Has it not baffled you when you ask about the virginity of a very quiet lady, who is religious, so reserved, dresses decently and stays indoors, but she replies "I am not a virgin"... If you have encountered such, you may begin to wonder: but how, & who & when did she loose this virginity? you may even look at her long skirt to begin to imagine how such a cute & decent lady could spread her legs. Now you will know that temptation is for all. The issue here is, you can only trust yourself better, and secrets belongs to individuals. Therefore, nobody is a virgin until you hear from them saying "I am virgin". Do not assume virginity by looks, else you will feel so disappointed. People make mistakes, so go with an open mind so that you won't feel disappointed.

Maybe she was raped or lost it when she was small daddy and mummy thing or others it doesn't mean she's not a good girl cos she's not a virgin

is she honest, faithful and reasonable?...without these traits ,she should move on

chiommy123:
Maybe she was raped or lost it when she was small daddy and mummy thing or others it doesn't mean she's not a good girl cos she's not a virgin

You are making a very good point. God bless you.