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Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by daviesblaze(m): 12:17pm On Jun 13
I recently ended a thing with a lady and damn she didn’t take it well.

She was annoying, but I told her I was simply too busy with work and other things and she was pushing for something more serious.Truth was, i easily grow bored whenever a relationship stretches for more than a month

After I told her I had no intention of getting serious, out came the shaming tactics “You’re not a real man are you” “You’re just a fuckboy” “Don't let your look deceive you. you can't get anyone better than me” “Maybe I should send a guy friend to Bleep you up” “You wasted 2 months of my life” "you took advantage of me because i was vulnerable"

Now the whole time she’s saying all this, I kept thinking of the phrase women use to shame and shut down men who get aggressive over being rejected, “you’re not entitled to anybody’s love or affection”

So I decided to use it. I said “you’re not entitled to anyone’s love or affection” And she hit the roof telling me, “I can Bleep any guy I want, I can have a new guy every day if I wanted”

I gotta admit, it felt pretty damn good to use that on a chick.

Well sweetheart, why are you wasting time arguing with me? Go do that then!!

Typical woman. Feels entitled to my time but if I was being billy beta and getting Aggro about her not committing I’d get told I’m not entitled to her love and affection

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by CANDYDADDY(m): 12:19pm On Jun 13
Truth was, i easily grow bored whenever a relationship stretches for more than a month

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by NwanyiAwkaetiti(f): 12:22pm On Jun 13
Petty.

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by daviesblaze(m): 12:23pm On Jun 13

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by IamD18: 12:23pm On Jun 13
And now that's an achievement and a guarantee that your so-called work will make you a millionaire , isn't it?

You sure deserves a high-five with a plastic chair on your face for thinking it's an achievement to dump a lady after wasting her time for two months.


If your work and jobs were your priorities, why start a relationship with her in the first place?

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by Thegeneralqueen(f): 12:24pm On Jun 13
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeewwww

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by Tallesty1(m): 12:26pm On Jun 13
It is all about their ego. Knowing that most men need their cookie gives them massive ego. They feel they are in control and can get whatever they want. You bruise their ego when you say no, it is like dry humping their feelings. Some will go insane, others will will act cool but deep down they wouldn't believe it.

It is not a woman thing though, indian men suck it at too. Nigeria women handle rejection better than indian men.

It's ok to turn a woman down but please do it nicely for your own sake.

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by Lalas247(f): 12:28pm On Jun 13
so this is FACTS undecided

so because u dated one girl it has become a fact?

so what exactly are you feeling like ? because one girl didn't take ur break up well .... all women in the world can't handle rejection. from your story she took it very well .. extremely well she told you the truth and gave u the deuces sign .. so you think you're winning abi...

mtcheew
pls don't quote me o.. save those calories

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by daviesblaze(m): 12:31pm On Jun 13
Lalas247:
so this is FACTS undecided

so because u dated one girl it has become a fact?

so what exactly are you feeling like ? because one girl didn't take ur break up well .... all women in the world can't handle rejection. from your story she took it very well .. extremely well she told you the truth and gave u the deuces sign .. so you think you're winning abi...

mtcheew
pls don't quote me o.. save those calories
well you've just confirmed it.

Women actually cannot handle rejection. Grow Up!! grin grin

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by Chuknovski(m): 12:33pm On Jun 13
you Lucky you are yet to meet a girl who will give you a run for your new found attitude, had a friend who was like you not until he met a girl who dammed all his consequences, she stood by him like a leech, she nor gree free the guy with, all knacks, cheats, beats, now the girl don humble the guy,he wan kuku settol with this geh, my guy be careful women geh power, some fit jazz you especially when u don enta their Toto, if you know u knw

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by Lalas247(f): 12:34pm On Jun 13
daviesblaze:

well you've just confirmed it.

Women actually cannot handle rejection. Grow Up!! grin grin

who is smiling with u .....
u no dey fear sha... so u didn't read not to quote me undecided

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by RadicallyBlunt: 12:35pm On Jun 13
Op my colleague, u did well biko. When a woman likes you, u gotta fucck her very well cus things can turn upside down later.

My greatest regret in ever dating a girl was when she told me that she and Jesus had agreement dat she will not have sex till marriage. Mumu-me sef dey happy say I don see wife, I concurred. As things went on she couldn't bear the emotions, she was all over me. I had to be d one to stay strong and not have sex with her, she then suddenly woke up one day and said I made her look cheap and she broke up.

I swear I felt like cutting off her head. Since dat time I don vow whether she's a wife material or not, I will never waste any precious opportunity again in my life. All pusssies are to be slammed.

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by daviesblaze(m): 12:35pm On Jun 13
Chuknovski:
you Lucky you are yet to meet a girl who will give you a run for your new found attitude, had a friend who was like you not until he met a girl who dammed all his consequences, she stood by him like a leech, she nor gree free the guy with, all knacks, cheats, beats, now the girl don humble the guy,he wan kuku settol with this geh, my guy be careful women geh power, some fit jazz you especially when u don enta their Toto, if you know u knw
Nahhh wink wink wink wink

That cant happen. there is a saying that goes
"once beaten, twice shy.
Twice Beaten Forever shy"

if you know, u know grin grin

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by daviesblaze(m): 12:36pm On Jun 13
Lalas247:


who is smiling with u .....
u no dey fear sha... so u didn't read not to quote me undecided

Save the flames nordy, try using it for something more productive grin grin

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by Chuknovski(m): 12:40pm On Jun 13
daviesblaze:
Nahhh wink wink wink wink
That cant happen. there is a saying that goes "once beaten, twice shy. Twice Beaten Forever shy"
if you know, u know grin grin
watch out for pt2

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by daviesblaze(m): 12:45pm On Jun 13
Chuknovski:


watch out for pt2
lol, anticipating season 20

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by daviesblaze(m): 12:54pm On Jun 13
IamD18:
And now that's an achievement and a guarantee that your so-called work will make you a millionaire , isn't it?

You sure deserves a high-five with a plastic chair on your face for thinking it's an achievement to dump a lady after wasting her time for two months.


If your work and jobs were your priorities, why start a relationship with her in the first place?

My Problem, not you business.

your Bullcrap, your problem

you guys need to realize that a woman is not worth wasting your time on. if you start observing some shenanigans, cut the crap right away

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by daviesblaze(m): 12:56pm On Jun 13
RadicallyBlunt:
Op my colleague, u did well biko. When a woman likes you, u gotta fucck her very well cus things can turn upside down later.

My greatest regret in ever dating a girl was when she told me that she and Jesus had agreement dat she will no have sex till marriage. Mumu-me sef dey happy say I don see wife, I concurred. As things went on she couldn't bear the emotions, she was all over me. I had to be d one to stay strong and not have sex with her, she then suddenly woke up one day and said I made her look cheap and she broke up.

I swear I felt like cutting off her head. Since dat time I don vow whether she's a wife material or not, I will never waste any precious opportunity again in my life. All pusssies are to be slammed.
Lol, well said bro.

time spent with a woman is NOT an investment. There is no return to be had, no future payout. The relationship WILL end, sooner or later, have your life in order so that it doesn't matter.

She's not yours, it's just your turn, and she'll let you know when your turn is over: "I'm not in the mood" / "I'm not your LovePeddler" / "I don't like oral anymore".

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by Lonestar124: 12:56pm On Jun 13
I remember one of my ex that threaten to report me to a river in her village.....she said any man that date a lady from her village and dump her will be paralysed and become impotent all the rest of his life.

To be truism I didn't sleep for subsequent days cheesy

Everything undisclosed was disclosed to my family and friend that never ceased to laugh at me.

Some ladies can be aggressive while handling breakup and if you're subtle with them you may end up being victimized.

They can do and undo.

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by daviesblaze(m): 12:58pm On Jun 13
Lonestar124:
Some ladies can be aggressive while handling breakup and if you're subtle with them you may end up being victimized.

They can do and undo.
E.g accusing you of rape grin grin

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by Lonestar124: 1:06pm On Jun 13
daviesblaze:

E.g accusing you of rape grin grin
Becoming the ambassador of acid survivors cheesy

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by daviesblaze(m): 1:09pm On Jun 13
Lonestar124:
Becoming the ambassador of acid survivors cheesy
15 bottles ontop your head, when you go night club. damn grin

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by JhyMedex: 1:16pm On Jun 13
IamD18:
And now that's an achievement and a guarantee that your so-called work will make you a millionaire , isn't it?

You sure deserves a high-five with a plastic chair on your face for thinking it's an achievement to dump a lady after wasting her time for two months.


If your work and jobs were your priorities, why start a relationship with her in the first place?
This dude is becoming more illogical as days go by.. undecided..

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by Lonestar124: 1:22pm On Jun 13
daviesblaze:

15 bottles ontop your head, when you go night club. damn grin
Just pray she don't remember one of her female friends with HIV grin

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by JhyMedex: 1:37pm On Jun 13
Reminds me of an episode dt occured like last month..
she accused me of cheatin..i cldnt blame her tho..
shes complained countless times abt d attention i get frm oda gals..

kept ranting abt betrayal n all..Babe said she want to brk up..
i jst responded with ..Aight..
she kept actin like she was cool wit it..she was using smiling emojis sef..grin..

fast forward 2 days leta..babe was throwing tantrums..sayin am amnoying..i make her mad..grin..

sayin even if she said she wanted to brk up ..i wont even try to talk her out of it...i jst told her to do wat she felt like..

.No b u want brk up?!!grin... She came bak of her own accord....Nw d tables av turned..she played her card n i didnt flinch..
nw she almost worships me..

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by SexyDenzel: 2:42pm On Jun 13
RadicallyBlunt:
Op my colleague, u did well biko. When a woman likes you, u gotta fucck her very well cus things can turn upside down later.

My greatest regret in ever dating a girl was when she told me that she and Jesus had agreement dat she will no have sex till marriage. Mumu-me sef dey happy say I don see wife, I concurred. As things went on she couldn't bear the emotions, she was all over me. I had to be d one to stay strong and not have sex with her, she then suddenly woke up one day and said I made her look cheap and she broke up.

I swear I felt like cutting off her head. Since dat time I don vow whether she's a wife material or not, I will never waste any precious opportunity again in my life. All pusssies are to be slammed.
Keep slamming my bro, keep slamming :-). Yes women don't know how to handle rejection, if only I haven't deleted the WhatsApp messages from one girl that I was dating last year and had to give her the red card when she started squeezing me for marriage, Biiitch we just got to know each other a month ago and you're talking marriage?! are you crazy? this girl went to the kitchen and grabbed my kitchen knife that she will stab herself I just went and took my phone and started recording her and cleared my self in the video saying I'm innocent she's talking about marriage and I'm interested and she went to my kitchen and as you can see in this video she's threatening to kill herself with my kitchen knife right now I'm scared to approach her because she's suicidal. I walked to my sitting room. No be person tell her make she drop the knife, follow me come for sitting room de ask me so I don't like her I was just using her. Girl we were fxxking you brought your pusi and I brought my dk to the deal so what's with the who's using who? bro the drama long I just cut it short. These girl finally left and after two hours or do messages started blaring up my phone with all different kinds of words which I found very entertaining and funny, she was really funny. Meanwhile this was a girl my brother's gf was telling me to marry that she sees how she treats me and how she's all over me and I told her relax make we de observe. she couldn't believe the scene when I told her what her precious Prisca did so I called the girl and the rants continued it was only then she believed me hahahahaha. Up till date when I want to have fun I'll just call her and put it on loud speaker while my friends and I laugh our azzes off but I warn them not to laugh to her hearing.
Women don't know how to handle rejection and that's a FACT.
That's why they can never ask you for something directly, for example if a girl wants you to take her to some place she will first ask ;
Are you going somewhere or will you be busy by so time/day? before the hit you with the real question they want.
which is I want you to extort me or take or whatever to so so place. She wants to ensure you won't reject her offer that's why she asked the first question.

If women can handle rejection they will be asking questions straight up instead follow up questions or request before their original question.

If they didn't ask what will you be doing by then they stand the reisk of getting a NO (rejection) and they can't handle it.

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by Preshy561(f): 2:48pm On Jun 13
You are sure under 20. what an immature post from an unserious fellow.undecided

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by SexyDenzel: 2:48pm On Jun 13
daviesblaze:


My Problem, not you business.

your Bullcrap, your problem

you guys need to realize that a woman is not worth wasting your time on. if you start observing some shenanigans, cut the crap right away
The thing is that men should learn never to argue with women unless its for fun or to rile them up and make then entertain you with their drama because at the end of the day brothers once you got money you can make her to do what you want the only difference is how much are you putting on the table, how much is your worth once they realize this they shut up and act like a tamed .......... That's a fact, tested and comfirmed, money rules their world and with money you can control them.

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by SexyDenzel: 2:51pm On Jun 13
daviesblaze:

Lol, well said bro.

time spent with a woman is NOT an investment. There is no return to be had, no future payout. The relationship WILL end, sooner or later, have your life in order so that it doesn't matter.

She's not yours, it's just your turn, and she'll let you know when your turn is over: "I'm not in the mood" / "I'm not your LovePeddler" / "I don't like oral anymore".
Time spent with a woman is not an investment, wow that's deep. I'd say time spent with most females is not an investment.

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by IamPlato(m): 2:54pm On Jun 13
daviesblaze:

well you've just confirmed it.

Women actually cannot handle rejection. Grow Up!! grin grin
...


You Can Not Draw Conclusion About Women Like This unless You Have Dated At Least 10million Nigerian Girls...



Listen Bro, Its Not That You Are Too Busy...


Its Either You Afraid Of How You Might Handle The Relationship Wrongly or You Dont Really Love Her or You Are Afraid Of How To Be Responsible For Her...


Dont Give Me The Busy Excuse!

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by IamPlato(m): 2:58pm On Jun 13
Lalas247:

who is smiling with u ..... u no dey fear sha... so u didn't read not to quote me undecided
...

Lol...

Slaymama on Fire grin

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by Uglymugg: 2:58pm On Jun 13
Lalas247:
so this is FACTS undecided

so because u dated one girl it has become a fact?

so what exactly are you feeling like ? because one girl didn't take ur break up well .... all women in the world can't handle rejection. from your story she took it very well .. extremely well she told you the truth and gave u the deuces sign .. so you think you're winning abi...

mtcheew
pls don't quote me o.. save those calories

When you finally realise that OP turning down a girl made this girl angry too. That's that chain-reaction.

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