I have pondered and wondered.
I have searched and asked.
What trully makes a man tick.
There are a few that stick,
but many actually flee
from what thier eyes see
but it stiil leaves me many do's and can'ts
as to what a man trully wants.

just this rhyme will come to me as the fastest way to any man's heart
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The old saying that the fastest way to a man's heart is 2ru his mouth is true, cos juju works fast when eaten. Guys beware!

Using a sharp diamond plated ten-inch knife. Drive it through his chest slightly on the left and you will be reaching his heart in no time.

elrazur: u are one nasty guy, whats the fastest to yours?

olusolami:

elrazur: u are one nasty guy, whats the fastest to yours?

My needs are simple. Someone who understand me and connects with me.

ElRazur:

My needs are simple. Someone who understand me and has s.ex with me.

Pweety4me:

Yeah sex will happen at some point. Do you have a problem with this?



Acting like you know me, while you try to hide behind your screen is. . . .

ElRazur:

Using a sharp diamond plated ten-inch knife. Drive it through his chest slightly on the left and you will be reaching his heart in no time.

Wurdddd

@post

oo gal na food , if u a good cook mehn u don hit jackpot

Fastest way to a Man's heart is to make him feel like a Man.  Problem with women is that they think men think like woman.  Men like to be the boss, they like to be strong, a protector, a provider, they like to lead, and lots of sx.  Most modern women do the opposite because it is against what society teaches them.  Most women like to compete or challenge their men.  So now we have a high divorce or infidelity rate.

A good B.J.

Be yourself! Real men like women who are real to them. Never pretend to be who you are not or start what you can't finish!

Support, motivate and encourage him. Let him feel comfortable around you. A man likes to know his woman compliments him in a positive way.

Be Honest with him. Men like to know they can trust the woman they with. Even though the truth might hurt, tell him nothing but the truth!

If he's wronged you, let him know! But do not beat him about it or tell him the history of everything he's ever done wrong in the relationship. Nothing puts off a man like a nagging woman. Even the bible says it. A man should be able to find peace and happiness in your company.

As a woman you should know when and how to present your case to your man. This doesn't make you a dummy, it only makes you a wise woman.

Do not barrage him with exorbitant requests. Whatever he gives you, show appreciation and be content with it. A man who genuinely cares about his woman, hates to think she sees him as nothing but a money producing factory (Mugu.)

Pray for him. Not just praying about him but genuinely committing his welfare into God's hands. A lot of women do not pray for their men. Might be funny, but in reality true. Let your man know you care enough to remember him in your prayers.

Appreciate him. No man likes to think his woman does not appreciate the little efforts he makes in and outside the relationship.

Respect Him. This is important to a lot of men. Respecting your man doesn't necessarily mean your stupid or a dummy, it just makes you a smart woman. Because every man likes to know he gets some respect from his lady.
Lastly, Love him whole heartedly. Loving him whole heartedly doesn't mean stupidity or weakness. It just means you being real and genuine to him.

If he's a real and genuine man(Not a Jerk) he'll see you as a priceless jewel and truly appreciate you.

If he's a real and genuine man(Not a Jerk) he'll see you as a priceless jewel and truly appreciate you.

ThoniaSlim:

Be yourself! Real men like women who are real to them. Never pretend to be who you are not or start what you can't finish!

Support, motivate and encourage him. Let him feel comfortable around you. A man likes to know his woman compliments him in a positive way.

Be Honest with him. Men like to know they can trust the woman they with. Even though the truth might hurt, tell him nothing but the truth!

If he's wronged you, let him know! But do not beat him about it or tell him the history of everything he's ever done wrong in the relationship. Nothing puts off a man like a nagging woman. Even the bible says it. A man should be able to find peace and happiness in your company.

As a woman you should know when and how to present your case to your man. This doesn't make you a dummy, it only makes you a wise woman.

Do not barrage him with exorbitant requests. Whatever he gives you, show appreciation and be content with it. A man who genuinely cares about his woman, hates to think she sees him as nothing but a money producing factory (Mugu.)

Pray for him. Not just praying about him but genuinely committing his welfare into God's hands. A lot of women do not pray for their men. Might be funny, but in reality true. Let your man know you care enough to remember him in your prayers.

Appreciate him. No man likes to think his woman does not appreciate the little efforts he makes in and outside the relationship.

Respect Him. This is important to a lot of men. Respecting your man doesn't necessarily mean your silly or a dummy, it just makes you a smart woman. Because every man likes to know he gets some respect from his lady.
Lastly, Love him whole heartedly. Loving him whole heartedly doesn't mean stupidity or weakness. It just means you being real and genuine to him.

If he's a real and genuine man(Not a Jerk) he'll see you as a priceless jewel and truly appreciate you.

Well said subtract nothing 4rm this and note nothing irritates most men like nagging myself as a eg.

@ poster

At some points in time when questions like this come up,there are always certain things ladies dont realise and still dont understand about men.
There are three basic things that drive a Man, It doesnt matter which part of the world he comes from.
1. Ego (Ambition, Standard of living,Respect from others, etc)
2. Intimacy
3.Food ( to a reasonable extent)

Pay strict attention to the first one and you would be succssful with any man.
Beleive me, Intimacy is not the major thing a guy needs but might later become his priority when he discovers that his ego has being brutalised by his lady and when this happens, such a lady is no longer considered as a wife material.
Guys are always guys,this thing is inbuilt not only in men ,even in boy of less than 10 yrs of age.

The quickest way to my baby's heart was God's inspired and I was myself. I did not pretend to be someone else.

The rest is history, WEDDING IS IN JULY!

Deep Soul:

Firstly, there are different types of guys.

In the "quest" to get to a guy's heart, you need to observe what sort of person he is.

Eg, if he's a spiritual guy, you show him your spiritual side (if it exists)

If he's an intellectual, you draw him in with your intelligence etc

All this talk about food and se.x is cra.p, even coming from the men
In as much as food and se.x are important, I consider them as pluses rather than basics.
because after eating that fabulous soup and having that mind blowing se.x, what next??
More food and more se.x??

For me though, I dont believe in finding my way to a guy's heart, which kain suffer be that?
He should hold my hand and lead me to his heart, if we're both interested

oya, wey ur hand?

Keeping it real. No incognito. No front. No 50/50. Just 100% you.

Quite an educative thread

Be who you are, wait for the person to love you for what you are

Respect the man and most important respect yourself.

Odunnu:

Quite an[b] educative thread[/b]

calabar soup

odiaero:

calabar soup

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^^ thank u 4 the score

odiaero:

calabar soup

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lol. Like they say: Get into a man's heart through his stomach

na2day?:

hey sweet,y d luk on ya face?

na2day?:

hey sweet,y d luk on ya face?

na2day?:

hey sweet,y d luk on ya face?

I think the guys on this thread should frame the question to be "How can a girl,win my heart"

For me I'll say

1. An undying passion for God.
2. Complete respect for me.
3. Good sex,and a lady who doesn't treat sex as a taboo.

Basically these are impt to me,other things can be improved upon.

@post.
Try x-ray I bet u'l c his heart on print.

Suck his gbrigidi and he will b yr 4ever