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What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by eberetos: 6:14am On Jun 13, 2018
We hear news of ladies who sleep with their ex few days or months to their beautiful wedding. These ladies can have sex with multiple ex two weeks to their wedding & later may even shed tears of joy during the wedding day like a faithful bride who does not cheat......Some may even have sex with an ex or a friend when they go to distribute wedding card.

But what is the root cause of this? Why do some ladies do so?? before we judge anybody, is there a psychological cause of this
Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by IamD18: 6:17am On Jun 13, 2018
Inability to control their inborn and natural promiscuous life.

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by dingbang(m): 6:18am On Jun 13, 2018
The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.. cool

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by Mruwa1(m): 6:19am On Jun 13, 2018
if u ask me na who I go ask ? boys nor dey think or smell am but girls DAT their ex be like ritual dey need to do before marriage

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by mxpinky: 6:22am On Jun 13, 2018
IamD18:
Inability to control their inborn and natural promiscuous life.
final

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by zainabicy: 6:25am On Jun 13, 2018
Because they are marrying this one for the wrong reason.

If they closed the door properly and entered the new door fully and happily, they won't be glancing back.

But U know, peer pressures , financial adviser friends, age monitoring aunties and grandchildren expecting family have advised us all to 'settle' , so the 'once reached there' has a chance to reach 'there' again because U r emotionally unstable at the time and want to feel a little loved before U enter this wrong step fully.

#saynotoarrangedmarriage #sayyestolove #saynotoforcedmarriage #saynototeenagemarriage #childnotbride #sayyesonlytolove

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by olarwhumy6(f): 6:27am On Jun 13, 2018
Stupidity

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:28am On Jun 13, 2018
oloshoism, ashewoism, hoeism embedded in their DNA

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by Olalan(m): 6:29am On Jun 13, 2018
It's just a need to enjoy the sexual intimacy again, any man who marries a girl who did such should be rest assured that the wife will always cheat on him always.

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by Zdoh(m): 6:37am On Jun 13, 2018
Is like due and they beleive with that they do they can easily come back to you nytime they need assistant.
Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by Nobody: 6:42am On Jun 13, 2018
olarwhumy6:
Stupidity
cool

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by olarwhumy6(f): 6:44am On Jun 13, 2018

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by Nobody: 6:59am On Jun 13, 2018
Why always emphasis on ladies..

Men do worst.

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by malificent(f): 7:00am On Jun 13, 2018
Some believe it's some sort of final settlement.

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by tosyne2much(m): 7:02am On Jun 13, 2018
zainabicy:
Because they are marrying this one for the wrong reason.

If they closed the door properly and entered the new door fully and happily, they won't be glancing back.

But U know, peer pressures , financial adviser friends, age monitoring aunties and grandchildren expecting family have advised us all to 'settle' , so the 'once reached there' has a chance to reach 'there' again because U r emotionally unstable at the time and want to feel a little loved before U enter this wrong step fully.

#saynotoarrangedmarriage #sayyestolove #saynotoforcedmarriage #saynototeenagemarriage #childnotbride #sayyesonlytolove
Hmmmm! "once reached has a chance to reach there again"

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by braine(m): 7:13am On Jun 13, 2018
The men are the ones answering for the ladies, let the ladies answer for themselves.

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by Preshy561(f): 7:17am On Jun 13, 2018
what of guys that still date ladies till their wedding day?


worst is that,they will keep lying to the numerous ladies they have in their pockets,all for what?
you think we ain't scared to contact these diseases flying around?

abeg!
guys cheat more,and we all are scared to end up with the wrong dude.

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by MissWrite(f): 7:18am On Jun 13, 2018
You've generalized angry. I'd like to say "some" (maybe it's implied) but I'll take your cue now, let it apply to the people you are referring to:

Women and men see the marriage deal a little differently. A woman reckons that she would never have sex with another man ever again after she speaks her vows (forsaking all others). As the wedding day draws near, the urge to "get it all out of the system" grows more intense. It's not cold-feet (she's got no doubt that the groom is right for her) but it's definitely part of what's been called "pre-wedding jitters". Think of the illicit sex with an ex before the wedding like "The last supper" if you want to understand the psychology of it. Men, on the other hand, have no intention to ever cut ties with their exes even after marriage; they, therefore, do not feel the same "finality" that marriage presents.

It's no doubt that cheating is despicable whether you have a wedding band around your finger or not; but, people still try to rationalize their acts believing that fidelity is owed to their partner in a marriage. Not so much before that.

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by Nobody: 7:23am On Jun 13, 2018
Hanging of boots. Though some still go on to play away matches which is bad.
Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by IamAirforce1: 7:25am On Jun 13, 2018
MissWrite:
You've generalized angry. I'd like to say "some" (maybe it's implied) but I'll take your cue now, let it apply to the people you are referring to:

Women and men see the marriage deal a little differently. A woman reckons that she would never have sex with another man ever again after she speaks her vows (forsaking all others). As the wedding day draws near, the urge to "get it all out of the system" grows more intense. It's not cold-feet (she's got no doubt that the groom is right for her) but it's definitely part of what's been called "pre-wedding jitters". Think of the illicit sex with an ex before the wedding like "The last supper" if you want to understand the psychology of it. Men, on the other hand, have no intention to ever cut ties with their exes even after marriage; they, therefore, do not feel the same "finality" that marriage presents.

It's no doubt that cheating is despicable whether you have a wedding band around your finger or not; but, people still try to rationalize their acts believing that fidelity is owed to their partner in a marriage. Not so much before that.

Just a simple question and you're writting long story

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by Preshy561(f): 7:28am On Jun 13, 2018
IamAirforce1:


Just a simple question and you're writting long story
she made alot of sense.

you guys do worst.
weren't you the one that shamelessly created a thread on how you are gonna cheat on your preggy girlfriend;tomorrow you will still come out to castigate ladies.

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by IamAirforce1: 7:32am On Jun 13, 2018
Preshy561:

she made alot of sense.

you guys do worst.
weren't you the one that shamelessly created a thread on how you are gonna cheat on your preggy girlfriend;tomorrow you will still come out to castigate ladies.


Believe everything I put out here at your own peril
Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by Preshy561(f): 7:34am On Jun 13, 2018
IamAirforce1:

Believe everything I put out here at your own peril
undecided
Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by marvelli(f): 7:34am On Jun 13, 2018
What about men who sleep with anything before the wedding? Why didn't you ask that one too angry
Answer that question, then you've got your answer.

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by IamAirforce1: 7:35am On Jun 13, 2018
Preshy561:


undecided
Don't be confused, believe when I say I'm responsible.
Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by Fazemood(m): 8:02am On Jun 13, 2018
I've banged a girl 2weeks to her wedding, we've been FWB before she met her guy, even at that we still did crazy romps. Not for any thing but just to keep what we started going. We stopped 4 months before he proposed on the ground that we are hurting some1. He proposed to her, we celebrated.
Still Keeping our distance from each other to avoid doing the 'thing' again.

2weeks to her wedding we were the two of we, reminiscing on what singlehood and its reckless offers we took, we laughed over the fun, drank to it, then we fvcked. Real hard. Since then, we see, we pass, cuz we had it when we could. #CLEAN_SLATE.

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by Mztitovina(f): 8:02am On Jun 13, 2018
eberetos:
We hear news of ladies who sleep with their ex few days or months to their beautiful wedding. These ladies can have sex with multiple ex two weeks to their wedding & later may even shed tears of joy during the wedding day like a faithful bride who does not cheat......Some may even have sex with an ex or a friend when they go to distribute wedding card.

But what is the root cause of this? Why do some ladies do so?? before we judge anybody, is there a psychological cause of this

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Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by ultimate73(m): 8:07am On Jun 13, 2018
Bitch ain't loyal
Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by Tallesty1(m): 8:10am On Jun 13, 2018
eberetos:
We hear news of ladies who sleep with their ex few days or months to their beautiful wedding. These ladies can have sex with multiple ex two weeks to their wedding & later may even shed tears of joy during the wedding day like a faithful bride who does not cheat......Some may even have sex with an ex or a friend when they go to distribute wedding card.

But what is the root cause of this? Why do some ladies do so?? before we judge anybody, is there a psychological cause of this
ONE FOR THE ROAD BRO.
Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by Tallesty1(m): 8:14am On Jun 13, 2018
GutsOverFear:
Why always emphasis on ladies..

Men do worst.
You're free to goan create your own thread and emphasize on men
Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by Nobody: 8:18am On Jun 13, 2018
Because the current guy they are about to marry they have no single feelings for him.probably they marrying because of his money. The ex is the only one who probably tickles their heart. Even when married the ex go still dey bulala such a babe and all the children she go dey born na d ex go be d biological fathercheesy. Imagine u as a married man the children ur wife dey born get different head shape and nose different from urs.ppl will be asking whose d father of this childrencheesy. I feel very sorry for such husbands shacheesy.

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