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I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by Nobody: 8:10am On Mar 23, 2018
I am a young guy of 22 years, I masturbate almost every day, though I have never had vaginal sex.

Now I notice that anytime I masturbate, I release little sperm.

I am also addicted to porn viewing.

I am now a shadow of my former self.

What should I do in order to be free?

I feel like I am dying slowly inside!

Please help?
Please help?

Source:Life issues on fb
Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:22am On Mar 23, 2018
Masturbation is normal & natural imo. You're answering the call of nature, your raging hormones. At least you're not sleeping around & exposing yourself to diseases.

The real cure to addiction is self-control. Personally, when I'm addicted to something, I stay away from it just to test my resolve. It works 9/10. Addiction is tricky though, especially if you have an addictive personality. You're going to need to replace your unhealthy addiction with something else. Find a healthier replacement.

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Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by sekundosekundo: 8:49am On Mar 23, 2018
XhosaNostra:
Masturbation is normal & natural imo. You're answering the call of nature, your raging hormones. At least you're not sleeping around & exposing yourself to diseases.

The real cure to addiction is self-control. Personally, when I'm addicted to something, I stay away from it just to test my resolve. It works 9/10. Addiction is tricky though, especially if you have an addictive personality. You're going to need to replace your unhealthy addiction with something else. Find a healthier replacement.

All I see is LIES

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Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:50am On Mar 23, 2018
sekundosekundo:


All I see is LIES

Share your "truth" then.

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Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by emmysblog24(m): 9:20am On Mar 23, 2018
You can stop the Addiction my bro, If tying this now was able to stop Masturbation you too Can. Thou its not my Power nor by Might its by the Grace of God that I stopped Masturbating. One thing about Masturbation is that it Opens up a Door for Spiritual Spouse into your life, which is one of the tough Spirit to deliver if not hard in Prayer.

My Advice to you is to ask for the Grace to stop it and as well control you flesh, just like what the Bible said that a Spirit that have no control is like a City that have no wall, all manner of things can come into your life freely. Believe me you can Stop it just take you mind off it completely try it One day, Two days, Three days like that you will stay for months and years until its no more part of you. Masturbation is a Sin just like fornication, Bro, you need Grace which is Jesus. Once again you can stop masturbating if I Stopped mine.

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Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by MetroBaba1(m): 10:56am On Mar 23, 2018
XhosaNostra:
Masturbation is normal & natural imo. You're answering the call of nature, your raging hormones. At least you're not sleeping around & exposing yourself to diseases.

The real cure to addiction is self-control. Personally, when I'm addicted to something, I stay away from it just to test my resolve. It works 9/10. Addiction is tricky though, especially if you have an addictive personality. You're going to need to replace your unhealthy addiction with something else. Find a healthier replacement.

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Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:59am On Mar 23, 2018
[quote author=MetroBaba1 post=66085177][/quote]


Where are the lies?

Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by MetroBaba1(m): 11:05am On Mar 23, 2018
XhosaNostra:



Where are the lies?

Are You Blind?

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Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:09am On Mar 23, 2018
MetroBaba1:


Are You Blind?

I'm not you, so I can't possibly tell what you THINK I'm lying about.

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Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by balaclava: 11:17am On Mar 23, 2018
Sexual energy is good but it should not be our master. Funny how Masturbation and Master has 'Mastr'. Masturbation is a Master and you are the slave.

However, the reason behind it, the purpose why it's done the frequency and consequences are different from people to people.

It's basically spiritual but it could also be psychological or a mixture of both. But sir, Life in general is basically spiritual.

Some don't see it has a problem, some does.
I noticed you believe it's a problem.

The process

1. Acknowledge and admit it's a BIG problem for you.
2. Admit you can't save your self from this monster Master. This is why the next point is important.
3. Accept the sacrifice of Christ for you. He already paid for your freedom from masturbation. He gives grace and power over it wether its spiritual or psychological. Christ is a Master to all masters.
4. Prayer- This is very important inorder not to relapse/go back to it.
5. Study the Word- Also important, it just does wonders. I don't know how but It renews your mind.
6. You might relapse/go back to d act, pls don't give up. Go back to doing 4 and 5 again and again.

Same goes for pornography, fornication, just sexual issues generally.

Been in both worlds, No b beans

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Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by MetroBaba1(m): 11:18am On Mar 23, 2018
XhosaNostra:


I'm not you, so I can't possibly tell what you THINK I'm lying about.


What Do You Know About Me? When You Can't Possibly Tell Yourself That Your Comment Was Duvet Of Lies

Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:24am On Mar 23, 2018
MetroBaba1:


What Do You Know About Me? When You Can't Possibly Tell Yourself That Your Comment Was Duvet Of Lies

The same question I'm asking myself. What do you know about me, to be so certain that I must be lying? Lying about what? You can't even say it.

I'm bored. Say what you think I'm lying about or have yourself a nice day.

Eagerly waiting for the "exposé"...

Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by MetroBaba1(m): 11:29am On Mar 23, 2018
XhosaNostra:


The same question I'm asking myself. What do you know about me, to be so certain that I must be lying? Lying about what? You can't even say it.

I'm bored. Say what you think I'm lying about or have yourself a nice day.

Waiting for the "exposé"...

Are You Without A Functioning Brain? Go Read Your 1st Comment On This Thread. And Also My 1st Quote, Then You'll Understand My Point.

Dull Brain!

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Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:45am On Mar 23, 2018
MetroBaba1:


Are You Without A Functioning Brain? Go Read Your 1st Comment On This Thread. And Also My 1st Quote, Then You'll Understand My Point.

Dull Brain!

And that's your answer? LMAO. Bye. I got better things to do with my time than to compete with your idiocy.
Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by egworlordor(m): 1:18pm On Mar 23, 2018
My friend; fast for 1 week without food, lemme see weda u will have strenght to masturbate...

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Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by ifyan(m): 2:43pm On Mar 23, 2018
Hmm my brother advice l have for you is to go and see the Doctor and seek advice because when it become a part of you as to the extreme hmm !

And involve Oluwa first

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Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by Masterclass32: 3:05pm On Mar 23, 2018
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I am a young guy of 22 years, I masturbate almost every day, though I have never had vaginal sex.

Now I notice that anytime I masturbate, I release little sperm.

I am also addicted to porn viewing.

I am now a shadow of my former self.

What should I do in order to be free?

I feel like I am dying slowly inside!

Please help?
Please help?

Source:Life issues on fb
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Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by Nobody: 3:18pm On Mar 23, 2018
Why is it that people can masturbate everyday but can have sex everyday?

Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by idu1(m): 4:49pm On Mar 23, 2018
Go get yourself a nymphomaniac girlfriend
Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by 4reala(m): 5:18pm On Mar 23, 2018
XhosaNostra:
Masturbation is normal & natural imo. You're answering the call of nature, your raging hormones. At least you're not sleeping around & exposing yourself to diseases.
Haba madam! how can u say masturbation is natures call. Is it wee wee, or poo poo, or sleep, or hunger that u cannot do without?
Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by jamski2012: 5:36pm On Mar 23, 2018
Bantam:
Why is it that people can masturbate everyday but can have sex everyday?

I wonder ooo

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Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by Kingsley1000(m): 5:40pm On Mar 23, 2018
AVOID visiting sites like www.xvideos.com
Re: I Am Suffering From Masturbation? Troubled Virgin! Please Help Me? by Martinez19(m): 6:17pm On Mar 23, 2018
Pm me ASAP.

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