Elder001:


I'm done with you madam.

I don't know why any woman will criticize the lady's tweet.

If you're not financially stable stop disturbing people for marriage -that's her advice.

You're not even supposed to argue with someone that uses Namaste like that my good man. Girls like that are those who will break their husbands back with responsibilities and can't afford to buy bread in the house

We aren't an island and when some people say "only Nigerian ladies" or "only Nairaland ladies", they are the ones who have to chill.

Also Nairalanders - learning, entertaining, selling, interacting, etc on Nairaland are scattered all over the world.

Igbokiller:
we are Nigerians not british, sorry



Let's deal with our own shii

Thanks a lot

Elder001:


I got married in November 2015.

BTW, the best social media platform to find a real man is twitter. So real.

I won't hesitate to inform you if a friend is interested in marriage (people are scared of marriage these days).

spiceadole:


My financial status depends on who I am dealing with.

To my parents and siblings, I am independent.
To the "average,typical Nigerian man",I rather act dependent.
I once picked my bill on a date.. Dude sent me an SMS saying "You insulted me today. I asked you out on a date,you ordered an expensive wine and paid for it, to show me you don't give a damn about me. ".
That was how it ended before it even started.
My friends blamed me.

My ex left me because according to him, I was too independent. I earned only 10K less than him. My salary was more regular.
I could afford to do things for myself (shop for groceries, change my hair, buy airtime, clothes, etc) without asking him for money. And that was quite "UNFEMININE"..It made him feel he was dating a fellow man. Women were not created/meant to be independent else what would they need men for?
He later got married to an OND holder who was teaching in a private nursery school.

She became a full time housewife after the marriage.
The funny thing is :On social media, he is part of those guys who abhor dependent women but encourage women to be financially stable... Meanwhile, he dumped an independent for a dependent one who needs him for everything including drinking water.

The wife of a man who has ego can never be successful. He would always pull her down, stunt her dreams and make her lesser than him in order to massage his useless ego.

It is foolishness for you as a man to marry someone that can't take executive decisions in your absence. I'll rather marry a lady who can hold a board meeting on my behalf in my absence.

MrMcJay:


The wife of a man who has ego can never be successful. He would always pull her down, stunt her dreams and make her lesser than him in order to massage his useless ego.

It is foolishness for you as a man to marry someone that can't take executive decisions in your absence. I'll rather marry a lady who can hold a board meeting on my behalf in my absence.

This is what most guys say on social media.
In reality, they do the opposite.

spiceadole:

This is what most guys say on social media.
In reality, they do the opposite.

Most, not all.

Then stop painting Nigerian women in bad light. Making them look like they are the worst on earth.
All over the world, women "marry up". A woman marrying "below" her, although not an uncommon phenomenon is Not mainstream (yet), everywhere. .

Igbokiller:
we are Nigerians not british, sorry



Let's deal with our own shii

We are not an Island. Nobody is. Sorry. Shi.

we are Nigerians not british, sorry



Let's deal with our own shii

StrongandMighty:
Truth of the century



This girl will surely make heaven.

We have checked and can confirm that her name is indeed in the book of life, written with permanent marker.

Your mumu no be here.

So it's wrong for a lady to make money? ladies shouldn't make money because they get pregnant and have babies?

Linda ikeji, Paris Hilton, Fulurono alakija and other female billionaires they can't get pregnant or give birth abi?

Women in the west who work and share bills 50/50 with their husbands they don't also get pregnant, right?


This was how one married woman in family section said she can't work because she bleed monthly .


Don't go and make money ,keep depending on men for survival.


The difference between stupidity and genius is that genius has its limits -Albert Einstein

Ode, don't go and make money like your make stay there and be looking for woman that will feed you

Rooneyboy:

Your stupidity is topnotch. I'm surprise someone could be this daft.

Na your father daft, idiot

This is a big lie of the century. Ladies need not to be financially successful before considering marriage as it is not a big criteria for them as it is for men. While it is imperative for a man to be financially viable before going into marriage, ladies need not to waste their time in the name of waiting for financial success before marriage. What basically qualify a lady for marriage is ability to have content affection for her man and work with him to give care and love to the children they want to raise together.

Let's stop misleading ladies into thinking that they are burden to their husbands if they(the ladies) aren't yet working or financially successful

nlanded:
Sense would not kill this babe!