Hmmm, This thread my just degenerate into some boys listing names of girls that have toasted them in a not so honourable manner & giving details that have not been solicited leading to lies; slander, exposure in negative light & defamation of character, which I'd like say are some reasons why most girls would rather not.

Simply put, some guys don't know how to shut up especially when indulged in an uncommon way.

Ps: those guys caling girls that don't ''old school" need to respect that some of us still prefer them that way.

i've toasted guys two times in my life, its a bad idea, they dont last cos when you toast them they will never say no but they actually dont need you on a long run

@whiteroses, all men are not the same, try some1 like me and i'll give u all the appreciation u've missed all ur life. try and u'll see,

whiteroses:

i've toasted guys two times in my life, its a bad idea, they dont last cos when you toast them they will never say no but they actually dont need you on a long run

oya come and toast me. u won't regret it i promise

whiteroses:

i've toasted guys two times in my life, its a bad idea, they dont last cos when you toast them they will never say no but they actually dont need you on a long run

Eyaah
maybe u feel in love with them for the wrong reason and they try to take advantage of that.
those guy are no real guys
real guys understand what he wants and he will decline politely if he is not intrested in you.

Specifications, mismatch, frequency just to name a few.

cos its not in our culture in africa

poor you, i've lost counts of hotties that have chicked me

and why must a girl toast a guy?

simplychic:

cos its not in our culture in africa

which kin culture

a green light should be enough for me chiao o

I do ask guys out, but I cant ask a 9ja guy out! Most of them end up getting it all twisted.

Girl: Hi, you wanna go out for lunch sometime?.
Boy: Yeah sure. . . . ****(in his mind) Omo, mehn this babe like me die. I be fine boy ooooo. make i call my friends tell them say this babe dey trip for me, so they go confirm say i be fine boy for real jor, no be say na me talk*** 


^^^^NO THANK YOU!! 

lolz @ lindabon
, when d guy no b bread

who says girls dont toast guyz? it happened to me some yrs back,

If a girls toasts U as a guy and u are not interested, do not lead her on for her egos sake. it is better to say NO. it is 99% likely to be counter-productive and could lead u to losing her as a friend later on. She will definitely get over ur NO. Ladies in this age are much bolder and would even get over it immediately. Also, be careful with your answer to WHY CANT YOU DATE ME. If u are able to say NO and ur answer to the latter does not hurt her feelings then all is well and good.

You need to be a bold babe to pull that off & the guy needs to be living abroad with a lot of exposure & orientation 4rm there. Naija men based here would just see the babe as free punny and eat to till they have exhausted the babes nutrients.

The babe must also be fine or good looking with a good character & demonstrate high level of intelligence. She must be checkable & worth the trouble or the guy would be disinterested & may think she is cheap, loose, desperate & all.

The guy must be the coded type, discreet, quiet not too lousy, matured & they must not share the same set of friends.

She must have control over her body parts & intimacy. Once she misses this step, she is toast. I mean she can flirt, seduce & tease but she needs to give room for suspense, mystery & curiosity. If he was the one toasting then no qualms but since its the other way round, she needs to reserve some pride & respect for herself.

She must switch tempo. Let him want you too & chase you then you love, then act up just confuse him and stall the process a little. I mean you went against the female code to ask him out, at least tortue him too & let him work for it. Fight with him sometimes & threaten him sometimes and then be all sweet. That way you are not predictable & you are also keeping him entertained.

For you to do this, you must be very good with psychology. Keep other male friends & show him he has competitors. show him whose boss. Be an interesting person, challenge him with current affairs. Don't be a block head & dutch bag. Be extremely creative & always make sure you are unique or different. Have a great sense of humor so you can make him smile & laugh.

If his shakara is too much, free him abeg, hiss

@lindabon, I've seen Niaja guys that are the direct opposite of the description you posted above. My best friend was approached by his girlfriend. Today, they are married with kids. The love they have seems to be growing every day.

Let's just say you've not met the right guy. Goodluck in Life dear.


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A girl once asked m out, I eventually fell deeply in love with her, but anytime we quarreled she neva forgot to say the reason for my behaviour is because she asked me out in the first place, Dat it's not my fault, I wudnt mind a girl asking me out but she must be matured abt it