I dont think a girl can truly love a guy and still deny the person intimacy. When you truly love a person, you'll do everything possible to make the person happy. If a girl is truly in love, she'll see intimacy as nothing more than a mere momentary allowance of a manliness into a kitty. They only bring that virginity hocus pocus when they have shallow feelings' for someone. Someone is still gonna get her laid, might as well be you. So,

gbam

Shut up!

If u also 'love' d gurl u should understand & respect her choices. . .and not be so hungry 4 her damn kitty!

Selfish beast!

Physical intimacy is only a small part of a relationship. A very small part, at that (no pun intended). Indeed, many people do truly love one another without physical intimacy.

You can love someone without intimacy, and you can have intimacy without loving someone.

OMG probably the reason why she havent opened up to you is because you dont show real love to her. From your scrip, seems like you are only interested in getting some of what is in her underwear. Shame

Its just a question, it didnt happen to me. Its just some sharp girls like pullin this card.
The thing is that true love is not supposed to bounded by certain dogmas and principles. Intimacy is a sacrifice and if she luvs the dude, you will sacrifice. She'll go the extra mile.

drrionelli:

Physical intimacy is only a small part of a relationship. A very small part, at that (no pun intended). Indeed, many people do truly love one another without physical intimacy.

You can love someone without intimacy, and you can have intimacy without loving someone.

you couldn't have said it any better.
Dalu!

mMm??

Pweety4me:

Shut up!

If u also 'love' d gurl u should understand & respect her choices. . .and not be so hungry 4 her damn kitty!

Selfish beast!

Please tell him

It might actually be true that most of the girls that deny their boyfriends intimacy are actually giving it to someone else. However for the sincere ones, they deserve to be respected for their decision, haba. Na by force.

maedan:



It might actually be true that most of the girls that deny their boyfriends intimacy are actually giving it to someone else. However for the sincere ones, they deserve to be respected for their decision, haba. Na by force.

drrionelli:

Physical intimacy is only a small part of a relationship. A very small part, at that (no pun intended). Indeed, many people do truly love one another without physical intimacy.

You can love someone without intimacy, and you can have intimacy without loving someone.

pls allow me to kiss you (hope to see u around more often.)

Girls are the most confused and complex living organism.
They tell the one they love to wait and dash the casual the honey

@Mynd 44 i disagree with you,i think issue concerning girls and intimacy is a thing of the mind,when the time is right they give it to you,and when the time is right and you are not available they give it to the guy next door.

@Post

If the girl is still a virgin, that could be understood and it would be selfish for the guy to force her hand but if she is not a virgin and is seXXually active, that's something else.In between, it's guys that bring this calamity on themselves.They make it look as if she is "giving them something" whereas they are the ones "giving up the goods". When a woman knows that you treasure seXxx a lot, she go use am do shakara for you.Always have a nonchalant attitude towards seXXx and she will be wondering if you don't find her attractive.

@chrisrock that is why i said girls are the most confused beings they would have driven the guy borderline insane then complain about him not being caring

@ poser,
dat d mind of an armed robber.
So u re equating loving someone 2 SEX. Why re u of a shallow mind,
Hum!
Why not take ur mind off dat & c hundred's of reason 2 appreciate her other dan sex.
but, 4 any reason she wan drop 4 u fit take am but don't force her or use it as a yard-stick 4 dating her.

please read through. Its just a question, it didnt happen to me. I was just tryin to know cos i dont believe a girl cud love sumone and still deny d person intimacy.

Some women use their kitty to control men. Do not be with someone like this. Your relationship will not last and you will make it harder for the next guy after you. NO KITTY CONTROL UNLESS IT IS PMS.

Is she a t v set if yes,den i know where 2 buy d 1 dat doesnt eat nkwobi, or drain my wallet

Listen, a girl may love you, but she will love GOD more and follow his command not to fornicate.
I have and will deny every single boyfriend I have of intimacy till i've got a ring on my finger!

If you really love her too, you will respect her and marry her if you can!

Girl846:

Listen, a girl may love you, but she will love GOD more and follow his command not to fornicate.
I have and will deny every single boyfriend I have of intimacy till i've got a ring on my finger!

lucky u.
like your spirit, pray it last the whole 10 yards

Girl846:

Listen, a girl may love you, but she will love GOD more and follow his command not to fornicate.
I have and will deny every single boyfriend I have of intimacy till i've got a ring on my finger!

If you really love her too, you will respect her and marry her if you can!

Thats what I thought untill the day I couldnt help myself. He was just soo delicious to resist!

Pweety4me:

Shut up!

If u also 'love' d gurl u should understand & respect her choices. . .and not be so hungry 4 her damn kitty!

Selfish beast!

Respect her choices, huh! Yes. He should respect her choices but realize she does not really care for him. Because the story is usually that the mugu guy respects her choices until some other guy breaks the kitty repeatedly.

Girl846:

Listen, a girl may love you, but she will love GOD more and follow his command not to fornicate.
I have and will deny every single boyfriend I have of intimacy till i've got a ring on my finger!

If you really love her too, you will respect her and marry her if you can!

Gbam!You just hit the head on the nail ouuusp i mean the nail on the head!I wouldn't have said it better.

You see we all know these things and how much God detest fornication,but unfortunately,in the society that we live

in, it has become a norm. . .But then to be completely honest it's not easy,the temptations out there are just too

much.Just the other day i was lookin outside my window,and there was this gal dressed provocatively,she was

shaking her '- - -' devilishly,i didn't even know when i shouted 'yeeeepaa!!!'

Futhermore when you are in a relationship with your 'truelove' you tend to unconsciously forget all those

morals,principles and what have you,you would want to sacrifice it all to the 'love of your life' 'cos love is all about

giving and giving more. . .

That why it's soooo important to let God be at the center of your relationship and like girl846 has said 'love God more'

Oh! how much i love her spirit,_{i pray i get to marry sum1 like that},her sweetness is my weakness

she truly inspires me,u know like the bible says 'iron sharpeth iron'

I rest my case.

if u truly love her u should not be freaked out about sex.

Gabry:

Thats what I thought untill the day I couldnt help myself. He was just soo delicious to resist!

noted! I never thought it was possible.

wel intimacy is not luv so a girl might decide not to hav intimacy with her bf,but its not a guarantee that she is decent cos girls pretend alot

(FOR THE POSTER TO HEAR) YES!!!! but really NO

Love has to do with respecting each other wish as well except one is selfish and would not call that love but lust.

@OP

don't mind all those people bashing you.

'Cos although love is not all about intimacy,

good intimacy is also an expression of love.

It's sad that women use it as a bargaining chip,

even though they love it more.