You were the side chick

UNIZIK1stSon:
Beautiful Nigerian Lady, Queeneth Dominic has taken to Facebook to share a heartbreaking story of how her Boyfriend got married while they were still in Love.

According to her, the worst part of the experience is that the Boyfriend never informed her until she saw the photos on social media.

Read what she posted as well as how she reacted below:
Boyfriend Got Married While We Were Dating - Lady
He got married earlier last year .

We were still dating when he got married . I wasn’t aware .
Two days before I saw his wedding pictures online, he was confessing his love for me and how he loves me with the last breath of his life.
He went as far as insisting we see and as God will have it I wasn’t chanced .

Two days later, I saw his wedding pictures . He shamelessly came online few days later with the “I found love in her “ caption on his uploads.
I reacted on it .
I congratulated him .
I even told him how beautiful his wife is and you all needed to see how she rushed and reacted on my comment.

One week after his uploads, I woke up one early morning with a “hello baby” message .
It took me two days to reply and when I finally replied, he started telling me how he is regretting marrying her and it would have being me .



I laughed .
I felt infuriated.
But I controlled myself still and didn’t say a word.

Two days later, he told me he wants us to see.

‘What for ‘.......I asked
‘I miss you Queen’......he replied .
‘No need for that ‘....I replied in a very calm way .

He still chats me up but I have never replied again .
The feeling I once had for him died the first day I saw that wedding picture .

I didn’t post it online to attract self pity or to feed hungry bloggers .
I kept it to myself.
I endured it like a big girl.
It wasn’t easy but I did .

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Growing up, I heard stories of how guys were killed on their wedding days, child naming ceremony, when taking their kids to school or on their way to work .
Don’t play the kind of smart that will lead you to your early grave.
I was able to control myself when I saw the pictures because the signs were there from the onset .
He has always been a cheat.

Let’s talk about a girl that wasted her youth on you.
Let’s talk about that innocent girl that has done several abortions for you.
Let’s talk about that girl that has discarded everybody in her life for you .

The least you owe her is telling her on time that she doesn’t belong in your future .
The least you owe her is telling her of your “real “ love life .
It will hurt but she will definitely get over it .

Not all girls can endure heartbreak.

For the sake of your life and that of your family, save yourself some unnecessary dramas .

Don’t do to another that which you can’t endure.


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It's a fvcked up world we living in.

Everybody tryna play everybody else.

Deal with yo sh!t I've dealt with mine.

My girlfriend got pregnant to a dude nextdoor while we still dating..

I moved on. Do same.

Let yo best teacher be yo last mistake..

Angy55:
Madam, I've been there before.

Calm down, you will survive it. Though it's going to be difficult the first few months, you will definitely get over it.

hope you are married now if not I am available

IamAirforce1:
Maybe you're just a beauty with no brain

Is that an excuse? Why not break up with her and marry the beauty with brains, instead of cheating, playing her for a fool?

Just thinking ooo

How could you not have known that your friend was planning something as important to him as marriage?

I mean, he has you as a friend and other friends who should be your friend


What sort of connection do we manage these days.



relationship ehn. perhaps you were playing him too and weren't really paying attention


enough of my ranting jare

Beats me!

lamideee:
Well am not surprised because it once happened to me and the yeye guy wants to come back. Mtchewww

Don't give him a chance Men are scum

The same way one useless Igbo ipob guy used me for seven years, ate my monies, food and married another girl at my back while still dating me.

He used my money to pay bride price and wed.

Igbo guys are criminals and will never go unpunished.

He enjoyed everything in me and left nothing for others to enjoy.

Thunder will scatter him.

See LADIES weh dey view this thread.
LADIES too like heartbreak eeehhh

Oma307:

hope you are married now if not I am available

Smiles

lamideee:
Well am not surprised because it once happened to me and the yeye guy wants to come back. Mtchewww

Some men are heartless u knw.

lamideee:
Well am not surprised because it once happened to me and the yeye guy wants to come back. Mtchewww

You for let him comeback n arrange street boys to deal wit him mercilessly. If any man try dat wit my sis, Oyo is his name.

Babyforever:
Don't give him a chance Men are scum

Iamideee

Pay no mind to this advice.

If your heart still beats for him shoot your shot.
Remember y'all women have expiring date..

Olalan:
The guy is simply wicked just like all cheaters are.
BTW it's sometimes surprising how the beautiful classy girls are left for the not too Behind and posh girls for marriage. Just maybe girls need to realise guys consider so many things beyond beauty and physique when deciding who to marry

I have a friend who was dating a very cute, sexy lady from a wealthy family. He loved the girl truly. We his male friends know that he truly loved the girl and wanted to marry her but he left her to marry another lady that is not that classy or from a rich home, and guess what the problem was

This girl too form posh! She forms classy to a fault! Its good to be classy but pls sisters don't overdo it, it scare guys away. Unless u want to marry showbiz guys who are into music, football and entertainment, if not, tone down that your excessive classy forming.

Be real as a lady. Guys love real women. You visit him u see 10001 faults! You complain of the kitchen not being tidy, the bedroom not being organised, the sitting room not being like this and that.

Remember he is a guy, a single guy for that. Guys must be guys no matter how rich or upscale they are in the society. You are their woman not only for sex but to help organise his disorganised life without judging him with it or making him look stupid about it.

Guys count all these moves.

You are selfish; everything is about u, u, u and nothing about him.

Guys want rest. Any lady that makes a guy feel at home and at peace will definitely be his wife. Make your man feel at peace with u. Make him forget his sorrows whenever he is with u and he will want to stay with u forever.

Stop seeing errors and faults here and there. Learn to manage and persevere with him without complain or without doing it grudgingly.

If he is living in a one room apartment, accept it and pray for him to get enough capital to upgrade or u think he is happy living in that one room apartment You think its only ladies that love to live in duplex and drive Range Rover

Guys love good life more than ladies just that guys are patient about it as they work and pray to have the good life while ladies fantasize and target how to jump into the already built good life.

Many guys are in a relationship but looking for a way out because they are tired of their girlfriend. She doesn't give them joy. They see no future with her but u know guys are very considerate, so they pity their girlfriends. Out of pity of how she would feel, most guy find it hard to tell their girlfriend that they want to quit, so they most times foolishly think they can stylishly end it by marrying another Lady who would help them douse the pressure and fight their girlfriend if she dares to pick a fight.

Look good, be happy, find a way to be earning some money on your own, dress well and give your boyfriend joy and make him feel at home with u and he will definitely wife u once he makes up his mind to settle down.

So make your man feel at peace with u and he won't leave u to marry another.

Lastly, try and look good...take care of your physical look....99% of men hate big tummy on a lady, pls try and work on reducing your tummy fat. Flat tummy is the starting point of beauty for a lady.

rock003:
Before you condemn that man, kindly read the lady's profile below

Unapologetic Feminist

No wonder the guy ran

rock003:
Before you condemn that man, kindly read the lady's profile below

I swear I no blame the guy...imagine her profilr

milemimi93:

Iamideee
Pay no mind to this advice.
If your heart still beats for him shoot your shot. Remember y'all women have expiring date..

Shut up

ikhileomotayo:


Unapologetic Feminist

No wonder the guy ran

No MAN would want 2 settle for a JET FIGHTER (FEMINIST).
she should take her WAR to the SAMBISA for marriage is not a warfare

Angy55:

Smiles

lol, I need serious response

milemimi93:


It's a fvcked up world we living in.

Everybody tryna play everybody else.

Deal with yo sh!t I've dealt with mine.

My girlfriend got pregnant to a dude nextdoor while we still dating..

I moved on. Do same.

Let yo best teacher be yo last mistake..

Just imagine. bleeped up I tell you. That's why I don't trust. IF not for kids relationship is bullshit tho.. That's why I say its both male n female that mess up.. No loyalty loyalty is rare.

"Two days later, he told me he wants us to see.

‘What for ‘.......I asked"

... you and I know what for...

I need a sex doll

Antipob777:
The same way one useless Igbo ipob guy used me for seven years, ate my monies, food and married another girl at my back while still dating me.

He used my money to pay bride price and wed.

Igbo guys are criminals and will never go unpunished.

He enjoyed everything in me and left nothing for others to enjoy.

Thunder will scatter him.

What exactly did he enjoy

rock003:
Before you condemn that man, kindly read the lady's profile below

Speaks volume...

Almost all men want a woman they won't be scared to go home to...

The honest and bitter truth..

Antipob777:
The same way one useless Igbo ipob guy used me for seven years, ate my monies, food and married another girl at my back while still dating me.

He used my money to pay bride price and wed.

Igbo guys are criminals and will never go unpunished.

He enjoyed everything in me and left nothing for others to enjoy.

Thunder will scatter him.

If you ain't an Igbo girl never go into a serious relationship with an Igbo guy.

The possibility of him marrying you is slim.

Those mofos was end up with their sisters after using girls from another tribes.

You rarely see an Igbo man married from another tribe.

You'll survive it.
Can be very painful but get over it.
Focus on becoming a better you and things will fall in place.

All the best

Oma307:

lol, I need serious response

I'm not married. Hope you're cool with my answer now?

Things you think you do for love only comes back to haunt you like a bad dream, believing that by having several abortion for a guy is enough for him to love you is the same as when you get over the broken relationship easily or not having prevented many poor unborn souls from coming to earth...you think he won't start thinking you are heartless??

rock003:
Before you condemn that man, kindly read the lady's profile below

imagine her profile...they think they are wise. unapologetic feminist far from your blah blah and he wants the guy to marry her. They think men are stupid, u go get jonzing character n ur way nor pure n u expect someone to keep you.

Olalan:
The guy is simply wicked just like all cheaters are.
BTW it's sometimes surprising how the beautiful classy girls are left for the not too Behind and posh girls for marriage. Just maybe girls need to realise guys consider so many things beyond beauty and physique when deciding who to marry

not true most men prefer a woman they can control

Antipob777:
The same way one useless Igbo ipob guy used me for seven years, ate my monies, food and married another girl at my back while still dating me.

He used my money to pay bride price and wed.

Igbo guys are criminals and will never go unpunished.

He enjoyed everything in me and left nothing for others to enjoy.


Thunder will scatter him.

7 years is much babe. I hope karma visits him soon.

When you give your all to a man who hasn't paid your bride price.
When you cheapen yourself before a man who hasn't put a ring on your finger.
When you abort recklessly and risk your life for a man who doesnt even know your parents.
When you make yourself Ms. available to a man who careless about your life and doesn't appreciate you rather insults you and put you down.

When you do all these things i wonder what more the man will need im you or from you. You have only told him you are not eorth been called a wife talkless of being the mother of his children .

Antipob777:
The same way one useless Igbo ipob guy used me for seven years, ate my monies, food and married another girl at my back while still dating me.

He used my money to pay bride price and wed.

Igbo guys are criminals and will never go unpunished.

He enjoyed everything in me and left nothing for others to enjoy.

Thunder will scatter him.

hahahaha....oboy eeee laugh wan kill me...wetin remain for boys

Beface:
The guy has being using her all those period, having resolved in he's mind he was not going to marry her. The funny part of it all is, after getting married he still want to continue sexing her (it means this lady have being giving him mind glowing sex). If you ask me I think the relationship is focus on sex. That is while it is good for ladies to always ask guys what they really want from the relationship, don't assumed it will end up in marriage.

plot
what if the other Lady was richer and the guy was just a gold digger ? No matter how homely this girl is the man will always choose what he wants Gold