You've heard of playing hard to get, right?

Here's the scenario:

You are beautiful

Several men have asked for a date with you

But, you think you shouldn’t tell them ‘yes’ immediately

It's not as if you are not interested in their proposal

You simply want them to ask and ask again before you say 'yes'

So, you decide to play hard to get in order to make them work for it.

You just want to be chased. You are simply enjoying the game.

You know what?

It is time to stop that game.


Check out the frightening reasons below:

1. You will lose a potential partner

The thing is, a good man that likes you but respect boundaries will not pester you for long. He will go and talk to other women. It is not because he doesn't like you, but because it is not right to always ask a lady out for months until she agrees to go out with you.

On the other hand, men who don't respect your boundaries will still continue to pester you. It's not because they are in love with you, but because 'no' means nothing to them.

They don't care about what you want, they are only concerned about what they want.

You agreeing to date after a few requests do not make you cheap. If you wait for a man to chase you for months before you think of giving him a chance, you are really setting up yourself for failure.

2. You will fall into wrong hands

People who only want what they can’t have don't value what they manage to get. For some of them, by the time they managed to get you and they see your imperfections, they feel disappointed that they have wasted their precious time chasing an imperfect woman. Such men tend to behave in an unacceptable manner.

3. You will end up alone

Let me tell you one truth here. Women are everywhere searching for husbands. The thing is, good men are scarce. If you don't want to stay alone for the rest of your life, you better stop playing hard to get. It is an express road to a life of loneliness.

4. Men will treat you like a thing to use

Playing hard to get is the same as treating yourself as a “thing to be acquired”. Men who do not have good values will also treat you like a thing to use. Your desires and thoughts mean nothing to them. This is the reason why some women complained that men treat them like their property. It is the way you present yourself that you will be treated.

You can add the fifth one!

Curled from: https://relationshipmatas101.com/playing-hard-to-get/

The only reason i know is MENOPAUSE

ladywriter:
You've heard of playing hard to get, right?

Here's the scenario:

You are beautiful

Several men have asked for a date with you

But, you think you shouldn’t tell them ‘yes’ immediately

It's not as if you are not interested in their proposal

You simply want them to ask and ask again before you say 'yes'

So, you decide to play hard to get in order to make them work for it.

You just want to be chased. You are simply enjoying the game.

You know what?

It is time to stop that game.


Check out the frightening reasons below:

1. You will lose a potential partner

The thing is, a good man that likes you but respect boundaries will not pester you for long. He will go and talk to other women. It is not because he doesn't like you, but because it is not right to always ask a lady out for months until she agrees to go out with you.

On the other hand, men who don't respect your boundaries will still continue to pester you. It's not because they are in love with you, but because 'no' means nothing to them.

They don't care about what you want, they are only concerned about what they want.

You agreeing to date after a few requests do not make you cheap. If you wait for a man to chase you for months before you think of giving him a chance, you are really setting up yourself for failure.

2. You will fall into wrong hands

People who only want what they can’t have don't value what they manage to get. For some of them, by the time they managed to get you and they see your imperfections, they feel disappointed that they have wasted their precious time chasing an imperfect woman. Such men tend to behave in an unacceptable manner.

3. You will end up alone

Let me tell you one truth here. Women are everywhere searching for husbands. The thing is, good men are scarce. If you don't want to stay alone for the rest of your life, you better stop playing hard to get. It is an express road to a life of loneliness.

4. Men will treat you like a thing to use

Playing hard to get is the same as treating yourself as a “thing to be acquired”. Men who do not have good values will also treat you like a thing to use. Your desires and thoughts mean nothing to them. This is the reason why some women complained that men treat them like their property. It is the way you present yourself that you will be treated.

You can add the fifth one!

Curled from: https://relationshipmatas101.com/playing-hard-to-get/

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Olusharp:
boss lady... In case you know of any blog in need of a relationship writer... I am very much available...

Ok, please drop your email address.

What most girls don't understand is that 70% of responsible men cannot just pester a girl for a serious relationship.

Pestering stops at secondary school and early university , anyone pestering a girl for love is a potential playboy.

The funny thing is that those hard to get girls come falling for useless guys with smooth talk and some blings. Those are the mumu ones that will be shouting "men are scum"

ITbomb:
What most girls don't understand is that 70% of responsible men cannot just pester a girl for a serious relationship.

Pestering stops at secondary school and early university , anyone pestering a girl for love is a potential playboy.

The funny thing is that those hard to get girls come falling for useless guys with smooth talk and some blings. Those are the mumu ones that will be shouting "men are scum"

Yes, you are right.

Meow.

ladywriter:


Ok, please drop your email address.

olu200016@gmail.com

On point!

Ok

ITbomb:
What most girls don't understand is that 70% of responsible men cannot just pester a girl for a serious relationship.

Pestering stops at secondary school and early university , anyone pestering a girl for love is a potential playboy.

The funny thing is that those hard to get girls come falling for useless guys with smooth talk and some blings. Those are the mumu ones that will be shouting "men are scum"

There’s a difference between playing hard to get, and creating a challenge, not making it too easy. Will you value the prize if you didn’t work hard to get it? Do you value anything that is easily accessible? If I like a guy I will definitely let him know, but completely revealing my vulnerability and not making him work to get me is something I will not do.

How can you let a guy know you like him and not reveal your vulnerability?

Saff:
There’s a difference between playing hard to get, and creating a challenge, not making it too easy. Will you value the prize if you didn’t work hard to get it? Do you value anything that is easily accessible? If I like a guy I will definitely let him know, but completely revealing my vulnerability and not making him work to get me is something I will not do.

LLSAINT:
How can you let a guy know you like him and not reveal your vulnerability?

balance

Saff:
balance

lol you are one funny fellow..... What you wrote up there shows that you are treating yourself like a trophy, d0 you know what happens to a trophy, after a tournament

treasureboy09:
lol you are one funny fellow..... What you wrote up there shows that you are treating yourself like a trophy, d0 you know what happens to a trophy, after a tournament

Savagery!

Lwkm! Feminists can testify to number 3

Lol

Why would a mature and responsible guy pester a girl for a relationship?
I see guys who keep pestering girls as playboys or jobless guys.. I mean those days are over it was during secondary school or first and second year in the university...

Nowadays is the ladies that keep coming cause they know that serious minded guys like me don't have time to troll girls .. If a girl forms hard to get no p .. They are other alternatives..

why should ladies play easy to get?

Saff:
There’s a difference between playing hard to get, and creating a challenge, not making it too easy. Will you value the prize if you didn’t work hard to get it? Do you value anything that is easily accessible? If I like a guy I will definitely let him know, but completely revealing my vulnerability and not making him work to get me is something I will not do.

Work to get

ladywriter:
You've heard of playing hard to get, right?

Here's the scenario:

You are beautiful

Several men have asked for a date with you

But, you think you shouldn’t tell them ‘yes’ immediately

It's not as if you are not interested in their proposal

You simply want them to ask and ask again before you say 'yes'

So, you decide to play hard to get in order to make them work for it.

You just want to be chased. You are simply enjoying the game.

You know what?

It is time to stop that game.


Check out the frightening reasons below:

1. You will lose a potential partner

The thing is, a good man that likes you but respect boundaries will not pester you for long. He will go and talk to other women. It is not because he doesn't like you, but because it is not right to always ask a lady out for months until she agrees to go out with you.

On the other hand, men who don't respect your boundaries will still continue to pester you. It's not because they are in love with you, but because 'no' means nothing to them.

They don't care about what you want, they are only concerned about what they want.

You agreeing to date after a few requests do not make you cheap. If you wait for a man to chase you for months before you think of giving him a chance, you are really setting up yourself for failure.

2. You will fall into wrong hands

People who only want what they can’t have don't value what they manage to get. For some of them, by the time they managed to get you and they see your imperfections, they feel disappointed that they have wasted their precious time chasing an imperfect woman. Such men tend to behave in an unacceptable manner.

3. You will end up alone

Let me tell you one truth here. Women are everywhere searching for husbands. The thing is, good men are scarce. If you don't want to stay alone for the rest of your life, you better stop playing hard to get. It is an express road to a life of loneliness.

4. Men will treat you like a thing to use

Playing hard to get is the same as treating yourself as a “thing to be acquired”. Men who do not have good values will also treat you like a thing to use. Your desires and thoughts mean nothing to them. This is the reason why some women complained that men treat them like their property. It is the way you present yourself that you will be treated.

You can add the fifth one!

Curled from: https://relationshipmatas101.com/playing-hard-to-get/

5. Why didn't this make front page?