folake4u:


Lol,wetin you understand

BluntBoy:

I understand that you don't want to say anything

DJHANDSOME:
The Bible writers should have used the word "Respect" Instead of "submission" .

swiz123:
Mrs op, you sound more like a girl then a woman.

If the former is the case, then you need to grow more to realize that women are naturally beneath men


With the points you gave in your skewed post, it's obvious you are referring to a brute husband.

For a marriage to last long, women must acknowledge the bolded above cos it's a fact and not a cliche.


Amarabae, people like you are very deceitful.


You'd submit tottaly to your husband, but wil come online claiming e feminist just to save face, thereby misleading the single ones.

folake4u:



Hehe,what do you think I wanted to say before?

BluntBoy:


Nothing

I just wanted to engage you.

folake4u:


OK sah

BluntBoy:

So, you want to sirzone me abi
Anyway, goodnight. Sweet dreams.

swiz123:
Mrs op, you sound more like a girl then a woman.

If the former is the case, then you need to grow more to realize that women are naturally beneath men


With the points you gave in your skewed post, it's obvious you are referring to a brute husband.

For a marriage to last long, women must acknowledge the bolded above cos it's a fact and not a cliche.


Amarabae, people like you are very deceitful.

You'd submit tottaly to your husband, but wil come online claiming e feminist just to save face, thereby misleading the single ones.

Jodha:
I don't totally agree with yhu sis.. .the Bible clearly stated that women should be submissive to their husband's...
Submitting to a man doesn't make yhu a slave... It's just like accepting him as the head of the family...

But that does not mean Yhu have no say in yhur home...a wise man will listen to his wife and respect her...a wise woman will obey and respect her husband...

Chikenah..

Rukkydelta:

Do you think in a situation where the wife is the breadwinner the woman should still be submissive to her husband ?

youngreezy:
lmao see hw u dy reason?so cuz u r d breadwinner u shud nt submit?u r competing wit ur hubby or wat?wen dm say make men no marry women wey get money pas dem una say na insecurity,continue.

Rukkydelta:

Do you think in a situation where the wife is the breadwinner the woman should still be submissive to her husband ?

Amarabae:
About the word "submission "
Many men misunderstand it,
Many abuse it
Many hide under it to show their misogynistic attitude,

But what do you understand by submission?

Let's examine this.

Joy is beautiful
Joy is well educated and very intelligent, she read abroad.
Joy is working and being paid well

Joy gets married to John.

John is handsome
John is also educated,
John is working too


Now they are married,

John wants joy to be submissive to him ,
Joy ask him "sweetheart what do you mean by submitting to you?

John replies (in a typical African man understanding of submission) :
1.Submitting to me means that my word in this house is final,
2. When I am talking, you should be quiet
3. Whenever I want sex, you should spread your legs
4. I can cheat but you dare not cheat
5. I determine the number of babies we can have.
6.Never you raise your voice on me.
Etc

Joy asked him, :ok but why should I be "submissive to you " and not the other way round?
How did you merit it?


John replies : are you mad?
Don't you know that I am a man and bla bla bla.

The typical African man reasoning.

How can you having a dick be the only qualification for a woman to be submissive to you?
What kind of dumb mentality is that?
You expect a woman to lick your asshole because you have a dick?

And when you try to define the word "submission"
It means yielding to a superior authority,
You being under the control of another person or thing.

So in the mind of the misogynists, a woman who they refer as weak vessel should yield to a man who is a strong vessel,
No wonder many women are passing through a lot in marriages today,
Tolerating a lot of nonsense,
Because we are in a man dominated world,

It pains me to see that many girls are still being brainwashed,
You see them accepting the word "submission"
Aunty submission, are you a slave?
Will river Niger dry up if men starts submitting?
You better wake up.
You will see a man whose wife is feeding,
A man whose wife is the breadwinner of the family yet he will be shouting submission!
Funny idiosyncrasies

I am not a slave,
Marriage is not a slave camp,
I will love you as the husband the same way you will love me.
We will argue,
I will not lick your asshole,
I will stand on my right and defend it
My opinion matters.
And lastly
I am NOT and will never be a weak vessel
Feminism rejects that.
We are strong and proud.

Many men need a reorientation about issues like this especially the yet to marry ones.
Many women are waking up,
There is a reason why the divorce rate is high these days because tolerating rubbish has a limit,
Our mothers went through a lot of anti women prejudices in the society and marriage,
We refuse to go through the same,


All thanks to feminism.
A woman should love the husband deeply and the husband should love the wife deeply too.
Respect her, she will respect you,
Care for her, she will care for you.

Stop manipulating women with the word "submission"
I don't believe in it and will never.
I am no slave.
I love my husband and he loves me.
Our marriage is not a slave camp.
And thats how it should be.

#thanks

Jodha:


Sure...

Provided he's also working hard to make sure...he takes care of his family..