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Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Pusyiter(m): 8:25am On Mar 21, 2018 |
Sweetheart, I take exception to your comment. Nigerian men are the most romantic men you may ever dream of. When we fall in love, we FALL in love and give everything we have for the love. Same applies to Nigerian Woman. The truth is most SA ladies fall easily for 9ja men not because we like to lie as it were, but because we have SWAG which SA men don't. Most SA men are mentally lazy, hate responsibilities and love alcohol irrespective the time of the day. This is why we have xenophobia out there. I have dated SA ladies but sorry to say, I'd prefer a Nigerian lady one million times to either a Zambian, SA or Namibian. I have reservations which I would not want to air. XhosaNostra: 1 Like |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by okonja(m): 8:25am On Mar 21, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: Thumbs Up 1 Like |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by BluntTheApostle(m): 8:27am On Mar 21, 2018 |
lefulefu: Pounding is a woman's work. Women are stronger than men. It is a fact. |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Born2Breed(f): 8:28am On Mar 21, 2018 |
StylesX: I can't treat my husband this way even if he is chronic cheat. 1 Like |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by ginggerxy: 8:28am On Mar 21, 2018 |
Fadiga24:yes there is a guideline of what husband should, except you don't know your position in the family .you can read your bible. |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Nobody: 8:30am On Mar 21, 2018 |
Pusyiter: The bold face, and that's why my guy Ubunja was right. We become mumus because of this 1 Like |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by xynerise: 8:31am On Mar 21, 2018 |
Olalan: Please remove the Love |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Nobody: 8:32am On Mar 21, 2018 |
So many assumptions going on The photo is what it is. That happens in many African homes but the reverse as it is in the photo So many guys here feel it’s beneath them, it’s slavery, it’s a disgrace to manhood and the the list goes on... My question now is why then is it okay for a woman to do all that but not for the man? Are women signed automatically as slaves because they got married? Here’s a typical almost everyday African home setting: the man married probably three wives and has a farm they all work on, each day after a great amount of work from the farm the women and children are carrying huge amount of loads while their father is carrying just a cutlass. When they arrive home the man sits to a keg of palm wine while the women go straight into the kitchen fixing a meal for him. If this doesn’t look like slavery I don’t know what does. Most men on here grew up under such settings and they think it’s proper thing, it’s standard... I don’t blame them much How I see it: The man can either pound (he’s best suited to do that because he’s stronger) and the woman can be with the baby if it needed to be consoled otherwise the baby can be kept with toys while she keeps an eye on her. Or the man can be with the baby while the woman pounds unless she’s attending to an emergency on the PC then the man should just do the pounding... My husband is in charge, after knowing that, also know that they’re no clear cut roles in marriage anymore it’s 100/100. He’s in charge meaning I can’t make decisions without his permission not that I become a slave for him My take 1 Like |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by israelmao(m): 8:32am On Mar 21, 2018 |
Is this a joke or what? |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Preshy561(f): 8:33am On Mar 21, 2018 |
lefulefu:lol,the last won't escape it. |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:34am On Mar 21, 2018 |
Pusyiter: LOL! Your perception of yourself is biased though, not that I expected you to be impartial about yourself. What you view as romanticism, is actually seen as a weakness by someone else. Take note. South African men may be all those things according to you. That's your outsider's view looking in, so don't take offence when I call you weak either, because that's also my outsider's view looking in. Let's allow each other the same freedom. I don't think we will mourn you picking a Nigerian woman over us, that's your perfect match after all. 2 Likes |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Jackipapa: 8:34am On Mar 21, 2018 |
His choice, don't cry more than the bereaved |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by RexTramadol1: 8:35am On Mar 21, 2018 |
They did it fr d camera |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by jy2kbeyond(m): 8:36am On Mar 21, 2018 |
Preshy561: Lord save me from KARISHIKA |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by luminouz(m): 8:36am On Mar 21, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: See advert!!! 1 Like |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Nobody: 8:37am On Mar 21, 2018 |
StylesX: I think you're a joker blogger with poorly staged photos Though to be honest, the reverse happens all the time. Hubby watching football while madam is in the kitchen |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:37am On Mar 21, 2018 |
ginggerxy:Did he tell you he was a christian?HOW DOES IT CONCERN THE BIBLE IT IS WHAT IS SUITABLE FOR YOU THAT YOU ARE QUICK TO POINT OUT. |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by luminouz(m): 8:38am On Mar 21, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:Nawa o See as u sounded defensive!!!! |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:38am On Mar 21, 2018 |
luminouz: I'm not looking for a Nigerian boyfriend or husband lol. |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:39am On Mar 21, 2018 |
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Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by ubunja(m): 8:39am On Mar 21, 2018 |
Pusyiter:you're only romantic coz of money. take out the money from the equation you cant get women. other men get women WITHOUT spending like you do. thats why in the townships nigerian men are banned.coz you want to practice the money-type of love you practice in nigeria. no men whether in SA or Zim or zambia can allow you to train their women to be golddiggers. NEVER. forget and die bro. 1 Like |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:40am On Mar 21, 2018 |
Thoniameek:Madam you deserve a keg of palmwine.I may not agree with you 100% but you made sense. 1 Like |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Pusyiter(m): 8:42am On Mar 21, 2018 |
LOL.......Don't allow me to spill the beans. I am not talking as an outsider but someone who has experienced the streets in SA. It is not an issue of the match but a kingship of the spirit. SA ladies are sweet but 9ja ladies are sweeter. My advice is, if a 9ja man falls in love with you, then, you will know the true definition of love and romance (desire for such). It is a thing of the heart. Lemme stop here@least for now. LOL XhosaNostra: |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by luminouz(m): 8:42am On Mar 21, 2018 |
ubunja:Not all of us.. thankfully |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by jy2kbeyond(m): 8:43am On Mar 21, 2018 |
MISSCONGENIALITY: Thank you Miss. See the way she even cross-legge sit down for chair. |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by luminouz(m): 8:43am On Mar 21, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Lionessza(f): 8:47am On Mar 21, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: Nicely put. Nothing to add here . 2 Likes |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by guttentag(m): 8:47am On Mar 21, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: You never see? |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by DaddyKross: 8:48am On Mar 21, 2018 |
lefulefu: That's the main problem, they don't know what the real meaning of feminism is down here in Nigeria/Nairaland. Only very few of them have an in-depth knowledge and understanding of the movement. Lots of them just jumped on the train thinking Feminism means Egbe kiloko o se. Omo, na to kuku go become slave for westerners again be that because their own rule go worse if they eventually get that power. |
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by luminouz(m): 8:48am On Mar 21, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: I no get strength for wahala this morning biko But one thing is for sure....I never used money to entice a woman n I have dated a beninoise,a cameroounian n an Ethiopian.... |
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