Hi guys, will you marry a girl that has a child outside wedlock?

What's wrong wit that?

since its for guys only, i wont ask . .








but seriously, wat does it change?

yessss

if really u love and adore her,den its no big deal huh?

IMO. No.

No i wouldnt dare think of it, let alone act it! I know some ppl wil crucify me 4 saying so bt thats my candid opinion. There ar more to that.

Would you rather marry one who heartlessly killed a baby thru abortion?
Plz answer.

Odunnu:

Would you rather marry one who heartlessly killed a baby thru abortion?
Plz answer.

are u a guy?

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It's hard to answer as this is a hypothetical question, maybe when I'm confronted with the case I might think differently

Women are too pationate about these topics
Have you ever asked why the person she had the baby for did not marry her

absolutely, what's the harm

Depends on what kind of girl she is but that'll be a tough decision to make.

kosi.man:

Hi guys, will you marry a girl that has a child outside wedlock?

I wouldnt marry a man with a child [B]PERIOD![/B]

Carolece:

I wouldnt marry a man with a child [B]PERIOD![/B]

i lik u , u dey talk tru, no mind does gurls weh don fuk finish born pikin every were d wan mak single guy marry dem. me no dey marry oo

Madukaele:

i lik u , u dey talk tru, no mind does gurls weh don fuk finish born pikin every were d wan mak single guy marry dem. me no dey marry oo

start over in standard English because I had a hard time comprehending this gibberish. Sorry

See as the babes just dey ask what's wrong with that. Una no go wait make the guys talk una wan dey use attempt to corrupt the honesty in boys dem answers ehn?

A lto of questions will be asked and answers will be required. It's not easy raising another man's child and doing a proper job at it.

Onchedu:

See as the babes just dey ask what's wrong with that. Una no go wait make the guys talk una wan dey use attempt to corrupt the honesty in boys dem answers ehn?

No be boy give am bele? So she's good to Bleep not to marry sebi?

Onchedu:

A lto of questions will be asked and answers will be required. It's not easy raising another man's child and doing a proper job at it.

It comes with alot more baggages at times. Most feared one for me is the baby mama drama. There is no way I could stop or want a man not to have contact with his kids and if the kids are young he must contact with the mother, and I am not prepared to share my man's attention at no time with another woman or child. Everyone has their personal preference, and I will never take up with a man and child/ren. Same goes for a man who dogs around, never will I share him knowingly. Ne'Ver!

I ask this question because i love this girl(27) and she is all a man can dream of, slim and beautiful, she is very organised, b/4 now i do not have much savings because of friends (love entertainning) when i met her she stoped most of these things and my friends hated her for that. She shaped my life for good and now i can save 70% of my income. the only thing is that she has a child outside wedlock 4 a married man (unknowingly) she refused to be the 2nd wife and went on with her life.

She didn't hide it from me, i'm thinking of sticking to her but my friends  says she is a 2nd hand and i shld go for new one (my girl b4 i met this girl). My mum dnt like her either.

But she is like a mother to me and i love her, I'm just confused on how to carry on. what do i do?

Follow ur heart bro, i bet its a tough one but it's no big deal.

Just do your thing but make sure she is okay beneath, lol

African_queen:

No be boy give am bele? So she's good to bleep not to marry sebi?

And what case are U making here? that cos a boy is responsible for the pregnancy then the masculine gender should volunteer to redeem their image by donating any boy to care for the child?

Carolece:

It comes with alot more baggages at times. Most feared one for me is the baby mama drama. There is no way I could stop or want a man not to have contact with his kids and if the kids are young he must contact with the mother, and I am not prepared to share my man's attention at no time with another woman or child. Everyone has their personal preference, and I will never take up with a man and child/ren. Same goes for a man who dogs around, never will I share him knowingly. Ne'Ver!
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Abi?

African_queen:

No be boy give am bele? So she's good to bleep not to marry sebi?

U make it sound like she was used. He didn't bleep her. They bleeped each other. abi na rape?

Wait o, is that what those girls that lie down like log are doing when they're getting bleeped? Preserving a case for their consciences should things go wrong? "he did it to me I didnt do anything"

Strong point carolece.
Dude, unless u can deal with the drama that comes with that sorta package, do not marry her !!!

Me thinks marital relationships has enough dramas itself, now adding more dramas to an already dramatic situation?
I dont want be at the receiving end of that.

But if you decide to go through with the marriage, don't count on love alone to salvate what could bounce on your marriage in the near future IF the baby's dad wants to be a part of the baby's life (which i'm sure he does, else he wouldnt want to marry the girl in the 1st place).

U have to know that regardless of how your girl feels about her baby's dad, the child has become a strong connection between its birth parents.
I'm not suggesting u shouldnt marry her, I'm just pointing out the obvious; if u intend to marry her, u must make some certain allowances.
Good luck mate.

Carolece:

It comes with alot more baggages at times. Most feared one for me is the baby mama drama. There is no way I could stop or want a man not to have contact with his kids and if the kids are young he must contact with the mother, and I am not prepared to share my man's attention at no time with another woman or child. Everyone has their personal preference, and I will never take up with a man and child/ren. Same goes for a man who dogs around, never will I share him knowingly. Ne'Ver!

Carolece:

I wouldnt marry a man with a child [B]PERIOD![/B]

Did you get the Question? GUYS not GIRLS

the qstion is Guys will you marry, not GIRLS will you marry, PLS read well before you ans

kosi.man:

I ask this question because i love this girl(27) and she is all a man can dream of, slim and beautiful, she is very organised, b/4 now i do not have much savings because of friends (love entertainning) when i met her she stoped most of these things and my friends hated her for that. She shaped my life for good and now i can save 70% of my income. the only thing is that she has a child outside wedlock 4 a married man (unknowingly) she refused to be the 2nd wife and went on with her life.

She didn't hide it from me, i'm thinking of sticking to her but my friends  says she is a 2nd hand and i shld go for new one (my girl b4 i met this girl). My mum dnt like her either.

But she is like a mother to me and i love her, I'm just confused on how to carry on. what do i do?

Dude it's Ur choice. U said it Urself, U love her and it sounds to me like she has been there for U and added value to ur life. She chooses to not be the second wife to the man, that's a good sign. There's a lot of work U will have to do on Urself to go through taking her and her child in keeping the end in mind.

LOVE.4BUG:

Did you get the Question? GUYS not GIRLS

the qstion is Guys will you marry, not GIRLS will you marry, PLS read well before you ans

dies,,

Oh, I'm sorry, my bad, I got a bit carried away. Yall carry on.

Marriage is more about love and comparability.
A virgin that you don't love and can not tolerate makes worst home.
So,if you love her,her child should not be an issue.