FluidQueen:
this. Is. Just. Sick..

What makes u think she wouldn't Wanna fúck(use and dump) men even if she's 30? Have you seen 30Yr old women? They are HOT and literally on FIRE.


We're both adults abeg. Sex is a consensual Act, between two people. Why men like you think Having sex with a female equates using them is beyond my cognitive abilities. No one is using anybody. Females Also enjoy sex too. We get orgasms too. We like SEX as much as you do. Do away with all those sexist mentality.

Chikita66:
No I have not, I love being in relationship, if one ends, I enter another.

gloria34:
hmm, too many advice and issues in marriage dey make me fear. I've watched my elder ones get married and d various issues in their homes have really made me see marriage in a different light. I Dont wnt to fail, i'm not sure I can cope with d hrt aches. now I've totally lose interests in relationship and I feel I'm already failing in dis aspect. I confuse

gloria34:
mine was even worse cos we did d test b4 and both showed AA. preparing 4 marriage, church asked us to run d test at a central hospital in warri only to see something different and I was already pregnant. my whole world collapsed

biacan:
I'm patiently waiting for anyone that will call me olosho and I'll use that word on him

biacan:
Which whatsapp or you where busy paying in kind

Martin0:


rubbish, I was chatting simple

ibietela2:

Olosho

biacan:
But you shouldn't have reply me in that manner

Martin0:

na u know The manner wey I go come use na

biacan:
Thanks

Martin0:

OK

gloria34:
no time 4 long stories, I just can't settle into a relationship. I'm 23, teaching, but d probs is I'm happy when I see people in relationships but I won't dare it on my own. I might talk to a guy on phone, like him, but d minute we meet, 4get it! I just want him as a friend. got lot of guys as friends but having a relationship? it just seem impossible. ladies abeg, have u experience this b4?

FluidQueen:
Exactly! I don't get the fuss with the 30-thing.


I have friends at 30s... Beautiful flowers that men practically book appointments to meet because of their busy schedule and Ambitious lifestyle. They are mostly assertive and strong willed, these half-baked men are obviously too scared to approach them because their lights shine so bright, it blinds them.

NCANSecretary:
I saw someone like you in yellow top inside Keks around mid day. @Gloria34

Raydans:
A girl that will friendzone me in this lifetime is not yet born. Lions don't mingle with Chickens. Am not even a friend material in the first place

gloria34:
no time 4 long stories, I just can't settle into a relationship. I'm 23, teaching, but d probs is I'm happy when I see people in relationships but I won't dare it on my own. I might talk to a guy on phone, like him, but d minute we meet, 4get it! I just want him as a friend. got lot of guys as friends but having a relationship? it just seem impossible. ladies abeg, have u experience this b4?

gloria34:
although we found out early, couldn't bring ourselves to abort d pregnancy. not as difficult as it seems, got my entire family behind me, he's always they(not always physically but will always send d required cash), he never misses any important event or holiday, and they video chat everyday. I just thank God 4 everything sha

Justbeingreal:
Just saw this thread the comments are interesting n insightful especially from Gourdoinc.... What about your child his genotype turned out to be what?? This genotype ish lots of peeps are going thru it I was advising a friend days back about this cuz they intend risking it two AS....

gloria34:
He came out AS, u Dont know how happy i am. Abeg, beg Ur friend well well make he nor try am

biacan:
Never knew you where this wise..... I feel your pain but it's not your fault since we no longer have sincere men out there...... all these boys wants to take advantage of ladies which can never happen.....

FluidQueen:
this. Is. Just. Sick..

What makes u think she wouldn't Wanna fúck(use and dump) men even if she's 30? Have you seen 30Yr old women? They are HOT and literally on FIRE.


We're both adults abeg. Sex is a consensual Act, between two people. Why men like you think Having sex with a female equates using them is beyond my cognitive abilities. No one is using anybody. Females Also enjoy sex too. We get orgasms too. We like SEX as much as you do. Do away with all those sexist mentality.

biacan:
Never knew you where this wise..... I feel your pain but it's not your fault since we no longer have sincere men out there...... all these boys wants to take advantage of ladies which can never happen.....

Justbeingreal:
Thank God... Congrats o....the friend is actually a she, we had something in the past but it never worked out so in this new union she found herself I was happy for her until the genotype thing came along, the guy is suggesting they risk it, she's having double mind cuz she knows the implication..

So I am mindful of the advise because based on say I be her former cuz the discussion usually leads to getting back together which I try to avoid I advised her to talk to her parents tho..

You are so lucky...your son is a lucky boy...

gloria34:
Hmm, i pray she is strong enough to make d right decision. Thank u, right now, he is like everything to me

thaikun15:
I won't comment since its for ladies only.

Gourdoinc:
I have seen them at 30, dated them at 30, dumped them at 30. also madam this has nothing to do with being sexist. the very notion that sex is consensual isn't a Nigerian thing. we know it in Africa that sex is a woman's way of blessing a man. that being said, the concept of time and cycle isn't something you illogical females understand. everything get e time, everybody is on a constant cycle. you either get with the program or you time and cycle passes away. she is 23, she is on a cycle where men won't let her be, that cycle will soon end, she will get older and men will chase other 23year olds. men like 23 year olds, not this girl in particular. am sure you attended or attend a university. it's the jambito effect. everyone will enjoy the perks of being a fresher, where everyone wants to date you, yet when u now in 300 level and ready to date, very few men bother to ask you out. simply because they are waiting for the jambito cycle. if you are wise learn from all I have said and never miss your own cycle. as expected be ur turn now, that same turn will pass away soon. wise women get all they want while it's their turn, foolish women assume the attention of the men is forever constant and end up dissapointed

gloria34:
@ Justbeingreal, My son is 2years and 9months now, currently in kg1 and doing real well. about not getting married, i use to cry about it but after pursing a job and getting it, my dear, i've consoled myself o. Relationship is not on my mind now, trying to hold onto one now and d guy is really trying cause i'm not really putting effort like i should and i know its not d same with my Ex but i'm trying