Nlanders i really need your advice. M caught in d middle of something I never bargained for.Two young men r nw givin me headaches over one single issue- love-which is somethin I find hard 2 believ in nw. These guys C and H (real names hidden) have bn my friends for 10 yrs n both r cousins . Me just a good friend who tho neva crossed d line of dating my male friends, crossed d line wit C & later regretted cos it seems d friendship we had was spoiled by d emotions that later developed. C is nice so is H bt d dilemma here is C messed up, janded & now wants me bak afta 2 yrs. While H has always made his intentions known abwt a relationship bt along d line, lost contact wit me n I hav Bn d good friend always checkin up on him. Now my problem is C is intent on gettin bak wit me n m not ready 2 trust him wit my heart tho he might b sincere(but i aint buying it) and H knew i n C had a thing going on b4 n still wants me. D biggest wahala is dat me has chronic luv phobia n the 2 r good friends so hw do I tell them 2 forget d issue of "more than friends" without ruining our friendship or worse becoming enemies which wll b very sad for me. Advice please