IamProdigy:

I would hv told you something... but let me just allow this misguided statement of urs!

as a gentle man, u don't need to ask b4 treating ur galfrwnd well. Abi if u want do, u dey tell us.

fancy4eve:
if dem no get money, make dem hide dere face nd stop asking irrelevant question.

Awon broke Ass.

like you're not broker than him.

IamProdigy:

I would hv told you something... but let me just allow this misguided statement of urs!

as a gentle man, u don't need to ask b4 treating ur galfrwnd well, once d money is dey, u treat her well nd wen is not dey u make her understand dat u don't hv, no body is born rich, we all came naked. Abi if u want do, u dey tell us.

fancy4eve:
wat you should be asking is, must all broke guys hv a gal frwnd......if u know u don't hv money to foot her bill, den u shouldn't border inviting her ova nd stop asking irritating question.

Haha
It’s not necessarily about being broke or rich. It is more about disabusing the minds of some of our young ladies who develop an entitlement mentality when a guy becomes friends with them.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not against a guy giving his girlfriend gifts, especially on her birthday. That’s actually cute of him; but the expectation that he has to give you money every time you visit him is absurd.

Colourich:
Cos we are doing you a favour by visiting you, it's either you drop us or you give us tfare.


Capisce?

favour indeed.

depends on the situation
if she comes to my house as a normal friend sure..
buh if she's FWB or the way if she comes to my house eat my food drink my malt and won't play mummy and daddy play with me
her father she better use her money or start trekking

QuietHammer:
To the lady who feel they are entitled to transport fare; how much did your fathers give to your mothers when they were dating as transport fare? Don't get offended, we just want to use that as a yardstick.

Did your father wait till the wedding night to have sex with your mother or he was already doing it before then?

Let us use all the yardsticks we can find.

2buffagain:
This is why we only date girls with cars who are well off.

Poverty mindset will kill broke females.

Hope you have a car too.

ImaIma1:


Did your father wait till the wedding night to have sex with your mother or he was already doing it before then?

Let us use all the yardsticks we can find.

He waited, that I'm sure of and I'm pretty sure they knocked each other out thereafter.

Mind you, I didn't ask if your father gave your mother transportation fare I'm just interested in the amount given.

QuietHammer:

He waited, that I'm sure of and I'm pretty sure they knocked each other out thereafter.

Mind you, I didn't ask if your father gave your mother transportation fare I'm just interested in the amount given.

Your asking how much is indirectly asking if her father did

We can't use the same yardsticks we used then in this present time.

Our parents had platonic relationships. How many guys will let his babe's body rest?

Our fathers worked and brought in the money while most mums stayed home and took care of the family. Guys of nowadays see such a woman as a liability.

So let us stop comparing the two situations.

ImaIma1:


Your asking how much is indirectly asking if her father did

We can't use the same yardsticks we used then in this present time.

Our parents had platonic relationships. How many guys will let his babe's body rest?

Our fathers worked and brought in the money while most mums stayed home and took care of the family. Guys of nowadays see such a woman as a liability.

So let us stop comparing the two situations.

Wow. It's only males that pester females for sex and it's impossible to be the other way. Interesting

QuietHammer:


Wow. It's only males that pester females for sex and it's impossible to be the other way. Interesting

What is the percentage of guys that are saving themselves for marriage and being disturbed by girls to give it up to ladies saving themselves for marriage being disturbed by guys? Which is higher?

PDPGuy:

Haha
It’s not necessarily about being broke or rich. It is more about disabusing the minds of some of our young ladies who develop an entitlement mentality when a guy becomes friends with them.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not against a guy giving his girlfriend gifts, especially on her birthday. That’s actually cute of him; but the expectation that he has to give you money every time you visit him is absurd.

Let him do d needful nd stop complaining, more ova chikili money will not run him dry. Abi n me go enjoy d enjoy.

ImaIma1:


What is the percentage of guys that are saving themselves for marriage and being disturbed by girls to give it up to ladies saving themselves for marriage being disturbed by guys? Which is higher?

Lol. Well, everyone for himself, God for us all.

ImaIma1:


Hope you have a car too.

LOL who do you think you're talking to luv?

fancy4eve:
as a gentle man, u don't need to ask b4 treating ur galfrwnd well, once d money is dey, u treat her well nd wen is not dey u make her understand dat u don't hv, no body is born rich, we all came naked. Abi if u want do, u dey tell us.

Let me enlighten you!

When a lady is hardworking, having a mindset that "I must hustle my way out" , not depending on a man...like a 12 year old high school student... not having a entitlement ideology, that a man owes you the following:

Transport fare:
phones
Airtime/data
bills on outings etc...

My dear, every right thinking guy will seize every opportunity to spend for such a lady, when he has!

A RELATIONSHIP IS FOR TWO PEOPLE..
both should spend for each other..
look out for each other...
pay bills for each other..
pray for each other..etc

LADIES SHOULD STOP HAVING THIS ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY..
you were not there wen the nights were bleak...
wen hope was sketchy..
wen the sweat was thick..
wen the hustle never paid

Allow this person bless you with FREEWILL....its not compulsory

ImaIma1:


Your asking how much is indirectly asking if her father did

We can't use the same yardsticks we used then in this present time.

Our parents had platonic relationships. How many guys will let his babe's body rest?

Our fathers worked and brought in the money while most mums stayed home and took care of the family. Guys of nowadays see such a woman as a liability.

So let us stop comparing the two situations.

Yes...you said it times has changed!

The average man in this dispensation now...needs all the support he can get financially and all round.

The value of things have changed!

Then, when you have a bunch of farmlands you're SAFE!

but now...with a running business and about 3million in your account, you can still get BROKE!....

This era...should breed women who want to help atleast, and not sit in a corner polishing their nails while watching Gotv

IamProdigy:


Yes...you said it times has changed!

The average man in this dispensation now...needs all the support he can get financially and all round.

The value of things have changed!

Then, when you have a bunch of farmlands you're SAFE!

but now...with a running business and about 3million in your account, you can still get BROKE!....

This era...should breed women who want to help atleast, and not sit in a corner polishing their nails while watching Gotv

Most women in this dispensation work. I don't know where you got the "gotv" woman from.

Infact, some men take advantage of working ladies and sit on their butts watching supersport

ImaIma1:


Most women in this dispensation work. I don't know where you got the "gotv" woman from.

Infact, some men take advantage of working ladies and sit on their butts watching supersport

Aunty!
Am not saying something...that's is far fetched!

we should always face facts...and think of ways to better ourselves.

My view from inception is...women should quit the "entitlement mentality"... na too much stress dy kill man....

IamProdigy:


Let me enlighten you!

When a lady is hardworking, having a mindset that "I must hustle my way out" , not depending on a man...like a 12 year old high school student... not having a entitlement ideology, that a man owes you the following:

Transport fare:
phones
Airtime/data
bills on outings etc...

My dear, every right thinking guy will seize every opportunity to spend for such a lady, when he has!

A RELATIONSHIP IS FOR TWO PEOPLE..
both should spend for each other..
look out for each other...
pay bills for each other..
pray for each other..etc

LADIES SHOULD STOP HAVING THIS ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY..
you were not there wen the nights were bleak...
wen hope was sketchy..
wen the sweat was thick..
wen the hustle never paid

Allow this person bless you with FREEWILL....its not compulsory

but d guy in question did not state if she's a working class, no sensible working Class lady would ask 4 tfare from her boy frwnd, wen she knows she can afford it, but from his mssg, u will know she's not working. I know luv is all about caring nd sharing, but wen 1 party isn't buoyant, it is d duty of d oda 2 help out.

ImaIma1:


Most women in this dispensation work. I don't know where you got the "gotv" woman from.

Infact, some men take advantage of working ladies and sit on their butts watching supersport

no wonder women re taking over, to b sincere, I don't see reasons y a guy should complain, if she could take d risk bcus of luv 2 visit u, y don't u reciprocate by making her journey comfortable.

IamProdigy:


Aunty!
Am not saying something...that's is far fetched!

we should always face facts...and think of ways to better ourselves.

My view from inception is...women should quit the "entitlement mentality"... na too much stress dy kill man....

Uncle!!

You don't have to get agitated or sound constipated.

Even men have entitlement mentality.

Adaowerri111:
Thats the least you give if you don't have a car, stop asking stupid question on this forum, get a job/life

You could have been civil. No need for the vulgar talk. Abi he refuse to give tfare?

fancy4eve:
no wonder women re taking over, to b sincere, I don't see reasons y a guy should complain, if she could take d risk bcus of luv 2 visit u, y don't u reciprocate by making her journey comfortable.

So, the guy is entitled to tfare when he goes visiting? According to your logic, of course. . Not that I have a problem giving babe tfare o.

fancy4eve:
wat you should be asking is, must all broke guys hv a gal frwnd......if u know u don't hv money to foot her bill, den u shouldn't border inviting her ova nd stop asking irritating question.

That means girls exchange pussy for bills(money).

ImaIma1:


Uncle!!

You don't have to get agitated or sound constipated.

Even men have entitlement mentality.

I think the reverse is the case here...

read my previous post...none is in tandem with the two words you chose to qualify NY reply

ImaIma1:


Uncle!!

You don't have to get agitated or sound constipated.

Even men have entitlement mentality.

I think the reverse is the case here...

read my previous post...none is in tandem with the two words you chose to qualify my reply..

I think u should rather say!....

Concise and factual ...
its not a gender debate...at least not for me!

Erums:
Seriously guys... I think demanding for tfare from a guy each time she visits it demeaning, unhealthy, petty and i can classify further.

I always tell my Guys and ladies, what a lady exhibit wen you are dating her is likely wat she's gonna exhibit when u guys get married... So if you cnt tolerate it now, don't harbor it till then.

I actually ended a brief relationship on this exact issue few weeks ago.

I was involved in an accident on official assignment, infact I'm lucky to be alive with no fracture, or broken bones.
So I was hospitalized and had to quit work for a week while I rest at home.
She normally comes visiting as per gf and I always pay her transport, I the course of the accident, rescuers stole my phone so I couldbt reach her for a week. After I brought a new phone, got my contacts back I called her. She came to see me, in our course of discussion, she queried my new phone and said hers is bad and she needs an iPhone. I kept mute watching.

When she's was abt leaving, she started saying she's ready I should give her transport fare. I bluntly told her it's wrong and a poor mentality, even In my sick state she's still been parasitic. She got angry and left not wanting me to escort her..... Few hours later, I just called her and ended the whole shit. Can't imagine such insensitivity.

That was highly insensitive, selfish and even wicked of her.

TSOM:

"Fucck"; that's exactly what you tell him and them when you finish negotiating your pay, undréss and lay on the couch when you go visiting in their apartments, right?

In the throes of passion with lips interlocked, you splay your hands across his chest, disentangle yourself from his lips then push him back.
"Wait. James, wait. I need to ask you something." He sucks air in 'cause he can barely think, erection as hard as steel, he can barely hold on. You take that as the sign to go on.

"James, I need to make my hair. My rent is expiring and there's a wedding coming up and I don't have money for the designated cloth and style for the event..."

He can barely say decipherable words so he just says," Not now. I'd give you something this weekend."

Greedy and selfish and seeking immediate gratification for what's about to happen, you retort, " But I need 'transport money' when I am going home later on."

He nods. Satisfied with the immediate result of your leeching skills, you reply, "Alright, James, fucck." And you both have sex.

We all know the "transport money" isn't exactly the amount it takes to visit his place and back, it's a 'package' to pay for the time you spent with him, even though he could have given it willingly at his own time but you coerced him to pay you for sex.

Yeah, Colourich, "Fucck off" - that's your catchphrase.

You are a clown

Colourich:
Cos we are doing you a favour by visiting you, it's either you drop us or you give us tfare.


Capisce?

Favour? How biko?

MissJoy29:

That was highly insensitive, selfish and even wicked of her.

Im glad you noticed... I couldn't really comprehend how a human can be so insensitive....i can't leave with a human not passionate cos i am

Erums:
Im glad you noticed... I couldn't really comprehend how a human can be so insensitive....i can't leave with a human not passionate cos i am

Yeah I noticed...thanks.

I fear insensitive people. They can do anything to you & not send. Heartless. Again, that's one of the quick ways to show me that you don't love me. And I have a HORROR of being trapped in a loveless relationship/marriage.

Over sensitivity dey worry me too.