Thegeneralqueen:
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeew

Bbbbbbbbbbbb:

my good friend is back

Thegeneralqueen:
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeew

prechbills1:



please if you don't have any reasonable thing to say don't comment. he need matured advice pls

swiz123:
3 slaps and you ended up in the hospital for 4 days?

Lemme take my time to classify you


Kingdom:
Animalia

Phylum:
Chordata

Class:
Aves

Order:
Galliformes

Family:
Phasianidae

Genus:
Gallus

Species:
G. gallus

You a fowl, a sick one at that



Happy Easter

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Makkydebbie

NwaAmaikpe

Childofdoom(i hope you survive to see another Easter lol)

Queensuccubus

And all nairalanders!

Make una come chop rice

prechbills1:
I'm not the owner of the story below, my friend who's married had some problems with his wife which led to the story below, he posted it on tweeter but couldn't get any reasonable advice, that's why I decided to help him post the story here maybe we can get some matured advice from here. he's not a nairaland member but he'd be viewing the thread as a guest so please don't derail the thread if you don't have any reasonable thing to say. I know that there are many kids here but at least there are still some matured and reasonable people.

see the story and question below;





It all started when I heard noise in the sitting room, I rushed out from my bedroom to the sitting room, getting there I saw my wife about to trash our kid with a cane, and I told her to drop the cane and leave the boy alone. My wife started shouting at me, I tried explaining the implications of flogging a child, I told her that this is a civilized world, I even reminded her that she could go to jail for that crime in America or Europe and she told me that we're living in Africa. She wanted to trash the kid, then I told her that if she must punish the kid she should slap him instead that no matter what offense he committed she shouldn't trash him with a cane. I immediately told my boy to run to his room and he went to his room, then I left my wife in the sitting room and went back to the room. My wife came into my room without even knocking and started shouting at me, I regretted marrying an independent lady that day because she's always shouting on me. When she realized she I'm not looking at her neither am I going to respond, she walked toward my bed(she was initially standing at the door post) when she stood beside my bed, I decided to get up and sit on the bed.She started shouting on me again and I told her to leave my room ,my brother I received the ultimate shock of my life, my wife slapped me very heavily thrice, after she slapped me two times it was like there was a bell ringing in my head, I could no longer see very well, I developed headache immediately. In my entire life even my parents never raised their hands on me, I shouted in pain and our house help and gateman ran into the house, they heard the sound coming from my room and they rushed to my room on getting to my room and seeing my situation they took me to a nearby clinic. I stayed in the clinic for 4days, I spent 19k for the 4days I spent in the clinic. During the four days I spent in the clinic my wife never came visiting despite the fact that she was the one who put me in that situation. I've gotten over that, things are getting better now. is it right for a lady to raise her hand on a man? it's wrong for a man to raise his hand on his wife, when then should my wife raise her hands on me? my question now is the next time she tries that and I raise my hands on her, is it domestic abuse? because I can't tolerate this nonsense, the next time she dares raise her hands on me, if I've recovered I'm going to slap her very bad in a way that she'll spend 7days in an hospital, I spent just 4days but I'll make sure I slap her heavily that she'll stay there for 7days. I won't beat her but I'll slap her heavily.

Thegeneralqueen:
Happy Easter

swiz123:
3 slaps and you ended up in the hospital for 4 days?

Lemme take my time to classify you


Kingdom:
Animalia

Phylum:
Chordata

Class:
Aves

Order:
Galliformes

Family:
Phasianidae

Genus:
Gallus

Species:
G. gallus

You a fowl, a sick one at that



Happy Easter

Capslocked

Xml33

Makkydebbie

NwaAmaikpe

Childofdoom(i hope you survive to see another Easter lol)

Queensuccubus

And all nairalanders!

Make una come chop rice

Bbbbbbbbbbbb:

Same to you dear. Good to see you

swiz123:
3 slaps and you ended up in the hospital for 4 days?

Lemme take my time to classify you


Kingdom:
Animalia

Phylum:
Chordata

Class:
Aves

Order:
Galliformes

Family:
Phasianidae

Genus:
Gallus

Species:
G. gallus

You a fowl, a sick one at that



Happy Easter

Capslocked

Xml33

Makkydebbie

NwaAmaikpe

Childofdoom(i hope you survive to see another Easter lol)

Queensuccubus

And all nairalanders!

Make una come chop rice

Thegeneralqueen:
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeew

greiboy:
Foremost of all, I will like to commend the man for exercising restraint when necessary, some men will have responded in kind to that ill tempered woman. tbh, I wouldn't trust myself in that situation.

Your friend's wife is an aggressive women with anger management issues.

Nonetheless, one constituent of your story is not adding up because most people that are aggressive with anger management issues are always quick to show remorse after their anger must have caused a problem, but your friend's wife didn't show any remorse on this occasion. Thus, I believe there is more to this story, perhaps the wife is the provider in the relationship or the couple had other serious issues before that encounter.


my advice

@ the child issue

I believe the man should try to avoid correcting the woman in the presence of their children in the future.

@ aggressive behavior

The woman needs to take anger management classes for the sake of her marriage. I am sure the man is already reaching his limit.