Foodforthought:
That's ur opinion. Just cause it happened like that in ur case does not mean it's the same with others. I have a female friend and we are very close. I can't sleep with her even if my life depends on it

Mandrake007:
its either you're gay or she fugly af or you both are just living in denial,wait until a scenario like the OP's happen or you both spend the night together in the same bed while it rains or she tells you to apply lotion on her back there'd you know the power of nature,mind you,if you claim you've got a female bestie you're tight with and haven't seen her semi unclad or unclad you both aren't that close.

roarik:
I see nothing wrong with male friends but not to d extent of going unclad in his presence,me o i love male friends...i think she wants to be more than a friend.

stupidity:
lol. He thinks being bestie ends with just by saying

“hello, hope you eaten” okay good night and greet your boyfriend for me”

Mandrake007:
its either you're gay or she fugly af or you both are just living in denial,wait until a scenario like the OP's happen or you both spend the night together in the same bed while it rains or she tells you to apply lotion on her back there'd you know the power of nature,mind you,if you claim you've got a female bestie you're tight with and haven't seen her semi unclad or unclad you both aren't that close.

Mandrake007:
yes,its a scam,no guy should get so close to a girl he's not dating all in the name of 'bestie'...i have female friends but our relationships are casual unless it's a fwb,i keep my distance I don't let things get too deep,most girls are oblivious to the fact guys use the 'bestie tactic' as a ploy to build confidence to ask em out,98% of the so called male besties are just tryna fuçk while the remaining 2% are gay..

IdeyFindWife:


Nah, there're guys with all their switches set to the "OFF" position like that by default and they're not gay!

Burrrrrrrrrrrtt, they are very few. In fact, they are the aliens amongst us. It's their own unfair advantage the girls stupidly generalize with and then they fall prey, or mistakes just happen!

It's just "redunculous" to believe men are gifted with such esoteric powers of asceticism and titanium-level self control while appealing to all sorts of sentiments like morality, civility, religious dogma etc.

Mehn, I no bff reach that level o. Except you're childhood friends from way back, or a distant relative or a pal's lady friend where the boundaries are sacrosanct.

You nor fit all those categories, but you start nuding anyha. Ah, friendship go end, I'd plot my way into ur pants and prolly screw u silly.

stupidity:
you girls don’t have issues with being bestie with guys, y’all invented friend zone and are good at it. I created the topic in respect to guys claiming to have a female bestie. It’s a scam. That bestie nigga will fvck you black and blue if given the chance.

stupidity:
you girls don’t have issues with being bestie with guys, y’all invented friend zone and are good at it. I created the topic in respect to guys claiming to have a female bestie. It’s a scam. That bestie nigga will fvck you black and blue if given the chance.

stupidity:
you girls don’t have issues with being bestie with guys, y’all invented friend zone and are good at it. I created the topic in respect to guys claiming to have a female bestie. It’s a scam. That bestie nigga will fvck you black and blue if given the chance.

stupidity:
okay, I’ll explain the nudity part clearly. She lives in a one room self con apartment. I paid her a visit, sat on her bed, while she went into the bathroom, took her shower, came out while I was busy with my phone. She backed me and offed her towel, ionno what instructed me to raise my head and behold, the asx was right in front of me like “if you get mind come squeeze it”

I was about comporting myself when she suddenly turned over with her head facing her toes, she was rubbing the body cream on her legs and toes, the buubs free fall and were dangling on air like a punch bag. All the while she didn’t caught me staring. It was then and there I knew I been decieving myself

IdeyFindWife:


You, sir, are a sensible man!

Leave the rest of our deceitful bros to be deceiving themselves. Apart from the few who who are naturally that indisposed emotionally, and the others who are able to train their minds, the rest will fail the test woefully.

Not all pple do boundaries well. It was no joke that the biblical Joseph ran away and left his shirt. The same Bible that tells you to "resist the devil" tells you to "run away from sexual immorality", so you see, even the ancient pple prolly had the same issues and sorted it the best way possible. But, we always dey wan form Van Dam me to our detriment.

You know a lot of professions require for you to see opposite sexxx nudity and you'd be unprofessional to still be fantasizing after your clients, right? But, that's not the issue here. I think you'd not defined your mission with her in all entirety b4 she gave you that trust level.

Come to the beach here, you get to see stranded chicks sometimes needing u to help rub their sunscreen. Well, you do that as a gentleman and mossie-on-down on your way. You don't go funny, or you get a fistful. Fancy getting deported because of sh!t like that.

So, y'see, the nudity is not the issue especially random one like that. It's the up close "unclothed-ness" of someone you're emotionally vulnerable and affably disposed to that's the issue.

Nna, in most cases, na matches and gas.Na ordinary camel-toe fall one of my pals from friendzone into the mess he's still in today. I nor dey play wrong play o. Ah, when my jt is alive and willing to log-in to cool "servers", u come dey unclad anyhow, we go shift goal-post like APC