OLUWOLEYINKA:
Who gathered the info and who confirmed she was raped?...bad publicity

openmine:

These baseless and thoughtless comments always happen when your likes don't read to understand but to react....

Night journeys in nigeria are very dangerous and I will never advise my enemies to travel in the night!

And your worthless prayers won't work simply because you said so.....please advise your family members to travel in the night since that's the best advise that you can offer....smh


No its obvious that your likes are the ones who need loads of sense to peruse comments before attacking....what a shame!

openmine:
9pm in the night?
Na wa ohhh

As much as I want to say RIP to her and sympathize with the family,there is no way she won't be blamed for her untimely demise!
In fact she caused her death...she was at the wrong path at the wrong time!

What was so important for her to do at home or school that made her travel at that odd hour to IMO state?

Just as I believe that God is protecting and ordering our steps every now and then,I still believe that we also have a role to play.....

Common sense should have fallen on her that this night travel that she was always embarking on is risky and should be curbed or stopped outrightly!

To whom life is freely given to,common sense is expected!

Night travel or movement esp in Nigeria is not advisable no matter how secured or fortified your abode is....

This should serve as a lesson to the living esp those who like to embark on night journeys!

Advise no be curse!

My condolences to the parents!

gypsey:


i am very sure i have not offended you in Anyway.

cococandy:


You’re obviously a deluded moroon to think that telling someone their friend deserved to die such a brutal death is not offensive. What’s your definition of offense? Stupid malu

gypsey:
thank you! keep the insults coming if it will help you sleep at night. online rage! arrrrrrgggg!!!

the Olosho is still dead.

dingbang:
Going back by 9pm in the night is not good at all especially for females....


May her soul rest in peace..



Meanwhile, are you a first bank customer? You can now block your ATM card in case it gets stolen through the first mobile app...click the link on my signature to know more..

cococandy:


A normal person realizes when they have made a grave misjudgment and takes a step back at the very least. Or apologizes.

Not you. You think this useless face saving tactics you’re employing makes you look better? It further makes you look demented. Like you can’t realize when the knot holding your brain together is loose and needs fixing. May God have mercy on you.

DKM123:


Isn't it ironic you say you comprehend better yet can't seem to comprehend that SHE TRAVELED FROM PORTHARCOURT TO IMO STATE but as it could have happened to ANYONE (including your utterly despicable self) she happened to arrive at night and was on her way to her HOUSE on bike when the evil bikeman lead her to her death?! In your rush to blame a dead girl you couldn't even digest the story.

DKM123:

i left the park at 7am for a 5hours journey before and arrived at my destination at 10pm. It has happened to so many others

DKM123:

For you to use that your filthy hands to do the blame game and call her senseless and all the rubbish you wrote there (even saying she ALWAYS travels at night and implying it is hard to type RIP because she CAUSED HER OWN death) shows what your heart really felt concerning a murdered young girl.

DKM123:

That said, it still what it is and I say it again, may the ground swallow you up the day you step your foot outside later than 9pm!

MarieSucre:


Uncle please shut up. There is no way you'll be travelling by road from Abuja or Niger to Lagos, Portharcourt, Delta, Bayelsa that you will not get there at night. So except you're interested in paying for plane ticket for every woman and man you better keep quiet.

MarieSucre:


Do you know whether she was traveling from somewhere and arrived there at night. How can you even justify such nonsense. So she should not rest in peace because some demons decided to use the cover of night to perpetrate evil.

openmine:



Aunty use you head for once in your life and stop acting as if Wats on your head is for fancy!
So are you travelling to a remote area by 9pm and expect not to be lynched by hoodlums?

The reason why people in Nigeria are dying daily is because we don't consider our lives paramount....maybe the economy of the country has affected the thinking of some people!

if you came late to abuja or lagos or portharcourt,take a personal cab to your destination..... if you can't see one,locate the nearest hotel and lay there till the next day!

Your security is paramount!

Why risk your life in the wee hours of the night just because of ur urge to get home that day!

If some thing bad happens to you,who will you blame? God? smh....may high speed sense fall on you!

cococandy:
So you’re safe?

That’s what you think.

Anyway keep blaming yourself for the actions of men. Until you realize that you can also be kidnapped during the day. Then it will dawn on you that this has nothing to do with your actions but with the entitlement of men who believe they have a right to the female body as they wish.

Now they are blaming the time of day she came back. The next victim they will blame her dressing, the next one they will blame the kind of work she does and the next they will blame her parents if she’s a minor.

They will blame anything but the actual men who are making sure that women don’t feel safe in this world. And you will enable them by agreeing with their useless victim blame. Like you’re wiser than those who have fallen victim.

openmine:


For the benefit of those reading,let me slowly explain to you since you have issues comprehending!

.....the distance from Rivers state to imo state is give or take 2hours.....if I want to get to IMO state,I have to time my movement to meet up with the time knowing fully well that you won't see a single soul by 9pm or better still take a personal cab!
The road leading to IMO state from rivers state is well known for kidnapping and armed robbery incidents hence common sense should tell any traveller plying that road to at least make it home by 7pm(Which is also risky)

Personal security is paramount!
You can't move at certain areas around 9pm and expect not to get harassed by hoodlums or kidnappers! Now,consider a young lady around 9pm moving in an area where security is porous.
It may also shock you to know that this may not be the first time she had travelled in the night!
I say so because I used to be a night traveller until an armed robbery incident occurred that made me change timing to !




Indeed common sense is not common!
You are also not considering the fact that you are a guy and the deceased is a lady!
....you are also not considering the environment.....was the place she was heading to around 9pm secured?
There was a day I got to a state by 12am.....I had to use a personal cab to get to my destination!
don't you know dat 9pm at some states are totally different from other states?
why am I wasting my time trying to make you comprehend when you are typing with your emotions rather than your brain....smh





Chai
Why are brains given to people who have zero imagination about how to use it
If you get to a remote area by 10pm and get harassed by armed bandits where most of your valuables are taken,would you go there by that time again?
Why are you not thinking?
Or do u expect the corrupt nigeria police to protect you when they also have issues of their own?
Security is a huge issue which mostly affects women!
The best any lady can is either go to the destination at any earlier time or take a personal cab!
That's what I used when I got to a remote area very late!




Another worthless piece of trash from an uncultured kid!

Its so surprising that in spite of ur childish outburst, you haven't been able to provide a single solution to the cause of rlthe lady's death!

All you and your likes on nairaland know is to fill up the first page with "eyah" or "RIP" or "it should never happen to my family"......as if that's the solution to the recurring problems bedeviling our society!

I repeat get the nearest transformer and do the needful if you filled pained about my comment!

Please buzz me when you have a superior solution to the security issues in Nigeria not all these stale RIP!
People are dying and you are sitting you butt typing RIP when what we need are solutions!
To whom brain is given,sense is expect!

MarieSucre:


What makes you think you cannot attacked by hoodlums who will break in as you sit in your house right now? Who says you cannot be attacked by hoodlums in broad daylight.

If I leave Niger state early in the morning by 5 and I arrive in Onitsha by 8pm. Are you saying that I should sleep in the park instead of going to my destination. Okay let's say I take your advice putting aside how uncomfortable it is to sleep in the park, who is to say that hoodlums cannot break into that park while I sleep at night and do the same thing? What of the park boys who sleep there? Who says they cannot conspire to do the same thing and dispose of the body before the shop opens in the morning?

Think uncle. There are evil people everywhere. Anything can go wrong any time. We just have to push for better security. One of my friend in Dubai say that they walk around at Night In Dubai, in fact it is touted as one if the safest cities for women. Those people don't have 2 heads.

magicminister:




I knew that somehow, people like you would try to blame the victim.
So, your mom, sister or any of the females in your family have NEVER come back late in the past

magicminister:

Would you also blame them if they were kidnapped, brutally gang raped and tortured till they faded away

magicminister:

We must not try to blame victims of circumstances that’s totally beyond them!!

magicminister:

Road travels on Nigerian road is often unpredictable and most times, you end up getting to your destination late at night and then find one Of the last Okadas that will take you straight home!!. We’ve all been there...

victorian:








My dear, this is not Dubai.. This is Nigeria. Where security, lives of humans are not regarded as anything. The earlier u realise it the better. In Nigeria, the security anyone wants to push for, will not even be listened to. No one cares in this country. Not a single soul cares, not even the government and if u are aware of such fact ? U will be conscious of your safety and time everywhere u go.

Remember no government in Nigeria will do anything about safety of Nigerians. Remember nobody.

openmine:


if I know that I am arriving late to a destination, the most sensible thing to do is either take a personal cab or if there is none,I look for the nearest hotel to stay till dawn!
The problem that you are your likes are not getting is that no armed robber or kidnappers cares whether you came late or not!

Their job is to kidnap and rob.....your job or responsibility is to be smarter than them!

Please when you get to my mention,also include your brain with it!
We don't need emotions right now,we need solutions!
Comprendo?

DKM123:



You are typing so MUCH epistle yet saying absolutely NOTHING. You are trying so hard to sound like you are intelligent but you COMPLETELY LACK EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE!


Every monkey knows that night harbours more evil compared to day. Knowing that DOESN'T MAKE YOU INTELLIGENT OR MORE SENSIBLE. So get off that stupid height you think you are floating. What would make you intelligent is understanding the CIRCUMSTANCE you make certain utterances and the EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE to know how to relay it.

If your daughter happened to find herself coming late from work or traveled and then is killed in this manner and some nitwit comes writing the bull crap you wrote, how would you feel. Even the killers reading that your comment will feel justified killing her with the way you wrote it

So you aren't even Mr Perfect. So You once did night trips which means by your own standard you are senseless and your brain is not in use, abi?

Have you ever met a crazy deadlock traffic jam before? You could be there for hours and your planned arrival time totally altered. Portharcourt has such traffic jams sometimes.

That isn't even the issue. Others have mentioned that 9pm is late BUT THE WAY YOU WROTE YOURS STINKS TO HIGH HEAVENS.


P.S. I am female.

MarieSucre:


LINKS OF WOMEN AND MEN BEING ASSAULTED IN CABS
http://punchng.com/pregnant-robbery-victim-gives-birth-dies-after-c-section/

https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/211127-robbers-pose-taxi-drivers-attack-abuja-residents.html

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2018/03/killed-uber-driver-car-ex-convict/

PEOPLE BEING ATTACKED IN HOTELS

http://www.informationng.com/2017/10/armed-robbers-attack-singer-hotel-room-eko-hotel.html

http://thenationonlineng.net/ritual-killing-girl-bayelsa-hotel-sparks-violence/

https://m.guardian.ng/news/calm-returns-after-youths-burn-hotel-over-womans-murder-in-edo/

https://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2012/06/14/hotel-staff-docked-for-rape/amp/

Ategberoson:



go and do your survey. no Igbo parent would welcome their daughter fiancé who's still hustling or financially unstable except their rich parents. their ladies are mere marriage tools and family enrichment. no gender equality In their so called culture after their parent demise, thought Hausa share the same ideology but theirs is just early child marriage


as civilized as Igbo claimed to be, they refuse to eradicate that weird culture in their land. my female Igbo friend suffered the same fate after their parent demise just because they're all girls. their father's properties was share among the families while they left them to their fate

openmine:

I have a question for you....were you there when they were kidnapped in the cab or hotel?
Did you also consider the kind of cab or hotel these people got into?

So people were robbed in a cab....does that make a cab unsafe?
Please nah try and use your God given brain and think nah....smh

You have brought out links of problems associated with cab and hotel....if I may ask.....what are your solutions to the killing of that lady?
Or is ur solution to just pray and hope that hoodlums don't see you?

MarieSucre:


Yes it does. It does make cabs unsafe. But that is the point I'm trying to make that you're fighting me like we're enemies. Cabs are unsafe but we somehow have to take them, it's sometimes unavoidable. The night is not safe, but with the examples I have given before, sometimes it is unavoidable to be out and about at night.

The point of my argument is that blaming the lady for being about at night leading to her killing is like blaming a fish for being in water and being killed by a shark. The night shouldn't have to be unsafe and lots of countries have achieved this, whether by community consciousness or government proving better security. Let us do better for ourselves instead of blaming people.

dafemnet:
chai, this olosho is here again.

MarieSucre:

Your mum? Yes she was here some minutes back with one of her customers.

MarieSucre:


Yes it does. It does make cabs unsafe. But that is the point I'm trying to make that you're fighting me like we're enemies. Cabs are unsafe but we somehow have to take them, it's sometimes unavoidable. The night is not safe, but with the examples I have given before, sometimes it is unavoidable to be out and about at night.

MarieSucre:

The point of my argument is that blaming the lady for being about at night leading to her killing is like blaming a fish for being in water and being killed by a shark. The night shouldn't have to be unsafe and lots of countries have achieved this, whether by community consciousness or government proving better security. Let us do better for ourselves instead of blaming people.

openmine:


Madam we are not enemies.....I wish you had reasoned with me abinitio rather than going guns blazing with insults.....

Now we are not just talking about just any kind of place! this is a remote area in imo state that is expected to be filled with hooligans and bandits....
This may not be the first time she may have been hearing of kidnapping or armed robbery incidence around that area!
However she still continued on the journey which caused her untimely demise!

If I knew or was informed that a particular area is not safe during the wee hours of the night....will I pass through it around that time? Absolutely not!

As sad as her gruesome and unfortunate death is to us,we must learn from this "mistake" of hers so that we don't fall into the same circumstance or predicament just like her!

That's why I advocated for prudence and wisdom!
Not every bus or cab is going to your destination..... That's why we need to stay vigilant and if possible get to our destinations as early as possible!





Even a fish knows where the shark resides in the water but foolishly and stubbornly goes to where the shark is....and thats because the brain of a fish cannot be compared to that of a human!

Your solutions are quite noble but that can only happen when the police force is decentralized and made a state police!
But until then,we are our own security and must do all we can to stay alive until the right thing is done!

MarieSucre:


You're making a lot of assumptions sir. Assumptions are the first demise of logic. The reasons you're making these assumptions is to further make your opinions palatable.

"This may not be the first time she may have been hearing of kidnapping or armed robbery incidence around that area!"

This is all speculation. She might or might not have heard. We cannot assume she has and then fault her on it. Even if she has, if that was her destination that night, what would you have her do? Do you turn back from going to your village even when you have heard of the crimes committed there both daytime and night.

MarieSucre:

"If I knew or was informed that a particular area is not safe during the wee hours of the night....will I pass through it around that time? Absolutely not!"

Do you know even as affluent as my estate is, every 9 houses have an electric-fortified fence, armed estate security, once in a while we do experience unrest along the roads leading to it. Should people not live here again. Should we turn everywhere to uninhabited desert every time there are signs of thuggery there?

MarieSucre:

The fish do not swim to where the shark is. The shark itself is a fish. They all share the ocean. The same way we humans share the earth.

MarieSucre:

Using wisdom and prudence are empty words. Wisdom and prudence did not stop those passengers from killing that uber driver, how was he to know that two well dressed men would end his life. It did not stop the gang rape of that woman, how was she to spiritually know that this nice looking hotel with well-mannered staff would turn to a hell on earth as night fell.

MarieSucre:

I've asked you this question before. How do you even know now that in the comfort of your home, after coming in "early" you cannot be attacked and meet the same fate? Would you then say you lacked wisdom and prudence?

Bigval5:



Alright focus on your culture and leave Other peoples culture. No need to poke nose no culture does it better.