antiflathead:
pls legend can u emphasis on bypassing a woman's demanding syndrome

it is very simple. Don't tell her yes all the times, sometimes say no!

Even if her needs her genuine, sometimes still say no, to help her adjust and manage what she has, it will pay both of you in the future.

If she leaves you for another man or start seeing another man, let her go and end the relationship.

If you tell her yes all the time, she will get used to it and 95% of ladies will abuse that privilege.

Tomorrow if you can't afford it and u say no, you will see her true color

true,thanx

ideologies:
it is very simple. Don't tell her yes all the times, sometimes say no!

Even if her needs her genuine, sometimes still say no, to help her adjust and manage what she has, it will pay both of you in the future.

If she leaves you for another man or start seeing another man, let her go and end the relationship.

If you tell her yes all the time, she will get used to it and 95% of ladies will abuse that privilege.

Tomorrow if you can't afford it and u say no, you will see her true color

ideologies:
bae 99% of ladies treat nice guys badly.

What op wrote is actually for the ladies good.

If a lady really wants a guy she should invest in the relationship as a sign of her commitment.

I'm actually not against what the Op wrote, but my point is this doesn't apply to all ladies...everyone has a different techniques that works for them when it comes to ladies.. what applies to you Miss A might not work with Miss B

ideologies:
it is very simple. Don't tell her yes all the times, sometimes say no!

Even if her needs her genuine, sometimes still say no, to help her adjust and manage what she has, it will pay both of you in the future.

If she leaves you for another man or start seeing another man, let her go and end the relationship.

If you tell her yes all the time, she will get used to it and 95% of ladies will abuse that privilege.

Tomorrow if you can't afford it and u say no, you will see her true color

i agree with this... but, what of in a case where she isn't the demanding type and eventually ask for something that's really important to her, will you still say no?

Michelle55:
i agree with this... but, what of in a case where she isn't the demanding type and eventually ask for something that's really important to her, will you still say no?

like I said, don't say yes all the time. That does mean you shouldn't observe her needs and help out where necessary.

It is actually not a case of being demanding, but I case of helping ladies leave fantasies of movies and novels and live in a real world.

ideologies:
like I said, don't say yes all the time. That does mean you shouldn't observe her needs and help out where necessary.

It is actually not a case of being demanding, but I case of helping ladies leave fantasies of movies and novels and live in a real world.

hmmmmm..quite an insight.

Michelle55:
I'm actually not against what the Op wrote, but my point is this doesn't apply to all ladies...everyone has a different techniques that works for them when it comes to ladies.. what applies to you Miss A might not work with Miss B

like I said, 99.8%

Including born again ladies.

Are you among the 0.2% ?

Lol

ideologies:
like I said, 99.8%
Including born again ladies.
Are you among the 0.2% ?
Lol

lol...yeah I am. BTW, where did you get your stats from?

Michelle55:
following even though it doesn't apply to all women

The guy is right.. You can't be judge in your own case.

Michelle55:
lol...yeah I am. BTW, where did you get your stats from?

hehehehe see psychology again where op treat?

If I answer this question I go enter trap

Hahaha

mank1234:


The guy is right.. You can't be judge in your own case.

really,tell me more cos I wanna understand it clearly from guy's perspective

ideologies:
hehehehe see psychology again where op treat?

If I answer this question I go enter trap

Hahaha

lolsss..what trap? I just wanna confirm where you got your stats from.. that's all

Michelle55:
lolsss..what trap? I just wanna confirm where you got your stats from.. that's all

Lol, am a realist and I keep my ears on the ground while observing trends

ideologies:

Lol, am a realist and I keep my ears on the ground while observing trends

lol..tell me more.. I'm keen in learning more

Michelle55:
lol..tell me more.. I'm keen in learning more

lol, out of 7 billion people in the world, up to 4.5billion are females

ideologies:
lol, out of 7 billion people in the world, up to 4.5billion are females

this cracked me up... are you for real? haven't heard of that discovery before, please explain vividly how you arrive at this conclusion?

Michelle55:
really,tell me more cos I wanna understand it clearly from guy's perspective

Relationship is all about negotiating. Give and take, win and loss. Sometimes you have to use manipulative ploy as he suggested. Nice guys (yes guys) are always on the losing side. Sometimes thwyay get lucky to get love back after they must have failed - solely out of the woman's remorse.

Michelle55:
this cracked me up... are you for real? haven't heard of that discovery before, please explain vividly how you arrive at this conclusion?

I have said everything already I observe.

Let me share a story of what happened to a nice guy last year.

During black Friday, a certain lady went on Jumia and added several items to cart, then screenshot them and sent to a nice guy to pay.

I told the nice guy not to pay even though I knew that he can afford it.

The lady got annoyed and refuse to talk to the guy for a weeks.

Hahahhahaa. Even when she visited the guys area, in DEC she never reach out to the guy.

mank1234:


Relationship is all about negotiating. Give and take, win and loss. Sometimes you have to manipulative ploy as he suggested. Nice guys (yes guys) are always on the losing side. Sometimes thwyay get lucky to get love back after they must have failed - solely out of the woman's remorse.

hmmmm,i see

iLegendd:
Number 2

2. We became instant friends and along the line, we grew close.

COMMENT.

You grew closer? Guys, be warned. Don't grow too close and forget to set your boundaries from the start. If you miss this, you'll regret later.

typing...

pls expansiate on that setting boundaries. I need to understand it bro.
thanks

ideologies:
I have said everything already I observe.

Let me share a story of what happened to a nice guy last year.

During black Friday, a certain lady went on Julia and added several items to cart, then screenshot them and sent to a nice guy to pay.

I told the nice guy not to pay even though I knew that he can afford it.

The lady got annoyed and refuse to talk to the guy for a weeks.

Hahahhahaa. Even when she visited the guys area, in DEC she never reach out to the guy.

hmmm,that's doesn't speak good of her... relationship is 50/50..don't order for things you can't pay for except your man says otherwise.

Michelle55:
hmmm,that's doesn't speak good of her... relationship is 50/50..don't order for things you can't pay for except your man says otherwise.

so u are trying to prove that u are among the 0.2% iyamma observing still lolzzz

ideologies:
so u are trying to prove that u are among the 0.2% iyamma observing still lolzzz

ain't proving anything,just stating the fact.

Michelle55:
ain't proving anything,just stating the fact.

but 99.8% believes a guy must spend on a lady.

Some turn it to blackmail

ideologies:
but 99.8% believes a guy must spend on a lady.

Some turn it to blackmail

lol...i actually don't buy that ideology that a man "must" be the one to provide everything. like I said earlier on, it's 50/50

Michelle55:
lol...i actually don't buy that ideology that a man "must" be the one to provide everything. like I said earlier on, it's 50/50

cool, good of you.

I need to rest, hopefully we will meetup tomorrow

ideologies:
cool, good of you.
I need to rest, hopefully we will meetup tomorrow

Goodnight!!!

apharm:

pls expansiate on that setting boundaries. I need to understand it bro.
thanks

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Michelle55:
Goodnight!!!

good afternoon

ideologies:
good afternoon

Lover boy #wink. Omoh na you dey reign. Michelle55 weds Ideologies, 2020. Bro go confirm whether she be transgender before you put the ring on her. All I'm after is to eat wedding chicken, so be fast.

ideologies:
good afternoon

afternoon...missed my trouble I guess...how have you been and how's work going

iLegendd:
Lover boy #wink. Omoh na you dey reign. Michelle55 weds Ideologies, 2020. Bro go confirm whether she be transgender before you put the ring on her. All I'm after is to eat wedding chicken, so be fast.

chei,bros you have finished me oh, transgender kwa? I can never be biko... lolss