Good Evening ma,

I dated my ex boyfriend for four years but he refused to marry me. The first two years,he kept telling me to be patient that he still had things to put in place before thinking of marriage. I was patient with him until the fourth year when I couldn't take it any longer. I told him to marry me or I leave. That was when he told me he had no plans to marry me cos of the age difference between us.

You see,I am seven years older than him. He didn't mind that when we started to date. So I was quite shocked that was his reason for refusing to marry me. I asked him why he deceived me for so long,why didn't he break up earlier,he said he liked the s*x. So apparently,he was just with me for the s*x,nothing more. I felt so hurt and I left him.

Since I broke up with him,its been almost two years. He has moved on to another woman. They got married within months. Their marriage was not up to one year before my ex started to disturb me for s*x. He came back saying I am the best he ever had and he cant stay away from me. I initially fought him off but not for long because,I still loved him and I was not seeing anyone.We got back together and I fell heavily for him. He used to tell me how much he thinks about me when he is with his wife. He said he was a coward for letting me go and he regrets marrying his wife.

Most times I felt bad cos I knew I was cheating with a married man but I asked God for my own,and He is yet to answer me. I am not a small girl,I have needs and its like no serious guy is coming for me so far. I still felt bad all the same so I decided to end it for real this time. Its as if God heard my prayer. I met a guy immediately I ....

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Chop beans

age matters in a relationship but civilisationists will tell us its noting. see yah life ;Dage matters in a relationship but civilisationists will tell us its noting. see yah life

He actually played with your heart.,sorry ma'am

Age does not matter to a point but 7yrs differences is much. Notwithstandin, if he had luv u, dat would'nt hv stop d marriage.

Seven years difference is too much as a lady

See bloggers see hell fire!

Lies

Hmm it not cool i dnt think there wil be respect in ur relationship .. Chaii 7 year is 2 big na .. Be4 u no it u wil started getting white white hair people wil be thinking another thing na .. They wil think ur husband is ur junior brother

Annoying story.

After he used you for sex, dumped you and got married, you still went back to him. You must be very dull.

So your life paused waiting for him to come back. You cannot move on.

Keep it up. He will dump you the second time and go back to his wife.

Cut off his balls

wizrose:
Hmm it not cool i dnt think there wil be respect in ur relationship .. Chaii 7 year is 2 big na .. Be4 u no it u wil started getting white white hair people wil be thinking another thing na .. They wil think ur husband is ur junior brother

isn't he?

Eazie351:
isn't he?

hmm

How can a guy leave you for another woman, got married to her and claims he loves you.... And u r stupid enough to believe his lies, he came bk because of the sex, that's the only thing he wants from you. A man who wasted your time for 4yrs and dumped u isn't worth talking to. My prayer for you is may u receive sense

Zinny25:
How can a guy leave you for another woman, got married to her and claims he loves you.... And u r stupid enough to believe his lies, he came bk because of the sex, that's the only thing he wants from you. A man who wasted your time for 4yrs and dumped u isn't worth talking to. My prayer for you is may u receive sense

Amen to that, cos there are still many in that shoe

Hi , there exist this babe we met & ve gone on a date like 5 times. Thou ve occupied the position of boyfriend status.

On 4th date, ve got to man up and divulged my feelings (used the word 'like) to be my girlfriend. Her response was 'I didn't want any commitment for now,didn't want someone to be lamenting I didn't care'. I noticed the magnitude of her seriousness at that moment.... she said it nt too frankly but been relaxed. Later I had to assure her of nothing to worry abt. Then she replied 'I'll think 'bt it'.

What exactly can I initiate for my intention of dating her to be successful & getting a positive reply in earnest?

Didn't read the full story.

From the little I gleaned, the woman is pretty stupid.

Bloggers and lies

Wow

Hmm

The guy has made his decision...

Accept it so you can move on with your life

Seven years his senior! That na sugar mummy tinz na. That's if the story is true sef

Hmnnnn

Foodforthought:
Seven years his senior! That na sugar mummy tinz na. That's if the story is true sef

H

hmm