guys, they think Bad Boys are bad boys coz they are evil..dude go thru my posts and you'll see where i stand faith-wise.
my christianity is clear for all to see.why do u think im always praising virgins and dissing hoes??

Get her to convert to Christianity if you can, there are millions of Christians who used to be Muslims. Of course, this will take time and there's no guarantee she'll eventually make the switch. But you can try and if she doesn't switch, at least, you got to add a notch to your pûssy count.