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Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by Ayoemrys(m): 7:05pm On Jun 03, 2018
You have been dating him for two years now and it has really been blissful, though not without the ups and downs of every relationship. He treats you like a queen and worships the very ground you walk on. He loves and respects everyone around you and you know he is perfect for you. He is really working hard to take you to the altar but he has financial constraints. Everything seems to be going at a good pace but the whole story changed when you attend your friend's wedding. Hmmm, what a wedding! The celebration was the talk of the town for months. You are just getting over it when your friend calls to say that her hubby has just given her a brand new car. You begin to think 'when will your fiancée make enough money for your wedding? Would he ever get you a car? Things suddenly become slow in your eyes because your friend is married to a wealthy man. Well, your friend invites you for a surprise birthday party she has organized for her hubby and that's it! You get there and can't take your eyes off anything. The cars at the garage, the flowers, the serene and beautiful environment, the leather sofas, the plasma tv, the sound system. This must be heaven. You begin to despise your fiancée. He lives in a bed-sitter with a few chairs, You try to do a comparison. There's no point! You get terribly angry, Your eyes are rolling. Some of your hubby's friends are singles and your mind begins to suggest terrible things. You try to ward it off but it comes stronger... After the party, you find time to talk to your friend You start to complain about your fiancée. You say things that are not so true because you have become impatient. Your friend can see the handwriting on the wall and she offers to help. After all, what are friends for? One of her hubby's friend is seriously searching for a good wife and she tries to matchmaker you. Good idea huh? The new guy calls you and you start a relationship. so soon?. Then, you start to complain terribly about your fiancée. Things that made you happy suddenly begin to pisses you off, Little by little, you try to avoid his calls and he can sense it. He sends his friends and family to plead with you and but you do not listen. The new guy invites you over for a weekend and you are mad with excitement. You jump into a bus to see a man you do not know! Safe journey oh,He comes to pick you at the motor park and takes you to his house! What a house This is your final bus stop! You assure yourself that you won't miss this guy and he senses it, he sees the desperation in his eyes and he is frightened. Minutes later, you get into the kitchen to prepare dinner and you eat together. What a sumptuous meal! He applauds you and you are happy. You think you are winning him over. After a while, you start the mop the floors. Hmm, at night You won't even do that for your mother in the mornings. He tells you that the maid would do it but refuse. You do all the chores for him and at night you dress very seductively. He is tempted and you guys have sex! Hmm, what do you think you are doing? Having sex with a man who's not legally married to you and worse still, one you barely know. Hmm, when Its monday morning and he is almost begging you to leave. When you finally agree to leave, you deliberately leave some of your clothes in his wardrobe because you have come to stay(Lmao). He gives you some good cash on your way back and you are really overjoyed. You tell your mum to prepare to see her rich son in-law. (Story) In the next few days, you begin to do all the calling. He starts to complain that he's too busy. But who wouldn't be too busy for a desperate girl like you? When he reluctantly invites you again, you intensify your efforts. You cook, clean, wash his clothes and give him sex and more sex. You do not even know so much about him except for the fact that he works in an oil company and his parents lives abroad. You do not even want to hear any detail about any woman in his life. You are pregnant after two months and you have mixed feelings. You do not know what his reactions might be, but you are sure you have something to hold him down. But to your utmost surprise he doesn't want to hear of it and he says the baby isn't his. He screams and calls you all sort of names. (What do you expect? You made yourself so cheap). You plead and plead but he wants an abortion, You are so confused. You go for an abortion, and after a few weeks he calls you again. You feel very terrible but you forgive him. You visit him unannounced only to find a girl in his house. You are so devastated and you leave. When you call him to find out who the slut in his house is, he tells you she is his wife to be and no slut. He apologizes profusely. He has always tried to talk to you about her but you never listened. He has always had a woman in his life but they only had a misunderstanding and she was back. You try to fight your way back but his mind is made up and you are the looser! You go back to your fiance and he accepts you back. You are indeed lucky. Many girls are not as lucky as you are. What do you think? Men are wicked huh? But don't you think girls are even more wicked? You abandon a man who has done so much for you because you hear a man is ready for marriage. It just makes me wanna ask. 'What makes a man ready for marriage? If you think, it is only money, you have to think again! A man can have a fat bank account and not be ready yet a man can have so little and be ready. Don't sell your self cheaply because of money. The man who cannot afford a car today can buy ten tomorrow and the fact that your friend is getting married today doesn't mean you should be married today too. There's time for everything pls. Just want to make a common sense.

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Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by Nobody: 7:09pm On Jun 03, 2018
So boring, if a guy is not ready for marriage or not marriageable, dump his ass and move on, case closed.

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Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by Ayoemrys(m): 7:14pm On Jun 03, 2018
Colourich:
So boring, if a guy is not ready for marriage or not marriageable, dump his ass and move on, case closed.
this is what am taking about, adjust ways
Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by MissRaine69(f): 7:17pm On Jun 03, 2018
Ayoemrys:
this is what am taking about, adjust ways
No she has a point. If you are not on the same page why linger?
Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by Nobody: 7:18pm On Jun 03, 2018
Ayoemrys:
this is what am taking about, adjust ways
Story. Don't need any time waster in my life.
Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by tspouse(m): 7:27pm On Jun 03, 2018
MissRaine69:

No she has a point. If you are not on the same page why linger?
bird of a fealther
Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by tspouse(m): 7:31pm On Jun 03, 2018
If any girl try that with me ehn
Wait let me finish reading my book

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Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by IamPlato(m): 7:31pm On Jun 03, 2018
...


So You Want Me To Read This Long Story Book... Am I Studying Romantic Course?
Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by Nasri100(m): 7:36pm On Jun 03, 2018
Very touching story.
Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by Ayoemrys(m): 7:51pm On Jun 03, 2018
MissRaine69:

No she has a point. If you are not on the same page why linger?
am already married,but she's not making sense.
Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by Ayoemrys(m): 7:52pm On Jun 03, 2018
IamPlato:
...



So You Want Me To Read This Long Story Book... Am I Studying Romantic Course?
lazy ghanian youth
Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by oshe11: 7:55pm On Jun 03, 2018
Colourich:
Story. Don't need any time waster in my life.
Are you also prepared to get married?
Like earning and with good xter?



Or all you have to bring to the plate is VAGINA which might not even be BRAND NEW
Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by Shugarlord213: 8:06pm On Jun 03, 2018
Colourich:
So boring, if a guy is not ready for marriage or not marriageable, dump his ass and move on, case closed.

WILL YOU KEEP QUIET BOREHOLE!!
Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by MissRaine69(f): 10:23pm On Jun 03, 2018
tspouse:
bird of a fealther
Feather you mean?
Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by austyn0(m): 10:51pm On Jun 03, 2018
Ayoemrys:
You have been dating him for two
years
now and it
has really been blissful, though not
without
the ups
and downs of every relationship.
He treats you like a queen and
worships
the very
ground you walk on. He loves and
respects
everyone
around you and you know he is
perfect for
you.
He is really working hard to take
you to the
altar but
he has financial constraints.
Everything seems to be going at a
good
pace but the
whole story changed when you
attend
your friend's
wedding.
Hmmm, what a wedding! The
celebration
was the
talk of the town for months.
You are just getting over it when
your
friend calls to
say that her hubby has just given
her a
brand new
car.
You begin to think 'when will your
fiancée
make
enough money for your wedding?
Would
he ever get
you a car?
Things suddenly become slow in
your eyes
because
your friend is married to a wealthy
man.
Well, your friend invites you for a
surprise
birthday
party she has organized for her
hubby and
that's it!
You get there and can't take your
eyes off
anything.
The cars at the garage, the flowers,
the
serene and
beautiful environment, the leather
sofas,
the plasma
tv, the sound system.
This must be heaven. You begin to
despise
your
fiancée.
He lives in a bed-sitter with a few
chairs,
You try to
do a comparison.
There's no point!
You get terribly angry,
Your eyes are rolling. Some of your
hubby's friends
are singles and your mind begins to
suggest terrible
things.
You try to ward it off but it comes
stronger...
After the party, you find time to talk
to
your friend
You start to complain about your
fiancée.
You say things that are not so true
because
you have
become impatient.
Your friend can see the handwriting
on the
wall and
she offers to help. After all, what
are
friends for?
One of her hubby's friend is
seriously
searching for a
good wife and she tries to
matchmaker
you. Good
idea huh?
The new guy calls you and you start
a
relationship.
so soon?. Then, you start to
complain
terribly about
your fiancée.
Things that made you happy
suddenly
begin to
pisses you off, Little by little, you try
to
avoid his
calls and he can sense it.
He sends his friends and family to
plead
with you and
but you do not listen.
The new guy invites you over for a
weekend and you
are mad with excitement. You jump
into a
bus to see
a man you do not know!
Safe journey oh,He comes to pick
you at
the motor
park and takes you to his house!
What a
house
This is your final bus stop!
You assure yourself that you won't
miss
this guy and
he senses it, he sees the
desperation in his
eyes and
he is frightened.
Minutes later, you get into the
kitchen to
prepare
dinner and you eat together.
What a sumptuous meal! He
applauds you
and you
are happy. You think you are
winning him
over. After
a while, you start the mop the
floors.
Hmm, at
night
You won't even do that for your
mother in
the
mornings. He tells you that the
maid would
do it but
refuse. You do all the chores for
him and at
night you
dress very seductively.
He is tempted and you guys have
sex!
Hmm, what
do you think you are doing? Having
sex
with a man
who's not legally married to you
and
worse still, one
you barely know.
Hmm, when Its monday morning
and he is
almost
begging you to leave.
When you finally agree to leave, you
deliberately
leave some of your clothes in his
wardrobe
because
you have come to stay(Lmao).
He gives you some good cash on
your way
back and
you are really overjoyed. You tell
your
mum to
prepare to see her rich son in-law.
(Story)
In the next few days, you begin to
do all
the calling.
He starts to complain that he's too
busy.
But who
wouldn't be too busy for a
desperate girl
like you?
When he reluctantly invites you
again, you
intensify
your efforts.
You cook, clean, wash his clothes
and give
him sex
and more sex. You do not even
know so
much about
him except for the fact that he
works in an
oil
company and his parents lives
abroad.
You do not even want to hear any
detail
about any
woman in his life.
You are pregnant after two months
and
you have
mixed feelings. You do not know
what his
reactions
might be, but you are sure you have
something to
hold him down.
But to your utmost surprise he
doesn't
want to hear
of it and he says the baby isn't his.
He
screams and
calls you all sort of names.
(What do you expect? You made
yourself
so cheap).
You plead and plead but he wants
an
abortion, You
are so confused.
You go for an abortion, and after a
few
weeks he
calls you again. You feel very
terrible but
you forgive
him.
You visit him unannounced only to
find a
girl in his
house. You are so devastated and
you
leave.
When you call him to find out who
the slut
in his
house is, he tells you she is his wife
to be
and no
slut. He apologizes profusely. He
has
always tried to
talk to you about her but you never
listened.
He has always had a woman in his
life but
they only
had a misunderstanding and she
was back.
You try to fight your way back but
his mind
is made
up and you are the looser!
You go back to your fiance and he
accepts
you back.
You are indeed lucky. Many girls are
not as
lucky as
you are.
What do you think? Men are wicked
huh?
But don't
you think girls are even more
wicked? You
abandon
a man who has done so much for
you
because you
hear a man is ready for marriage.
It just makes me wanna ask. 'What
makes
a man
ready for marriage? If you think, it
is only
money,
you have to think again!
A man can have a fat bank account
and
not be ready
yet a man can have so little and be
ready.
Don't sell your self cheaply because
of
money. The
man who cannot afford a car today
can
buy ten
tomorrow and the fact that your
friend is
getting
married today doesn't mean you
should
be married
today too.
There's time for everything pls.
Just want to make a common sense.
Guy na girls you compose this lengthy sermon for?,, You no geh joy ogringrin
Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by tspouse(m): 2:08am On Jun 04, 2018
MissRaine69:
Feather you mean?
thank you
Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by tspouse(m): 2:12am On Jun 04, 2018
oshe11:
Are you also prepared to get married?
Like earning and with good xter?



Or all you have to bring to the plate is VAGINA which might not even be BRAND NEW
lol
Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by Ayoemrys(m): 2:15am On Jun 04, 2018
austyn0:
Guy na girls you compose this lengthy sermon for?,, You no geh joy ogringrin
lol epistle to the rome


No I mean




To the ladies
Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by Ayoemrys(m): 2:17am On Jun 04, 2018
Shugarlord213:

WILL YOU KEEP QUIET BOREHOLE!!

Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by romme2u: 4:32am On Jun 04, 2018
angry

should we fry water
Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by austyn0(m): 8:57am On Jun 04, 2018
Ayoemrys:
lol epistle to the rome


No I mean




To the ladies
gringrin
Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by mimimile93: 10:23pm On Jun 04, 2018
Ayoemrys:
You have been dating him for two years now and it has really been blissful, though not without the ups and downs of every relationship. He treats you like a queen and worships the very ground you walk on. He loves and respects everyone around you and you know he is perfect for you. He is really working hard to take you to the altar but he has financial constraints. Everything seems to be going at a good pace but the whole story changed when you attend your friend's wedding. Hmmm, what a wedding! The celebration was the talk of the town for months. You are just getting over it when your friend calls to say that her hubby has just given her a brand new car. You begin to think 'when will your fiancée make enough money for your wedding? Would he ever get you a car? Things suddenly become slow in your eyes because your friend is married to a wealthy man. Well, your friend invites you for a surprise birthday party she has organized for her hubby and that's it! You get there and can't take your eyes off anything. The cars at the garage, the flowers, the serene and beautiful environment, the leather sofas, the plasma tv, the sound system. This must be heaven. You begin to despise your fiancée. He lives in a bed-sitter with a few chairs, You try to do a comparison. There's no point! You get terribly angry, Your eyes are rolling. Some of your hubby's friends are singles and your mind begins to suggest terrible things. You try to ward it off but it comes stronger... After the party, you find time to talk to your friend You start to complain about your fiancée. You say things that are not so true because you have become impatient. Your friend can see the handwriting on the wall and she offers to help. After all, what are friends for? One of her hubby's friend is seriously searching for a good wife and she tries to matchmaker you. Good idea huh? The new guy calls you and you start a relationship. so soon?. Then, you start to complain terribly about your fiancée. Things that made you happy suddenly begin to pisses you off, Little by little, you try to avoid his calls and he can sense it. He sends his friends and family to plead with you and but you do not listen. The new guy invites you over for a weekend and you are mad with excitement. You jump into a bus to see a man you do not know! Safe journey oh,He comes to pick you at the motor park and takes you to his house! What a house This is your final bus stop! You assure yourself that you won't miss this guy and he senses it, he sees the desperation in his eyes and he is frightened. Minutes later, you get into the kitchen to prepare dinner and you eat together. What a sumptuous meal! He applauds you and you are happy. You think you are winning him over. After a while, you start the mop the floors. Hmm, at night You won't even do that for your mother in the mornings. He tells you that the maid would do it but refuse. You do all the chores for him and at night you dress very seductively. He is tempted and you guys have sex! Hmm, what do you think you are doing? Having sex with a man who's not legally married to you and worse still, one you barely know. Hmm, when Its monday morning and he is almost begging you to leave. When you finally agree to leave, you deliberately leave some of your clothes in his wardrobe because you have come to stay(Lmao). He gives you some good cash on your way back and you are really overjoyed. You tell your mum to prepare to see her rich son in-law. (Story) In the next few days, you begin to do all the calling. He starts to complain that he's too busy. But who wouldn't be too busy for a desperate girl like you? When he reluctantly invites you again, you intensify your efforts. You cook, clean, wash his clothes and give him sex and more sex. You do not even know so much about him except for the fact that he works in an oil company and his parents lives abroad. You do not even want to hear any detail about any woman in his life. You are pregnant after two months and you have mixed feelings. You do not know what his reactions might be, but you are sure you have something to hold him down. But to your utmost surprise he doesn't want to hear of it and he says the baby isn't his. He screams and calls you all sort of names. (What do you expect? You made yourself so cheap). You plead and plead but he wants an abortion, You are so confused. You go for an abortion, and after a few weeks he calls you again. You feel very terrible but you forgive him. You visit him unannounced only to find a girl in his house. You are so devastated and you leave. When you call him to find out who the slut in his house is, he tells you she is his wife to be and no slut. He apologizes profusely. He has always tried to talk to you about her but you never listened. He has always had a woman in his life but they only had a misunderstanding and she was back. You try to fight your way back but his mind is made up and you are the looser! You go back to your fiance and he accepts you back. You are indeed lucky. Many girls are not as lucky as you are. What do you think? Men are wicked huh? But don't you think girls are even more wicked? You abandon a man who has done so much for you because you hear a man is ready for marriage. It just makes me wanna ask. 'What makes a man ready for marriage? If you think, it is only money, you have to think again! A man can have a fat bank account and not be ready yet a man can have so little and be ready. Don't sell your self cheaply because of money. The man who cannot afford a car today can buy ten tomorrow and the fact that your friend is getting married today doesn't mean you should be married today too. There's time for everything pls. Just want to make a common sense.
Op modify your topic from SOME LADIES to MOST LADIES..
Re: Reason Why Some Ladies Will Remain Single For Life by mimimile93: 10:28pm On Jun 04, 2018
Colourich:
So boring, if a guy is not ready for marriage or not marriageable, dump his ass and move on, case closed.
Keep dumping until you are 62...

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