My 30 something year old elder cousin has two kids from two different men due to circumstances beyond her control. she's loving, caring , supportive and a good homemaker. we all pray she finds a good man deserving of her n not another jerk out to enrich himself through her. she's not bothered about her circumstance as she's dedicated to her career. she keeps insisting that men are a big headache she would rather do without. she says no single man would want to marry her and if per chance she finds one, his family will definitely make life unbearable for her and being a second wife is not an option besides she has two lovely boys, a good job, loving family. what more could she want from life. i would really like to see her settle down. pls advice

@topic: Y not?

I am sure she could find a decent man who'd accept her situation, but she has to want it too! It's very nice of you to like to see her settle down, but it'll never happen unless she starts doing something in this regard!

Truly, that would be difficult anywhere. Some single parent women do get a good man. She should hope for the best but not hold her breathe waiting for Mr. Right. It is a difficult situation to be in.

yeap, I can marry a single mother depends on the reason(s) behind it. If truely she is caring and submissive, why not.

I think its very much possible especially if the man is a nice, goodhearted human being.