Papiikush:
If my wife earns 10m monthly, I'll gladly do more than that.

Naira or $$$$? Which one, bros?

greiboy:
I didn't really see the man laughing or gleeful as he was multitasking, all I saw in picture was man looking completely exhausted. Although, you might have seen it differently

yes,quite differently.

Pharmtj:
wife material but how many yards you be?

No, don't get it twisted, it's not about being a "wife material" because that's not my aim or what I'm about.

I believe that every single one of us has an idea or mental image of the kind of man/woman we like. The qualities that attracts us to the opposite sex. I like very manly men & my own personalised version of an ideal mate, is not someone that pounds yam. No, someone like that can NEVER be with me! I Xhosanostra, would NEVER sit down & watch my man do all the housework while I sit there looking like a useless lump of flesh. That is NOT me. I would NEVER feel proud of myself, watching someone else do things around me while I sit there twiddling my thumbs. That's not how I was brought up. I was taught to contribute & earn my keep. Elbow grease & independence was the order of the day at my house, hence I'm not comfortable watching other people do things I'm also capable of doing. I actually don't mind housework, but it must not be expected of me or forced on me. It's one of those things that helps me to get rid of excess energy & relax. It's therapeutic for me. I don't do it to impress anyone. I'm doing it because it benefits me mentally & also because I like living in a clean, orderly space. Finish.

shaybebaby:
Babes, find yourselves a white brother.

na wetin sure pass sis

Preshy561:
na wetin sure pass sis

tell her to get you one sharp sharp

shaybebaby:
Babes, find yourselves a white brother.

atutu poyoyo

This picture speaks a lot.
The lady might be helping the guy do something on the laptop. We are helpmates na

You men are so quick to judge people you don't know by looking at one photo.
Maybe they are taking turns with the childcare and housework, maybe she chased the kid all day and taking a break.
Maybe she is the main bread earner.
It's no one's place to judge.

shaybebaby:

Babes, find yourselves a white brother.

Just not a lazy one!

revontuli:

Just not a lazy one!

Lool, absolutely. But you should have been there long enough to spot the dregs.

Preshy561:

na wetin sure pass sis

You won't look back. Trust! Leave the ones that like sufferhead claiming its a woman's job.

shaybebaby:

You won't look back. Trust! Leave the ones that like sufferhead claiming its a woman's job.

Though pounding yam in most cases na man work cos in most cases it involves physical strength but wetin i find weird in the pix is the case of the guy backing the baby on his back while pounding. Why not give the baby to ur wife to attend to while u focus on the pounding. Anyway the picture looks staged but if not staged den wetin remain na for the man to tie wrapper for chest and wear lipstick.

DaddyKross:
For our nl feminists mind, this is what they are fighting for


Aruuuuuu

hold up! Hold up!..Are u saying the main goal of feminism in Nigeria is to make men to be washing women's pant and bra and be doing home chorus?...for real?

lefulefu:
hold up! Hold up!..Are u saying the main goal of feminism in Nigeria is to make men to be washing women's pant and bra and be doing home chorus?...for real?

Yes. Wash their pants, carry the kids on the back, clean the house, doing home chores, lick their kpekus on a daily basis even if we don't want to because it starts smelling fishy, submit our full month's salary to them on payday with no questions, allow them to fvck whomever they want to fvck as the kpekus is theirs and not our's , the list is endless Lefu

Bbbbbbbbbbbb:


Yes. Wash their pants, carry the kids on the back, clean the house, doing home chores, lick their kpekus on a daily basis even if we don't want to because it starts smelling fishy, submit our full month's salary to them on payday with no questions, allow them to fvck whomever they want to fvck as the kpekus is theirs and not our's , the list is endless Lefu

i don first talk this Tory here b4. There was this lecturer who used to serve his wife the time i small. This man go enter market buy food then enter kitchen dey cook while the wife dey sittingroom dey watch tv. The tin come too much dat wen d man enter market d market women go dey hala wey im wife.it was even rumoured dat na d man dey wash d woman pant cos dem say d woman no sabi wash her undres.upon all dis dat d man does for her na so d woman dey cheat on d man. D man is late now..na heart attack kill am. He washing his car one morning while his daughters and his wife were watching tv inside the house then the man just collapse suddenly. It is recommended u help ur wife or u do the domestic chorus together with love but don't because u want to help ur wife u now turn into wimp and a wussy. Women look down on men who think doing domestic chorus will make the woman to love them.

Papiikush:
If my wife earns 10m monthly, I'll gladly do more than that.

you're nothing but a cheap hoe

It looks staged. I like a man who helps out around the house , especially with the chores I hate doing. But this one doesn't seem like a guy helping out , he seems like a skivvy lol. An emasculated man is very unattractive.

lefulefu:
hold up! Hold up!..Are u saying the main goal of feminism in Nigeria is to make men to be washing women's pant and bra and be doing home chorus?...for real?

Bro, that's the bigger picture they have refused to show us .

you men are still crying ontop this picture matter ..lool

lefulefu:
i don first talk this Tory here b4. There was this lecturer who used to serve his wife the time i small. This man go enter market buy food then enter kitchen dey cook while the wife dey sittingroom dey watch tv. The tin come too much dat wen d man enter market d market women go dey hala wey im wife.it was even rumoured dat na d man dey wash d woman pant cos dem say d woman no sabi wash her undres.upon all dis dat d man does for her na so d woman dey cheat on d man. D man is late now..na heart attack kill am. He washing his car one morning while his daughters and his wife were watching tv inside the house then the man just collapse suddenly. It is recommended u help ur wife or u do the domestic chorus together with love but don't because u want to help ur wife u now turn into wimp and a wussy. Women look down on men who think doing domestic chorus will make the woman to love them.

if na for Igbo land the lady won't escape it.

Ladyhippolyta88:
This woman is very lucky he is the best man in the world .Many women pray for husbands like this ah oga you are a good man.Some Nigerians would call this man bewitched or whatever jealousy and bad belle people.

Ofonu

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CuriousMynd:


Ofonu

www.nairaland.com/attachments/6850425_tmpcam1696612662_jpeg3b55399e0895457e97598b53647e67d6

You need slap.

Lionessza:
It looks staged. I like a man who helps out around the house , especially with the chores I hate doing. But this one doesn't seem like a guy helping out , he seems like skivvy lol. An emasculated man is very unattractive.

XhosaNostra:
Staged. Unless the guy has been bewitched, I don't see how any self-respecting man would allow himself to become whatever that is. As a woman, I'd feel very uncomfortable watching a man (my man) do all the housework, while I'm sitting on my ass eating bonbons all day. In my own household I prefer to do all the housework, because I do it better

South African girls will always have my vote. as for the nigerian women fighting hard to be men and their men fighting hard to be women i always feel like vomiting. nigeria has to be one of the shìttiest places to live.
and nigerian guys almost spoiled south african girls with their ball-less-ness and always using money to get girls. thank god that didnt last. nigerian men have a weakness towards women that cant be explained. i think its their way of being romantic but its just disgusting. nigerian men c'mon now.Man Up already.

The man is a disgrace to both God and humanity. Period.

ubunja:




South African girls will always have my vote. as for the nigerian women fighting hard to be men and their men fighting hard to be women i always feel like vomiting. nigeria has to be one of the shìttiest places to live.
and nigerian guys almost spoiled south african girls with their ball-less-ness and always using money to get girls. thank god that didnt last. nigerian men have a weakness towards women that cant be explained. i think its their way of being romantic but its just disgusting. nigerian men c'mon now.Man Up already.

LMAO.

I've actually said something similar a very long time ago here, after reading many threads about guys in the so called "no sex" relationships, the "shakara" they endure & the mugu ones being used for money etc. I said, that'll never happen with a South African guy & that is a fact. How some guys do things in Nigeria, is very different to how things are done in other areas. Then again, it comes down to conditioning & being used to certain things. Seems that's what they are used to, to throw money around to attract females. If you notice, that's also what the females expect from the men, from my observation. In other words, Nigerian men & Nigerian females are suitable for each other. They feed each other's impulses. A Nigerian man with a female from elsewhere, is at risk of being used, TBH. Because South African ladies for instance, they're used to a different type of man. South African men aren't the money throwing type. So by comparison, the Nigerian man will appear to be winning the race because of the money-superficial love. In the long run, however, I don't see a relationship between the two lasting imo, because no offence, Nigerian men don't seem to be man enough. There's just something there that seems OFF. I've never dated one in real life because I'm usually not attracted to how they come across in person.

DaddyKross:




Bro, that's the bigger picture they have refused to show us .

but in the west,feminism is about equality...so how come nigeria"s feminism is about turning a man to a slave .so how u reason the average man"s lot go be if a feminist bcomes the next president of nigeria

It would have been cool with the male folks if the roles were reversed right?

And that’s what it means being a man and the head?

Preshy561:

if na for Igbo land the last won't escape it.

who wont escape who?
i dont get u

this is service to womanity

We can't judge just by the pictures without having full details of the scenario.

mean while nairaland babalawos has been busted, check my last topic