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Virginity is female by ZiniZi(f): 10:01am On Feb 02, 2018
https://dailynaija.com/post/virginity-is-female

Everybody Deserves To Be A Virgin...

Have you ever been in a scenario where the subject of love, relationship and sex is being discussed?

If so, you must have noticed the usual pride with which the male folks talked about sex and pride in the number of girls they have had sex with, like it were some achievement of some sort which deserved a Grammys.

On the other hand, the female folks usually lie very low during such discussions in a bid to avoid being labeled loose by the society.

Do you know why it is so? I will tell you to the best of my ability as we progress on this discourse.



The truth is, the society spends so much time training the girl child to the apparent detriment of their male counterparts.

Girls are put through the rigors of strict moral lessons with special lessons on how to eat, talk and walk in the public in order not to appear ‘un-ladylike’, while the guys are abandoned to whatever they deem fit.

Meanwhile, their male counterparts would be left to wallow in ignorance of whatever little training they get from anywhere without any particular attention to morality.

They are made to believe that the world revolves around them with teachings that make them feel like potential heads of homes as society demands.

Cooking and other domestic chores are made alien to them because contrary to Beyonce’s belief that girls run the world, men think they should be the ones running the world instead.



Virginity is not reserved for any particular gender per se. It takes two to tango for crying out loud!

Men are actually also expected to be virgins too. If there is any way the society would correct that anomaly that virginity is only reserved for girls, it will be really great.

It is about time the society started making virginity demands from men also. Or is it because it might be difficult to tell which man is a virgin and which is not because of the nature of their sexual organs.

For a fact, it appears rather nauseating to delve into a discussion to see a man bragging about how many ‘keys he has unlocked’ only to see a woman trying so hard to stay away from the discussion to avoid being labeled.

Gone are days when women allowed themselves to be relegated to the background because they feel themselves no longer deserving a space in the public eye simply because they have broken the ‘almighty hymen seal’.



If there is a way the society can correct this anomaly it will be really great because in reality, it takes two to tango.

A girl doesn’t lose her virginity to herself; just the same way a man doesn’t lose his virginity to himself. It doesn’t even make any sense.

Really, the society expects rather too much from the girl child far less than what they expect from the guys and it is all shades of wrong.

We can correct this anomaly.

Everybody deserves to be a virgin.
source : https://dailynaija.com/post/virginity-is-female

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Re: Virginity is female by Nobody: 10:18am On Feb 02, 2018
Beyonce’s belief that girls run the world, men think they should be the ones running the world instead.

Why would men want to run the world, while they are already running the girls who run the world

OP, you have said too little about men's potential
Re: Virginity is female by Lalas247(f): 10:22am On Feb 02, 2018
once a guy masturbates and buss a nut .. He is no longer a Virgin.. simple
its because Jo one ask them or questions their virginith society has made it that way .. only females gets all this virginity talk .. yet boys are loosing it by the second ..
Re: Virginity is female by donstan18: 10:34am On Feb 02, 2018
ZiniZi:
https://dailynaija.com/post/virginity-is-female

Everybody Deserves To Be A Virgin...

Virginity is not reserved for any particular gender per se. It takes two to tango for crying out loud!

Men are actually also expected to be virgins too. If there is any way the society would correct that anomaly that virginity is only reserved for girls, it will be really great.

It is about time the society started making virginity demands from men also. Or is it because it might be difficult to tell which man is a virgin and which is not because of the nature of their sexual organs.

For a fact, it appears rather nauseating to delve into a discussion to see a man bragging about how many ‘keys he has unlocked’ only to see a woman trying so hard to stay away from the discussion to avoid being labeled.

If there is a way the society can correct this anomaly it will be really great because in reality, it takes two to tango.

A girl doesn’t lose her virginity to herself; just the same way a man doesn’t lose his virginity to himself. It doesn’t even make any sense.

Really, the society expects rather too much from the girl child far less than what they expect from the guys and it is all shades of wrong.

We can correct this anomaly.

Everybody deserves to be a virgin.



Stop crying dear cheesy, loosing your virginity to a man who isn't your husband isn't the end of the world cheesy clean your tears cheesy all is well grin

I understand your pain,
I understand how bad you feel being a non-virgin cheesy
I know how tough and painful a woman feels to see people praise and hype virgin women especially when she's not, cheesy
I also know how cheated ladies feel to see how non-virgin men and women are being taken in the society despite the fact that both genders lost their Virginity,

But, the Bitter truth remains that they can NEVER be seen as the same, no matter how hard you try, virgins men and virgin women can never be the same, stop deceiving yourself, deep inside you, you know the truth.

There are some gender societal views that cannot be changed, no matter how hard you try.

Before I forget. If you must complain on how the both genders are being viewed in virgin aspect.

Also, ask yourself.

Why do women demand financially from men before sex that they'll both enjoy? isn't that cheating?

Why do men take full responsibility of kids that are being owned by the man and the woman?, isn't that cheating?

Why must a man pay to have sex that the both parties will enjoy? why?

Believe me!


A male virgin and a female virgin can never be the same ,that's the bitter truth.

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