It’s true that both men and women have their expectations on what they are looking for in their partner. Through trial and error process, the single lifestyle continues to flourish while both sexes continue to make mistakes, with some learning from those errors. Some men aren’t just looking for a life partner, but for temporary bed partner for a couple of flings.

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There are good men out there, but you can’t get a completely perfect and flawless guy. Perfection is overestimated, if one is perfect, there is no room for improvement. Ladies should stop looking for Mr. Perfect; he doesn’t exist.

Linda Bilyeu, a relationship expert/counsellor, have carried out a research and come up with some things men wish women would know.

Don’t be demanding. Men don’t like to take orders.

Men don’t want to hear about your previous relationships. They will feel like you are comparing them to your ex.

Most men don’t really like women they have sexual contact with on the very first date. They tend to prefer women who maintain to wait until after marriage for sex.

Men like the excitement of the chase. Guys don’t like women that are easy to catch.

We don’t like when you are always available, that takes away from the thrill.

Men understand women might have male friends which is why you should respect their female friends.

Men share their advice

Don’t expect men to pay for everything. They like to be treated to a drink or meal too.

Men don't like being stalked.

Men prefer you use current photos for online dating and not fake profiles for stalking.

Most men don’t like pillow talk. They don’t want to cuddle and chat after sex. They just want to go to sleep.

Do not expect respond to every text you send him. Men don’t need constant communication.

Men know that some women also enjoy the thrill of the chase and the bad boy factor but not all men are bad. Some men actually want to treat you right. You just have to figure out what you want and find the right guy.

Guys may start avoiding you when they are no longer interested. Do not take it personally. They would rather ghost you than have to explain why they no longer want contact. Women require a lengthy and thorough conversation that could go on for hours. Men don’t have time for that because they most likely have already moved on. Let them go and in the long run, it will be best for you.

Men don't like games.

Men want women to be sincere. The real deal. Not fake. Men like independent women who aren’t too demanding.

Emotionally intelligent women are esteemed. They are able to express themselves without the games that some play. We do not like emotional games. Men want to be able to have a conversation with you and not think you are envisaging castrating them.

Stop listening to your single female friends as to why your relationships aren’t working; there is a reason most of those women are single. Start listening to your male friends, they just might have better advice. Better yet having open communication with the guy that you are interested in seems best.

Men don’t like when you use excessive makeup. Applying makeup to accentuate your beauty in a natural way is acceptable, but it’s unacceptable if you look totally different once you wash your face.

Men are not looking for high maintenance women.

Respect each other’s individuality. We might have different interests and that is fine. Company is nice, but men might not want to spend all my free time with you. There is no need to argue or get upset if we decide to hang out with the boys all weekend. You hang out with the girls.
Men like compliments too. Just like you appreciate compliments, men do too. Tell them they look nice or smell good. They just like to feel appreciated too.

Men don’t want to hear “I dunno” when they ask you a direct question. We would prefer to hear “Yes” or “No.”

Men want you to be yourself. They want you to be comfortable being with them. So when you do go out to eat, don’t order a salad, order a steak. We want to watch you enjoy your meal and we don’t want you picking at our food.

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