kayus89:

I use an Iphone 5 and I use the internet too much. I am trying to get off off social media and trying to get off the internet except for essential use.

austyn0:
Oga,,there is every possibility that the ubunja I know does not masturbate buh is just using this as a medium to play smart as always...

The reason I want you to halt with the incessant proposition is because people that also wants out or are dearth of its negative effects are watching,, not just the op.....I'm not into science and not ready to google things up,, buh hard massage of the prick de damage am....Join save marriages...

ElsonMorali:


With the kind of mindset that you (and those encouraging you here) have right now, whenever you look at a woman all you see are a pair of boobs and ass.


You'll never have a meaningful relationship this way.


You have the power to change your life positively and be someone younger people look up to and admire.

kayus89:

I have tried to have meaningful monogamous relationships,but they never lasted. Girls have destroyed my self-esteem along the way. And the girls I have courted recently have not shown any reciprocal interest in going out with come. Come up with lame excuses like: They are busy wit work or projects when I ask them out.
I have become disillusioned and somewhat bitter and more cautious with approaching girls.

kayus89:

It is true-you damage the nerves when you jerk off frequently. It takes months for it to heal. The nerve damage is what leads to erectile dysfuntion when you are with a real girl.

kayus89:

Erectile dysfunction- your brain becomes rewired to be aroused by megapixels. So, that when you meet a girl in real life you won't be able to get aroused. And it leads to low sperm count.

MISEDUCATIONS:

just look at you getting confused coz you preaching BS

ElsonMorali:

A man that can be easily manipulated with sex isn't a man at all.

kayus89:

Not confused- both assumptions are correct are correct. You are the most adamant porn and masturbation advocate I know.

MISEDUCATIONS:
im just pushing facts that you're dodging.
i told you masturbation keeps me safe from Aids and Golddiggers and you went mute.
i told your fellow supporter that masturbation and Hándjòbs aint different and he went mute.
you guys just go mute when someone gives you a point you cant contest.

kayus89:

What about erectile dysfunction and the depressing feeling you get after jerking off to megapixels. How can you be reduced to using a laptop or phone to arouse yourself and still call yourself a man.

MISEDUCATIONS:
i told you:
if porn caused Erectile Dysfunction then porn will run out of customers since all watchers will then fail to have erections to masturbate with
if porn caused erectile dysfunction then porn wouldnt be mentioned as a cause for rape.
i told you and you ignored.

kayus89:

You will have an erection to masturbate with,but try and sleep with a girl.You will struggle to keep it up. It won't be as rock hard,due to your frequent masturbation.

MISEDUCATIONS:
but the second point used to discourage porn is that porn makes men rape. how can that be if porn makes erections not happen with real girls??

kayus89:

If only you know the battle we face-It is easier said than done. See how many male porn and masturbation advocates have responded on this thread. The only people speaking against porn are females. Majority of men are hooked on it if you didn't know and are addicted to women.

ABUFARMSHOLDING:


Young man, so you're proud to be a "Wankster"!!! You're possessed and the problem is you don't even know it. If your father had wasted his sperm like you're doing I wonder if you would have been born. Keep wasting your life until you get an award for masturbation. self-service on... 2morrow if u no fit born now you go dey blame ur village witches... Wanking kill u there!!!

ABUFARMSHOLDING:


Keep wasting your life until you get an award for masturbation. self-service on... 2morrow if u no fit born now you go dey blame ur village witches... Wanking kill u there!!!

ElsonMorali:


You only need to ask yourself something, how do you feel after the act of masturbation? Ashamed?

Do you feel proud of your masturbation status?

If you registered this Nairaland account with your real name and real profile picture would you still be able to open this same tread?

This is not about what other guys do. You don't know them, they don't know you. You are answerable to yourself bro. Do you feel good about yourself after masturbating?



Of course you don't. Otherwise you won't open this tread and I won't bother responding like I am. I know you want to stop it. And I'm here to tell you that you can.


Have moments of introspection. Don't follow the crowd. Like I said your destiny is different from theirs.


If you are serious about stopping this, your first move is to identify all avenues or flash points that get you tempted.


Block these avenues. No measure is too drastic.


There are spiritual/ psychic reverberations to our actions especially sexual acts.


Maybe you don't know but every time you have an orgasm you lose psychic/spiritual energy.


There are elemental beings that feed off the energy that you release whenever you ejaculate.


These beings always have attached to them ill luck which gets transferred to you in an exchange of energy.


You feel drained of spiritual energy while you acquire ill luck and bad vibes.


Then you complain of bad luck. It isn't coincidental.


If you are determined enough you can stop it. But if you are not you will always find an excuse.


Eventually you'll have only yourself to blame in future.


A bad habit is like a comfortable bed. Very easy to get into and very very difficult to get out of it.


The trick is to take each day. Win the battle one day at a time.


Of course you will fall once a while but the one thing you never do is GIVE UP. NEVER EVER!!!


Get a spiritual director and talk about it. Taking about it helps you a lot. That wound will only heal when you open it up to fresh air. If you keep covering it it will begin to fester and bring out maggots.


To know whether you are serious, take the first step, ditch your phones and all internet connection.


If you are able to do that then you are serious and your tendency for self destruction is not infinite after all.

kayus89:

I know my flashpoints and will try and avoid it. Like you said have to take it a day at a time. Today will be day two. Also, I need to avoid thread with provocative titles on nairaland such as:cleavage,nude etc. So many perverse people on nairaland as well with rubbish threads.

MISEDUCATIONS:
if hard massage of the dick damages it then sex with virgins and anal sex would be discouraged. both are tight as hell.
EDIT:
and how is masturbation any different from a Hándjòb??

austyn0:
You know me unto sey I know you abi?? Ah no fit argue this kind matter with you.

kayus89:

he is a lost cause

kayus89:
How were you able to overcome your sex and porn addiction? I have been battling this for the last couple of years.

Diamond294:
Just stumbled on this thread and I felt to comment. Not trying to sound righteous in all I'm going to say. Firstly, are you a true christian? If you're born again, you shouldn't yield to the tempting of the flesh but the things of the spirit Galatians 5:17. So, you have to truly give yourself to Christ. Secondly, ask for God's assistance, I have been there in the past and I kept deceiving myself thinking I can't do without sex cos I had high drive not until I finally decided to give every of my bad habits up and accept Christ. The urge keeps coming but I control it by reading my bible or asking myself some challenging questions like ' After this few minutes pleasure, what next' feeling guilty ,yeah? Don't I think I'd enjoy this better with my husband when they'd be no feeling of guilt? What if I die in d process, is this pleasure worth my soul? etc.Lastly, don't give audience to the pessimists who'd tell you how difficult it is to overcome sexual sins, there are people who don't involve themselves in sexual immoralities yet they haven't died, they don't have two heads, they are humans like you and I so if they can abstain, I can till I'm married. Discipline, prayers and after effect analyses are key. Shalom.

MrCork:



..huh?....u stop watching porn simply becuzz u a born again? ..... WHY?

Diamond294:
Because it's the best thing to do.

kayus89:
How were you able to overcome your sex and porn addiction? I have been battling this for the last couple of years.