Glory Edozien is complaining on http://www.bellanaija.com/2010/05/07/all-single-men-stand-up/ that there is really scarcity of Single men in Nigeria and I have my own explanation for the problem.

I left Lagos in 2005 and returned in 2008 and discovered that most of the single men now preferred chasing English Premier League and Champions League than chasing babes.
Many women are lonely.

The downturn in the economy is also discouraging single guys from dating.
Many young male graduates are jobless and cannot pay bills and are scared of dating.

I have a younger friend who is brilliant and very good looking and has a bright future. But the young lady he loves left him for the son of a millionaire who has a brighter future.

The fault is not with the single Nigerian men, but with the single Nigerian women. They MUST STOP BEING MATERIAL GIRLS and HUMBLE THEMSELVES to share the burden of relationship with the men. There is no romance without finance. It is safer to keep women at a safe distance than to ask them out and be embarrassed when you cannot afford their vanities.

Most of the so called single babes in town want to play Big Girls who prefer to go out with Big Boys with deep pockets, but unfortunately the few Big Boys are not enough to go round.

They forget that the Big Boys of today were the Small Boys of yesterday.

to london 2 see de queen

Dont tell me you want someone to start from the scrash?no way. because these had ever happen to me.my galfriend leave me 4 another guy just becos i couldnt meet up with her financial needs and i reason with her.i dont blame the girl becos if 99.9% of naija ladies were in her shoe,they will also do thesame thing due to the economic hardship of the country.for the men in the house,GET RICH OR DIE TRYING.

bayor48:

Dont tell me you want someone to start from the scrash?no way. because these had ever happen to me.my galfriend leave me 4 another guy just becos i couldnt meet up with her financial needs and i reason with her.i dont blame the girl becos if 99.9% of naija ladies were in her shoe,they will also do thesame thing due to the economic hardship of the country.for the men in the house,GET RICH OR DIE TRYING.

You must be kidding me, keep buying love, u will go home with ghana must-go

Single Guys are afriad of ladies this days maybe not majorly for finacial issue bt because a round is not enough for them

bayor48:

Dont tell me you want someone to start from the scrash?no way. because these had ever happen to me.my galfriend leave me 4 another guy just becos i couldnt meet up with her financial needs and i reason with her.i dont blame the girl becos if 99.9% of naija ladies were in her shoe,they will also do thesame thing due to the economic hardship of the country.for the men in the house,GET RICH OR DIE TRYING.

so why should a rich guy stick with one girl? after all, they all want his money and not him and he got lots to go around, why shld his woman complain?

na2day?:

so why should a rich guy stick with one girl? after all, they all want his money and not him and he got lots to go around, why shld his woman complain?

I think you have a point there. Especially, if the girls in question are those from naija. I.e the one folks from here meet back home on holiday etc.

the guy in that photo needs a little tan
[s]
nothing wrong with occasional blemishes here and there.[/s]

I think say nah the photo editing. The skin tone have been altered by the looks of it.

Understanding men?d nice 1s r ugly,d handsm 1s r nt rich,d rich nice&fine 1s r married,d single of dem r scarce&r world cup.u got 2 lay down ur life 2 get&keep dem.d rest r n d monastries.our tale of pity.poor us

Hey AMYG, you are very correct. A sincere explanation from a beautiful lady.

amyg:

Understanding men?[b]d nice 1s r ugly,d handsm 1s r nt rich,d rich nice&fine 1s r married,[/b]d single of dem r scarce&r world cup.u got 2 lay down your life 2 get&keep dem.d rest r n d monastries.our tale of pity.poor us

And while the ladies are proving one kind big girl to the broke handsome guys, the Rich Sugar Mamas would snatch all the broke a.s.s. handsome & clean guys (like moin) from you single and ready to marry ladies.

Lol, That's why we have enough single ladies out there. They've used their youthful age to prove one kind useless big girl to the guy that's supposed to be their future husband while the guy was still broke and when the guy now hit the rock, they would now be chasing him up and down.

And trust 9ja guys they've already understood that it's because of the money they have that makes the ladies to fall in love with them by force.

Na so they will just use and dump them Why? Because they deserve it.

A guy that flash back to how girls used to mock him whenever he walks up to them to toast them while he's broke will always treat a lady anyhow when he's on top.

sofeco:

And while the ladies are proving one kind big girl to the broke handsome guys, the Rich Sugar Mamas would snatch all the broke a.s.s. handsome & clean guys (like moin) from you single and ready to marry ladies.

Lol, That's why we have enough single ladies out there. They've used their youthful age to prove one kind useless big girl to the guy that's supposed to be their future husband while the guy was still broke and when the guy now hit the rock, they would now be chasing him up and down.

And trust 9ja guys they've already understood that it's because of the money they have that makes the ladies to fall in love with them by force.

Na so they will just use and dump them Why? Because they deserve it.

A guy that flash back to how girls used to mock him whenever he walks up to them to toast them while he's broke will always treat a lady anyhow when he's on top.

FINIS.

i didnt even read the story.

is he having problems getting a girl?

not surprised oh, and i say this in the nicest possible way.

tpia.:

the guy in that photo needs a little tan
[s]
nothing wrong with occasional blemishes here and there.[/s]

The guy got got married yesterday in Lagos, to a Nigerian babe from Italy.
They met on Facebook after this post and she did not waste time to hook the young model.

@ poster I agree with u . naija babes are all about money . i've been turned down by 2 nairaland babes simply because I dont have a fat bank account and drive a range rover sport . many ladies may remain single until change their mind set .

All the single men are hiding under a rock. . . So ladies, grab some rocks and start lookin' lol

Inked_Nerd:

All the single men are hiding under a rock. . . So ladies, grab some rocks and start lookin' lol

Okay this made me literally laugh out loud. Buha haaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

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they are in the church (celestial church of christ) go there u would see them there

na flog dey go flog them oh

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they are in the church (celestial church of christ) go there u would see them there

na flog dey go flog them oh

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ANSWER IS: they are very busy sleeping with anything under skirt especially d ones that have money

Abeg tell them.

sofeco:

And while the ladies are proving one kind big girl to the broke handsome
guys, the Rich Sugar Mamas would snatch all the broke a.s.s. handsome
& clean guys (like moin) from you single and ready to marry ladies.

Lol, That's why we have enough single ladies out there. They've used
their youthful age to prove one kind useless big girl to the guy that's
supposed to be their future husband while the guy was still broke and
when the guy now hit the rock, they would now be chasing him up and
down.

And trust 9ja guys they've already understood that it's because of the
money they have that makes the ladies to fall in love with them by
force.

Na so they will just use and dump them Why? Because they
deserve it.

A guy that flash back to how girls used to mock him whenever he walks
up to them to toast them while he's broke will always treat a lady
anyhow when he's on top.