Saff:
Well having sex with someone can be very intimate. Some girls are shy, or do not want to be exposed to that kind of vulnerability, or some just want to be a challenge/ not come across too easy. Even though they want to have sex if that makes sense. I’m not justifying rape as that’s wrong. But a lot of ladies are guilty of this ‘Stop’ simply for shakara. So that’s why I don’t blame guys 100%. But if you can clearly see that she’s resisting and not in any way tolerating any kind of intimacy, then let it go. Actions will always speak louder than words, that’s my opinion.

' am a lady i dont want u to see me as cheap and easy'' ogun punish her sha. Babe's panties don wet yet was sayin stop. Smh

IamAirforce1:

The bolded got me ..

it isn't funny naw.

Ibkayee my favorite girl is here , let's hear your point of view

Preshy561:

I don't understand.really,extrapolate.

listen, the truth is that a lot of ladies are guilty of pretending. And we say things that have other meanings. In some cases, a woman may say Stop, without meaning it. In some cases a woman may say stop, and genuinely want you to stop. I believe listening to her words with the combination of her facial expressions and body language will tell you what to do. That’s all.

Saff:
Well having sex with someone can be very intimate. Some girls are shy, or do not want to be exposed to that kind of vulnerability, or some just want to be a challenge/ not come across too easy. Even though they want to have sex if that makes sense. I’m not justifying rape as that’s wrong. But a lot of ladies are guilty of this ‘Stop’ simply for shakara. So that’s why I don’t blame guys 100%. But if you can clearly see that she’s resisting and not in any way tolerating any kind of intimacy, then let it go. Actions will always speak louder than words, that’s my opinion.

yes I see your point ... it's wrong though
even the screenshot showing two ladies saying the same thing.....
just think guys shouldn't risk it ... when things don't work out some will now shout rape.... a lot of naija guys here fall victim

Preshy561:
I knew rapists will come for my head for not supporting this balderdash. who cares btw,I have made my comments.

who is/are "the rapist(s) that came for your head"



who be this one?

Preshy561:
I knew rapists will come for my head for not supporting this balderdash. who cares btw,I have made my comments.

who is/are "the rapist(s) that came for your head"



who be this one?

DonPiiko:
When I have enough money to carry 2 olosho per night.

lool,stop visiting that beer parlour joint.

Saff:
listen, the truth is that a lot of ladies are guilty of pretending. And we say things that have other meanings. In some cases, a woman may say Stop, without meaning it. In some cases a woman may say stop, and genuinely want you to stop. I believe listening to her words with the combination of her facial expressions and body language will tell you what to do. That’s all.

lool,seriously??how do you know someone that's serious by facial looks and voice?

terrible.

Will you give me free if I don't carry olosho??

Preshy561:

lool,stop visiting that beer parlour joint.

I'm actually curious to see what other members reaction would be ....
mynd44 lalasticlala is this FP worthy??

Preshy561:

lool,seriously??how do you know someone that's serious by facial looks and voice?

terrible.

stop being silly please.

We blur the line between consensual sex and rape when we ‘teach’ guys things like this

Saff:
stop being silly please.

hmmmmm.

Lalas247:
I'm actually curious to see what other members reaction would be ....
my4 laclala is this FP worthy??

stop tagging them. Not FP worthy

Lalas247:

yes I see your point ... it's wrong though
even the screenshot showing two ladies saying the same thing.....
just think guys shouldn't risk it ... when things don't work out some will now shout rape.... a lot of naija guys here fall victim

yeah to avoid it totally just talk about it beforehand. And still ask right before you do anything. And ladies should stop doing shakara, your no should always be a no.

Even as a lady, I can say some stop means 'Go on'!
Some ladies are so confused!

ibkayee:
We blur the line between consensual sex and rape when we ‘teach’ guys things like this

Sometimes I pity Men, we confuse them a lot with our use of ironies. Guys aren't fashioned to understand ambiguity.

MariaLavina:
Even as a lady, I can say some stop means 'Go on'!

Some ladies are so confused!

Exactly! Lets just be real here. Jeez.

Saff:
yeah to avoid it totally just talk about it beforehand. And still ask right before you do anything. And ladies should stop doing shakara, your no should always be a no.

yes maybe this can enlighten some ladies too.....

Stop what exactly?? Are you a traffic warden

yeyerolling:
After i sucked her bress and fingered her . she told me to stop. Being a good boy i did. Only for her to insult me dat am not man enough and blocked me. Gals ehn

Don't stop..
I'll be glad to take up the case without collecting money from the lady.

Nothing makes me more happy than seeing men go to jail..
Sending men to jail makes me fulfilled.

yeyerolling:
u see ur life Did i tag dem U tagged them instead. U must be really smart in ur mind. It has happened to me twice. I go blocked and insulted. If not for fear of rape claims i wud have inserted prick. Gals should learn to be straight

You can't be accused of rape without concrete evidence from the accuser and if after critical investigation the accuser is found to be lying, a jail term and a fine may be served as a punishment.

Section 34(6) Criminal Code cap 2
Laws of southern Nigeria .

Saff:
Exactly! Lets just be real here. Jeez.

We can't save the world

Guys should be more careful.

ibkayee:
We blur the line between consensual sex and rape when we ‘teach’ guys things like this

nah..........................y'all didn't "teach" us,


"experience" did .



these are things we witness and hear everyday during sex with y'all confused women



[fr] [om] [j]

Every Nigerian lady that is no longer a virgin has said "stop" when she really wanted you to continue.

Elder001:



Don't stop..
I'll be glad to take up the case without collecting money from the lady.

Nothing makes me more happy than seeing men go to jail..
Sending men to jail makes me fulfilled.

what are u feeling like. How many pple hv u convicted ode

if she's saying stop MEANS start start enter

Dis cn only inspire all d weed smoking efulefu in d house. Don't u know dat this post of urs could lead 2 rape,wat were u tinkn, I just pray sumone close 2 u bcums a victim, since u lyk postn rubbish.

IamD18:
These ladies are packaged hoes.


They can never tell you to stop once you start removing their 70Naira canopy material pant.

WTF!!!.... LOL

Taking it to dis level is not rape na

Lalas247:
Tunde!
omo alè rapist

not sure what op is asking us the answer is STOP

even if the tip touches it if she says stop you stop ......

Yes! It's very hard but that is called respect. When some ladies say stop, they really mean STOP. If you force it, she will respond but may trigger tears. But why would a lady say stop at that junction?? Fear or punishing the guy?