There is this girl in my neighborhood that I like so much but I am finding it difficult to Tell her my feelings. She is currently in her final year [400L] in a federal University, she will be through with her final exam this month. I am also in 400L [Another federal Uni] but currently doing my I.T [My course is 5years]. Aside d fact that she will graduate before me, her family is doing well enough. Unlike me, I would say I come from a poor home. If i'm to be fair with myself I actually think it's these facts that I just mentioned that is affecting my self-esteem. I brought these up because I want advise..

1. Should I tell her how I feel about her irrespective of my financial concern or current status?
2. Or I should just focus on my education and life, then after making it better for myself I can then go for her. CU's i believe whatever is meant for us will surely be. But I don't know if it's true.

lest I forget, we are friends, just that I can't read her mind whether she have d same for me but i'm definitely sure she does not hate me.

Do u want to tell her or not?

Love is a beautiful thing.you not expressing your feelings to her,is self denial...make it known to her...she may or may not accept it.money is not everything,though it has it's own role.for the fact she's your friend,is not a guarantee to accepting you as the love of her life....what if after school God favours you with a good paying job,so stop seeing yourself as been poor.by the way...if u no go tell her,clear well make anoda guy see parking space.

Bro if you have feelings for her
Open up to her

You might regret if you do not
Like am regretting now �

Bro open up to her tell her. How you feel about her.. or else another person will take over..from you

Homeboiy:
Do u want to tell her or not?

Yeah bro but I'm scared of rejection, this is someone that respects me so much.

LOL don't procrastinate.

Just go ahead & open up to her, I doubt she would reject you, its a 50/50 risk though but a good one at that.

A lot of times you would need money to impress a lady but not this one, because her parents are already doing well, so she might just be interested in a caring/loving guy as oppose to a guy who will pay her bills as 95% of Nigeria ladies look forward to

So it is a win/win for you. She can even help improve your life by connecting you.

donbachi:
Love is a beautiful thing.you not expressing your feelings to her,is self denial...make it known to her...she may or may not accept it.money is not everything,though it has it's own role.for the fact she's your friend,is not a guarantee to accepting you as the love of her life....what if after school God favours you with a good paying job,so stop seeing yourself as been poor.by the way...if u no go tell her,clear well make anoda guy see parking space.

Thank u so much for this piece, it's indeed self denial, and I will not forgive myself if I lose her because of this.

Ikpa!!!



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How long av you being friends with her? just pray she aint seeing you as her bro yet

Meanwhile i will advice you study her personality first since your friends already not all girls are after money try to know her kind of person before making any funny move dont rush things.

If she's the money type run bro run GOD'S SPEED

but if she aint find out what makes her happy and do them to the best of ur ability don't kill yourself, don't tell her how you feel about her instead show her make her get the picture even without saying a word, make her understand that you love her you don't av to say anything if you do the right things she will eventually get the picture if your her kind of guy am sure she would give in without you asking don't make the mistake of waiting till you made it in life what if she's married by then

pls don't embarrass yourself in front of that girl o, I don't wanna hear u commit suicide out of depression o...even if she agrees to date u, you will be in 500l while she's doing nysc forking anoda diick, is that the kind of life u want?

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Lets Be Frank.


You Love Her Or You Want To Fvck her... Sometimes We Feel We Love But When You Taste The pussy the Love Dies. That Aint Love Bro its lust...



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bro, abeg start shooting your shot nah

Focus on your career

Make it big


And bitches will come chasing you.

To tell you the truth she will reject and hate you more when you ask her out. We ladies date up and don’t date boys below our level. Just try and make money so you can be attractive to better women than her. The world has evolved no more love.

Afterall ‘Closed legs does not pay the bills, Open legs does ‘

Nawa o, how old are you op? I don't know what's so difficult in asking a lady out... worst will be "I'm not interested"