Generally, we know that every marriage has its bumps and problem, which can pop up at any time. Nevertheless, the important is that you learn to navigate them smoothly—before they send your relationship into a ditch.

The truth every couple should know is that no matter how far along the marriage highway you’ve gone, there are some simple, fundamental and basic rules that you still need to follow to keep you going through out the whole journey of marriage.

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However, in this post "30 rules Every Woman Should Follow to Have an Amazing Marriage Life", I will be writing basically on rules I think every Women should follow to have a Lovely, Amazing , the Best and Enjoyable Marraige Life.
Though, Putting all of this into practice isn’t always easy, but it’s critical. I am very certain that if all women can play by this rules, then your marriage will be stronger, and the good stuff—fun, sex, trust, affection—will be better than ever.

Here comes the Rules:

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.

2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other's keeper.

3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.

4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.

5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.

6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.

7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.

. Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.

9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.

10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over your duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long

11). Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.

12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.

13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.

14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.

15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.

16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.

17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.

18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?

19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home.

20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always teamwork.

21). Don't be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.

22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.

23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food?, try to change your cooking. No man ever jokes with food.

24). Never be too demanding to your husband,enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.

25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.

26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.

27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.

28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.

29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.

30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife,pray always for your husband.

And what about the menfolk?what about the men who push their women to the extreme?Any 30 rules for them to read? If Yes, I would love to see them in the Reply box below..Have a Lovely day

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FTC, i wish this will make FP

As long as the man appreciates...'cause all men are not the same.

There are some men that no matter what you do, they never appreciate.

All this marriage expert should go and sit down!
Have read books that says a woman should give her husband good and quality sex everyday but at the end of the day the randy goat cheats on the wife!
Some will say good food still yet it doesn't guarantee a happily ever after!
Truth is nothing a woman do will ever make the man stay!
A happy home is not the work of the wife alone but the husband!
No woman should make her husband or marriage her life focus!
There is no reward for good marriage in heaven!
Take care of yourself as a woman ,look good and don't stress yourself over a man!
Marriage isn't a job that needs to be ENDURED but ENJOYED!!
Lastly always have a plan B in case of anything in order not to lose out.
Marry wisely!!
Marry richly!!
A rich man makes a happy home!!

Mariangeles:
As long as the man appreciates...'cause all men are not the same.

There are some men that no matter what you do, they never appreciate.

Yes that true but no man in his right sense will see his wife doing all this and not appreciate

If Any Woman Try 1 & 4 with Me; i Will Need Serious Self Control Not To give Her Ground Shaking Slap

Nice write up.


Western education is the cause of all these divorce issues flying around.


In the early 90's, women were totally submissive to their husbands. Divorce was very rare

swiz123:
Nice write up.


Western education is the cause of all these divorce issues flying around.


In the early 90's, women were totally submissive to their husbands. Divorce was very rare

I agree strongly with you..

Liliyann:
All this marriage expert should go and sit down!
Have read books that says a woman should give her husband good and quality sex everyday but at the end of the day the randy goat cheats on the wife!
Some will say good food still yet it doesn't guarantee a happily ever after!
Truth is nothing a woman do will ever make the man stay!
A happy home is not the work of the wife alone but the husband!
No woman should make her husband or marriage her life focus!
There is no reward for good marriage in heaven!
Take care of yourself as a woman ,look good and don't stress yourself over a man!
Marriage isn't a job that needs to be ENDURED but ENJOYED!!
Lastly always have a plan B in case of anything in order not to lose out.
Marry wisely!!
Marry richly!!
A rich man makes a happy home!!

You are free to drop your own 30 rules that Every man should follow to have a Lovely marriage...And I will really wanna hear you out