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Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by talk2saintify(m): 5:06pm On Apr 23, 2018
shocked
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by kalu61(m): 5:13pm On Apr 23, 2018
You just said it all but is isn't a rigid formulas. I will add a good cook. Intelligent and sociability for me are secondary. A wife material is a wife material and probably lack education etc. We don't know why GEJ is clue to mama peace. l looking forward to meet mine some day.
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by kalu61(m): 5:16pm On Apr 23, 2018
folake4u:



If you give me N500 to cook soup, I'll use it to buy cold Hollandia yoghurt and drink tongue.
Hahaha, you are funny. But I do prepare soup with that amount honestly.
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by Nobody: 5:18pm On Apr 23, 2018
loverboys:
What do men want in a long-term partner? I am sure you have some idea but I am about to clarify what men seek in a potential wife...

1. Dependability

Men want a woman who is faithful, reliable and trustworthy. They are looking for a loyal mate who will have their back and not stray elsewhere. Men need a good reason to commit to women, especially given the life-cycle of most marriages these days so it's no wonder that being a dependable partner is highly revered by men.

2. Emotionally stable

Men who a ready to settle down want a partner who has a high level of emotional intelligence. Physical attraction is only part of it and not as important to men as you may think. Men will only make a safe investment in a woman who is grounded and who will not make their life more difficult or potentially threaten their freedom.

3. Intelligence

This next factor is really important and highly undervalued. Guys want to be able to connect on an intellectual level to a woman. They adore women who have something between their ears and a high level of education to back it up.

4. Happy Demeanour

Guys love women who are happy within themselves. To men these women are a joy to be around. Playful women are irresistible women. There is something mesmerizing about a woman's playful nature - so be happy!

5. Sociable

Men want to cohabit with a woman who makes friends easily and can converse with their friends and family. Men think about this because they want to be able to socialise with a woman in the future. Going out and engaging with others is highly valued by men and you need to be comfortable at fitting in and interacting with new people.

6. Being Healthy

Men subconsciously assess how healthy you are when they meet you, this is a mark of your ability to be fertile in the future. Your skin, vibrancy, body disposition and energy levels are all factors men assess you on without even realizing it. However, what they will also take into consideration when dating you is how active you are and how much effort you put into staying healthy and looking good. A man will want to know if you are going to look after your body as he wants to be attracted to you now and in the future. So make sure you look after your self-image.

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Patience and Contentment: As a sage once said, patience is not just the act of accepting whatever fate throws at you, it is the attitude you maintain while doing so. There is nothing comparable to a woman who is truly content no matter her circumstance, and truly patient in hard times. Such women are those referred to when it is said; "behind every successful man, there is a woman". Women who constantly gripe about how they have never been to Dubai mall since they married you, and how they only ate chicken lap in their father's house never give their husband the mental harmony he needs to develop his life. The griping may not even be overt; for example, she may just show it in her expression; like the repressed disgust on her face when her husband gives her money that is 'never sufficient' even while she is thanking him, or the envious gleam in her eye when she sees another woman in a Range Rover sport, and of course, the man will notice this, even though he may keep silent, and start plotting his escape strategy. Note that this is not a trait that can ever be hidden, nor can it be learned later; she either has it from birth, or she doesn't.

Good manners: Women who suddenly lose their self respect and become sharp tongued at the drop of a hat grow stale very quickly. They sorely tempt their husbands to make them lose their own self respect and become wife-beaters. In order not to become a wife beater, a man would always prefer to marry a woman with exemplary manners.


Logical reasoning: men are creatures of logic and reason. If they make decisions on behalf of the family, they want you to either oppose it logically the way they thought it through before telling you, or to keep silent and accept it. Conversely, women usually are emotional creatures; 'I just don't like it' is enough justification in most women's opinion. A man would be wise to keep a woman who helps him fulfill the status of two reasoning heads being better than one.
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by prechbills1(m): 5:20pm On Apr 23, 2018
Ironlion1:


Don't be silly bro. It is.

such characters are rare in Nigerian ladies
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by StreetNews: 5:21pm On Apr 23, 2018
grin
TarOrfeek:


Cook Quality soup with N500.

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Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by Xisnin(m): 5:24pm On Apr 23, 2018
Remove intelligence from that list.
It de-markets women especially in this part of the world.
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by folake4u(f): 5:26pm On Apr 23, 2018
kalu61:
Hahaha, you are funny. But I do prepare soup with that amount honestly.



Lol that's interesting oo.
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by Saff(f): 5:26pm On Apr 23, 2018
Mckandre:
Sexuality skills, my afonja brothers understands this wella grin
maxtop:
Dear Op, you completely forgot the most important factor.


SEX nah ....if you don't smash that ass well, your house help will do it for you.
Truckpusher:
All I want is a woman with a very big back side and big boobs dats all. cheesy
look at them. Sex sex sex. Cosume your life with more productive things cheesy
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by Austema(m): 5:29pm On Apr 23, 2018
Olawalesadiq:
Well to be perfectly honest, in my humble opinion, of course without offending anyone who thinks differently from my point of view, but also by looking into this matter in a different perspective and without being condemning of one's view's and by trying to make it objectified, and by considering each and every one's valid opinion, I honestly believe that I completely forgot what I was going to say.
bros you are just too much. I have copied it to be used even in a place that is not neccessary

Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by Rozaytee: 5:34pm On Apr 23, 2018
cheesy..wen most men meet women with qualities listed above..dey will still fvck up..and cheat..
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by Mckandre(m): 5:38pm On Apr 23, 2018
Saff:
look at them. Sex sex sex. Cosume your life with more productive things cheesy
i no talk i follow o. m a very gud boy
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by Easy5265: 5:39pm On Apr 23, 2018
This ticks all the boxes for me. I hope I find you, while I get a better me. #stillsearching
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by Franzinni: 5:39pm On Apr 23, 2018
Have you forgotten leah sharibu?!
If you have

Shame on you.

Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by Pharmtj: 5:44pm On Apr 23, 2018
folake4u:



If you give me N500 to cook soup, I'll use it to buy cold Hollandia yoghurt and drink tongue.
so tell us how much you go need prepare soup
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by chris31(m): 5:52pm On Apr 23, 2018
jessca048:
haba what can N500 do.money I will just spend in a twinkle of an eye
And ur still blaming ur village people for still been a spinster
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by Saff(f): 5:54pm On Apr 23, 2018
Mckandre:
i no talk i follow o. m a very gud boy
thats good
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by chigoziem10(f): 6:02pm On Apr 23, 2018
Will all these traits stop men from cheating??
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by Nobody: 6:07pm On Apr 23, 2018
chris31:

And ur still blaming ur village people for still been a spinster
common shift with that poverty mentality away from me. did I tell you am looking for marriage. mind yourself
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by CaptainFM1: 6:12pm On Apr 23, 2018
post=66964800:
You can NOT see all these in ONE woman except you will mould her yourself.

All these fake ass ladies will conform to your mould. They will follow you to your church/mosque, Trust me, they are very flexible....they will return to their form when your mould has been removed or at worst when a better mould is ready to shape them.

Only God can give a good woman!
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by Hahnemann: 6:16pm On Apr 23, 2018
No 6 caught me

Personally I can tolerate anything from a woman except constant complain in regards to health. Despite the fact that I'm a medical doctor, I hate it when my bae(s) complain constantly abt health related issues.
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by ottohan: 6:24pm On Apr 23, 2018
Hahnemann:
No 6 caught me

Personally I can tolerate anything from a woman except constant complain in regards to health. Despite the fact that I'm a medical doctor, I hate it when my bae(s) complain constantly abt health related issues.
Lol
My guy no want stress grin
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by Moyenii(f): 6:27pm On Apr 23, 2018
It's very possible ooo. grin grin Lemme Break it down for you.
1. 1Titus fish 200naira(make sure you price very well oo.
2. One small tin of blended ogbono/egusi 80 naira
3. Ugwu leaves 50 naira
4. Fufu/santana 1wrap 50 naira.
5. Purewater 30 naira 3 satchets .
6. Dry pepper blended 1 spoon 20 naira
7. Crayfish 20 naira 1 pinch.
8. Maggi 2/3 cubes 30 naira.
9. Salt (1 spoon inside nylon) 20 naira.
TarOrfeek:


Cook Quality soup with N500.

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Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by Olawalesadiq(m): 6:36pm On Apr 23, 2018
Austema:
bros you are just too much. I have copied it to be used even in a place that is not neccessary


no prob. one love
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by Lorechino(m): 6:56pm On Apr 23, 2018
grin I don't want anything in woman I want money. thanks for ur understanding.
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by ebuk4real(m): 7:10pm On Apr 23, 2018
TarOrfeek:


Cook Quality soup with N500.

This is HATE SPEECH... according to them oo
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by BuddhaPalm(m): 7:17pm On Apr 23, 2018
loverboys:


1. Dependability


2. Emotionally stable


Lol.

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Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by Nobody: 7:38pm On Apr 23, 2018
If you are F and have all the 6,hola at me. Late 30s
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by Cupie22(f): 8:02pm On Apr 23, 2018
Truckpusher:
All I want is a woman with a very big back side and big boobs dats all. cheesy
Even though she has bad character like cee c? grin
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by Mcy56(f): 8:10pm On Apr 23, 2018
Olawalesadiq:
Well to be perfectly honest, in my humble opinion, of course without offending anyone who thinks differently from my point of view, but also by looking into this matter in a different perspective and without being condemning of one's view's and by trying to make it objectified, and by considering each and every one's valid opinion, I honestly believe that I completely forgot what I was going to say.
Clown grin
Re: 6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Female Partner by goodies4life(f): 8:19pm On Apr 23, 2018
SUPER STORY Nija men who are looking for push and start women to marry.

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