why is it that whenever i see a nice girl then develop feelings for her finally ask her out then she agrees to be mine next thing we book appointment of meeting again, I would be so happy that I've found a new girl but on or before the appointment day I would then lose every single interest in her; seriously this attitude has really caused me a lot of good relationship. Please is anyone experiencing same? and what can i do to cure the madness.

At least you acknowledge that there's a problem. There's hope for you.

It could be because you're a commitment phobe & are afraid to get too emotionally attached, incase you get hurt. Or it could simply mean you need to grow up. The thrill of the chase is intoxicating, I'm sure. But it takes a certain level of emotional maturity to mantain a relationship. Try to work on that. It won't happen overnight. It's a process.

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I'll be back, let me eat first.

XhosaNostra:
At least you acknowledge that there's a problem. There's hope for you.

It could be because you're a commitment phobe & are afraid to get too emotionally attached, incase you get hurt. Or it could simply mean you need to grow up. The thrill of the chase is intoxicating, I'm sure. But it takes a certain level of emotional maturity to mantain a relationship. Try to work on that. It won't happen overnight. It's a process.

I've never been heartbroken before neither am I too young to be in a relationship but I just find out that it keeps happening, the truth is most times i end up regreting(may be after many months)not carrying on with the relationship but I just cannot help it. it has caused serious problems between me and so many girls that seriously wanted to be with me, they all thought someone else was distracting me from them. seriously am beginning to think whether it is spiritual.

maybe u hv a spiritual wife.do u dream b/4 loosing interest?

newyorks:
maybe u hv a spiritual wife.do u dream b/4 loosing interest?

not at all.

biafraisdead:

I've never been heartbroken before neither am I too young to be in a relationship but I just find out that it keeps happening, the truth it I may later after many months or years regret not carrying on with the relationship but I just cannot help it. it has caused serious problems between me and so many girls that seriously wanted to be with me, they all thought someone else was distracting me from them. seriously am beginning to think whether it is spiritual.

It doesn't have to be your own heartbreak per se. Sometimes "we" can also be affected by other people's experiences, subconsciously. Look, IDK, I'm only guessing here. The good thing is that you know you have a problem, so try to work on it any way you wish. If you think it's spiritual, then work it from that angle. It's up to you.

XhosaNostra:


It doesn't have to be your own heartbreak per se. Sometimes "we" can also be affected by other people's experiences, subconsciously. Look, IDK, I'm only guessing here. The good thing is that you know you have a problem, so try to work on it any way you wish. If you think it's spiritual, then work it from that angle. It's up to you.

Thank u.

Why don't you try being friends with them? Just focus on the friendship aspect, really get to know the person inside and out and build a connection that way. So if it eventually leads to something more, you'll have the quality and connection of the friendship that can serve as your foundation for something more romantic. If not, at least you still have a friend.

iRepNaija1:
Why don't you try being friends with them? Just focus on the friendship aspect, really get to know the person inside and out and build a connection that way. So if it eventually leads to something more, you'll have the quality and connection of the friendship that can serve as your foundation for something more romantic. If not, at least you still have a friend.

u are making a point.

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