wirinet:


Yes it takes 2 to parent, BUT, each parent is saddled with different responsibilities. A father's main responsibility is to provide physical, material and emotional protection to the family, while a mother is meant to provide care and organization to the family. That is why children less than 5 is almost always put in custody of the mother in situations of separation. There is no way you can put the care of a 1 year old child in the custody of the Father.

I have children and I would not take kindly to my wife leaving my 1 year old child unattended even for 5 minutes.

wirinet:


So you think because dbanj does not go to the office everyday, he is not busy working everyday? OK, if you expect dbanj to bring in the bread and also look after the children, what will the wife be doing? I suspect dbanj pays for cook, house cleaner and gardener, so what should be the responsibility of the wife/mother in the family?

wirinet:


So you think because dbanj does not go to the office everyday, he is not busy working everyday? OK, if you expect dbanj to bring in the bread and also look after the children, what will the wife be doing? I suspect dbanj pays for cook, house cleaner and gardener, so what should be the responsibility of the wife/mother in the family?

wirinet:


Yes it takes 2 to parent, BUT, each parent is saddled with different responsibilities. A father's main responsibility is to provide physical, material and emotional protection to the family, while a mother is meant to provide care and organization to the family. That is why children less than 5 is almost always put in custody of the mother in situations of separation. There is no way you can put the care of a 1 year old child in the custody of the Father.

I have children and I would not take kindly to my wife leaving my 1 year old child unattended even for 5 minutes.

wirinet:


Yes it takes 2 to parent, BUT, each parent is saddled with different responsibilities. A father's main responsibility is to provide physical, material and emotional protection to the family, while a mother is meant to provide care and organization to the family. That is why children less than 5 is almost always put in custody of the mother in situations of separation. There is no way you can put the care of a 1 year old child in the custody of the Father.

I have children and I would not take kindly to my wife leaving my 1 year old child unattended even for 5 minutes.

mimimile93:


who should we blamed?
Is it the kid who knows not his left from right? Is it the useless father who couldn't put a protector to the pool?


Honestly Nigerian women are the most useless and senseless animals on the surface of the earth..

MarieSucre:


Same as your mum.

wirinet:


I will not stoop to your level and start trading insults with you. When you are matured enough to start having kids, then you can come to social media and start spewing insults.

I have 3 kids and I understand what raising children and a family entails.

Proudgorgeousga:


there are people you shouldn't seriously reply that ìdiot is one of them unless you just feel like trolling

Proudgorgeousga:


bla bla bla wife is human too and not perfect. she gets sick, she gets tired, she goes to work, she does chores and she takes care of herself too and your judgmental ass. This can happen to anybody. kids drown, drink kerosene, eat paracetamol shìt happens

wirinet:


The greatest problem lots of Nigerians have is inability to take responsibility for their failures. It annoys me when people makes all kinds of excuses and justifications for obvious failures.

We are talking about a 1 year kid for God's sake. Most igbo women still breastfeed their children beyond 1 year. It is the height of carelessness or should I say negligence to leave a 1 year old child so long that it will walk and fall into a swimming pool and the mother ( or the father if he was around) did not notice.

Now raising kids is not a tea party. It is a very challenging exercise and I think lots of people (especially the ones making excuses for negligence)do not deserve to raise kids.
I do not claim to be perfect but I(and my wife) have not slept a wink from last night because of my 4 year old girl. My daughter was vomiting all night because of the expired cheese ball my mother in law bought the children. Before my wife could check the expiry date, she had already consumed half the cheese ball. Luckily the other two children had not eaten it yet, so we threw the rest in the dust bin. As I was saying, she vomited all night, so we had to stay awake to monitor her. First thing this morning I prepared ORT and called a doctor friend. He suggested that we should watch her and take her to the hospital if it gets worse. Luckily she stopped vomiting and stooling. I did not leave for my office until 10. Up till now I have not slept.

As I have said I have raised three children, and only my very first child fell off the bed when he was 6 months because we left him unattended.

labake1:
Mechonu

BdorianGray:


Ogini?

" Labake1 on his mind now" long time..
It seems the Gods have answered my prayers oh!! But, the only P is...

labake1:




oh you that usually look for our trouble enemyofprogress. See this guy is back again.
Abeg which prayer did God answered, hope it is not what I am thinking?

BdorianGray:


I dont know wat u thinking. You are happy to see your monitoring spirit back abi... Well, this time, am here to snatch you from your man, that's my mission. ...