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Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by queenitee(f): 3:47pm On May 21, 2018 |
Actually, this thing shouldn't be a problem. Once you understand that your wife is different from your mother and you have different responsibilities towards them and also you understand that the kind of love you have for your wife is different from the one you have for your mother, then you are good to go. You actually won't have a problem thinking of who you love most between them and when it comes to issh between them, you would be able to handle it very well like a man. Thinking of who you love most between your mom and your wife is thinking of who you love most between your mom and your kids, I bet not many people have that thought. Many guys tends to forget that once you get married, your wife now answers your surname, she becomes a part of you. So thinking of who you love most between your wife and mom is like thinking of who you love most between yourself and your mom, it's kind of a stupi.d thought right? |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by obonujoker(m): 4:11pm On May 21, 2018 |
As for Girlfriend, I accept, buh if na wife, A man is commanded to love his wife more than the mother, even if its just 1% difference... 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by obonujoker(m): 4:14pm On May 21, 2018 |
Klinee: A man will leave mother and father, and cling to his wife.... if you love your mother more than your wife,... you are breaking God's law... stop allowing devilish women of today because of their cheating, make you go against God's law..... |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by AstroG: 4:43pm On May 21, 2018 |
[color=#006600][/color] MarieSucre: Trash Piece of Junk
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Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by samozi: 5:11pm On May 21, 2018 |
I apologise on the OPios behalf..he meant to say 'girlfriend fu:cker' not 'mother fu:cker' |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by MarieSucre(f): 5:57pm On May 21, 2018 |
AstroG:Reason? |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by MarieSucre(f): 5:57pm On May 21, 2018 |
AstroG:Reason? |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:11pm On May 21, 2018 |
ImaIma1:NO NO NO! My mother comes FIRST over any woman, be it my girlfriend, babymama or wife. She's the only woman I have ABSOLUTE trust in, the only woman that will have my back even when I'm poor, bedridden or handicapped (god forbid though). |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:12pm On May 21, 2018 |
obonujoker:Who gave the command to men to love wives more than mothers? Oboy you funny o 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by obonujoker(m): 6:14pm On May 21, 2018 |
TonyeBarcanista: Matthew 19:4.... |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:25pm On May 21, 2018 |
obonujoker: “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ Please, let us not misrepresent the teaching of Christ to suit our thought. In that passage Jesus was teaching about indiscriminate divorce, which was the norm at the time according to Mosaic law. Nowhere did Christ or his apostles elevate wife above parents. Jesus only stated that the man and woman become one in marriage. If so, since the man is under the mother, his wife by virtue of marriage is under the mother. Add to this the commandment in Ephesians to people to honor/obey their father so as to have long and prosperous life on earth. Every good mother/parents will do all within their powers to see to the success of their children in all spheres of life, marriage inclusive. Mothers/Parents come FIRST before wife 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by obonujoker(m): 6:29pm On May 21, 2018 |
TonyeBarcanista: God recognizes wife before mother... what God has put together, let no one put assunder( love of mother)... Everyone loves mother, buh your wife should have the greatest love of all, after God... Let's not go against God laws because of our generation ladies....... Your mother loved your father first before she give birth or loved you..... What God actually recognizes is Man and his wife, not Man and his mother... I love my mother so much bro, buh wen I get married, according to God's laws,my wife becomes my number 1 priority, and that does not diminish my love for my mother..... |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by Imaima1111: 6:39pm On May 21, 2018 |
My mum took care of my dad for 7years when he was ill...not his mother. |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by Imaima1111: 6:41pm On May 21, 2018 |
TonyeBarcanista: My mum took care of my dad for 7years when he was ill...not his mother. You think it is your mum that will do that. She doesn't have her own husband and you don't have your wife? |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:42pm On May 21, 2018 |
queenitee:On the contrary... Once married, my wife is upgraded to the same level of my sisters being that she has by virtue of marriage become a daughter of my mother, and part of the family. My mother owns me and all that I have. She has the right to come to my house and live as long as she desires without needing permission or approval from me. She us the ONLY woman in the world that I know will never abandon me even in my worst. But I can't say same of my wife, I can only hope. The sacrifices and prayer my mom (and my father too) has made for me shall NEVER be inherited by another woman called wife, however, my wife will be loved and treated like a queen. But my mom remains QUEEN MOTHER While my dad, my GODFATHER. However, it is incumbent on my wife to learn to be a good daughter and not try to upstage my mom in the order of affection in my heart because it will NEVER work. In fact, disrespecting my mom is a divorce offence... Just as I can't disrespect my mother or father... My mother subjected herself to my father's mother, she earned the love of my father's mother even more than my father. In fact, my grandma loved my mom more than she loved my father (her son). Hence, my mom inherited the place of my grandma upon her demise and has been enjoying it. So I expect same from my wife. Women should respect hierarchy! As for my kids, they are my mom's grandkids and subject to the authority of my mom just as I was subject to the authority of my father's mom, my grandma of blessed memory. Meanwhile, I can't marry a woman that disrespects her mom or one that show sign of "taking over" my life from my mom. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:49pm On May 21, 2018 |
obonujoker:Once again, Man and wife has to do with marital relationship. Mother is not in competition with wife over who the spouse is, neither does mothers procreate with their sons. So I don't see the reason for this position. My mother loved my father first before me but my father loved his mother first before my mother and I loved my mother first before my wife. My wife loved me first before my son etc Going by that argument, my MOTHER comes first before my wife. Meanwhile, God's law did not place wife above mothers, it only placed the wife as part of the husband, meaning as a daughter to the husband's parents. Let's not be heretic pls... God-Jesus-Parents-Wife/Siblings-Kids 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:58pm On May 21, 2018 |
Imaima1111:I know my mom, she stood with my Dad even in worst poverty and when he was sick. She is still standing by him because she is a lovely wife. But you know what, before (and even when she came into the life of my father), my father's mom never ceased from laying her life for him. Suffering for his sake and giving her all to see him happy. Furthermore, she is one woman that he knew will never let him down even in his worst. Yes, my mom proved she could do likewise and earned her due place but not above my father's mother. My Father's mother and my father so loved my mom that my mom became most endeared to her mother in-law more than my father. My mom was upgraded to the status occupied by my father's mother upon her demise at age 89 and so far she remains the most important person in my father's life. I believe women should respect hierarchy and understand that there was a mother before they came into the picture. As a man, I will ALWAYS trust and adore my mother more than ANY woman in the world. That doesn't mean I won't adore my wife but never above my mom. NEVER 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by Imaima1111: 7:05pm On May 21, 2018 |
TonyeBarcanista: It is even against the Bible. You are supposed to be one with your wife. It is just that a lot of men do not see their wives as part of them. They see her as a stranger. So they tend to relegate their wives and magnify their mothers instead. Well i was told that i have become my husband's mother. Your orientation might be different |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by nikkypearl(f): 7:08pm On May 21, 2018 |
youngest85:u well so? |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by Nobody: 7:09pm On May 21, 2018 |
I love my baby my mummy is my baby |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by Nobody: 7:14pm On May 21, 2018 |
AmazonTopaz:But some women still care for their siblings and parents more than they care for their husbands and kids. They love their siblings and parents more than their husbands. Shouldn't their responsibility change to their husbands and kids too? |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by TonyeBarcanista(m): 7:14pm On May 21, 2018 |
Imaima1111:That the Bible says a man and a woman become one flesh in marriage is not synonymous to a wife becoming more valuable than the mother of her husband. There is NO record of such Biblically. In fact, the Bible continuously commanded men to always be subjected to their parents so that their days will be long. The wife is the flesh of the man NOT the mother of the man. She is the Daughter in-law to the man's mother not the godmother of the man. She is lower in status to the mother of the man, it doesn't mean she isn't loved. But we should recognize hierarchy 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by khiaa(f): 7:37pm On May 21, 2018 |
EzendiEgo1: Why did you post all of these pictures of whites couldn't you find a black mother and son? For your information, the definition of the word MOTHERFUCKER is a man who fuks his own mother. That is what the evil white slave masters would force his African slaves to do in order to degrade him, that is where the word originated from. I hate that word. 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by Nobody: 7:42pm On May 21, 2018 |
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Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by Nobody: 7:53pm On May 21, 2018 |
to each his own |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by Nobody: 7:54pm On May 21, 2018 |
greiboy: Greiboy sup? Mum will always be no1 even in marriage. One man said up there that there are things your mum can't offer you, LOL is there anything other than sex that a girlfriend can give that a mum can't give? so you gonna choose a girlfriend over mum because of sex? Mum is mum... you can never compare wife or girlfriend to your mum |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by khiaa(f): 7:57pm On May 21, 2018 |
Saviour22: Yes I mean it, Africans don't realize how evil white people are/were to their ancestors. Let me paint you a picture. Certain African tribes were considered extremely good stock/chattel/beasts like the Igbos/Yorubas *I hope I'm spelling that right* They were strong, muscular and had good endurance. The evil slavers would breed mother/sons sister/brothers father/daughter in order to create more children/beasts with strong genes to work the land. Now I know you are wondering how the men would be able to perform sexually with their mothers/sisters, *simple* they didn't know they were sexting their loved ones because those evil white devils would cover their heads with bags made out of cloth so they couldn't see who they were sexting. Evil people. Slavery in the United States was the worse slavery in the history of the world. |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by EzendiEgo1: 8:02pm On May 21, 2018 |
khiaa:so what's word will be better or good to used MotherFucker is a synonym of Bastard 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by khiaa(f): 8:06pm On May 21, 2018 |
EzendiEgo1:No it isn't a synonym of Bastard, I typed the origin and the meaning of the word in another post, please read it. You could use azzhole, jackazz, piece of shyts. |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by Nobody: 8:07pm On May 21, 2018 |
khiaa:tbh am lost for words infact am speechless |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by EzendiEgo1: 8:17pm On May 21, 2018 |
khiaa:OK nice to your advice So do you live your man more than your father Be sincere 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Here That Love His Girlfriend More Than His Mom Is an asshole by khiaa(f): 8:28pm On May 21, 2018 |
Saviour22: I know you are wondering how can a human being do this to another human being, well that is easy, take away the humanity. As long as they could convince themselves that Africans weren't human but a beast to toil the land they could treat them any way they wanted and that is what they did/do, treated them worse than their dogs. The sad thing is they haven't changed they are still treating blacks as a beast and not human. We are still considered beast in the United States Constitution, it hasn't changed or been rewritten and that's why they can shoot us down like dogs and get away with it. 1 Like |
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